People Smart - Interpersonal Intelligence
is concerned with the capacity to understand the intentions,
motivations and desires of other people.
Understanding of human
Formation of healthy social and / or formal
and between students, teachers and others.
The capacity and ability to recognize and
different points of view.
People Smart and Self Smart
are closely Related.
Building relationships of trust, respect and productive interactions.
What makes a person tick?
is any skill facilitating interaction and
communication with others. Social rules and relations are created,
communicated, and changed in verbal and nonverbal ways. The process of
learning these skills is called
which refers to the lifelong process of inheriting and
customs, values and ideologies, providing an individual with the skills
and habits necessary for participating within their own society.
Socialization is thus "the means by which social and cultural continuity
are attained" .
are a combination of interpersonal people
skills, social skills,
, character traits, attitudes, career attributes
and emotional intelligence quotient
others that enable people to effectively navigate their environment, work
well with others, perform well, and achieve their goals with complementing
are patterns of behavior and behavior interactions,
among people; it is an umbrella term for skills under three related set of
abilities: personal effectiveness, interaction skills, and intercession
Social Cognition Theory
holds that portions of an
individual's knowledge acquisition can be directly related to observing
others within the context of social interactions, experiences, and outside
media influences. The theory states that when people observe a model
performing a behavior and the consequences of that behavior, they remember
the sequence of events and use this information to guide subsequent
behaviors. Observing a model can also prompt the viewer to engage in
behavior they already learned. In other words, people do not learn new
behaviors solely by trying them and either succeeding or failing, but
rather, the survival of humanity is dependent upon the replication of the
actions of others. Depending on whether people are rewarded or punished
for their behavior and the outcome of the behavior, the observer may
choose to replicate behavior modeled. Media provides models for a vast
array of people in many different environmental settings.
focuses on how people process, store, and
apply information about other people and social situations. It focuses on
the role that
play in our social interactions.
exchange of information
between two or more people.
is the branch of Anthropology
that compares and analyzes the
characteristics of different peoples and the relationship between them
(cf. cultural, social, or sociocultural anthropology).
is a representation of a small human being. Popularized in
sixteenth-century alchemy and nineteenth-century fiction, it has
historically referred to the creation of a miniature, fully formed human.
The concept has roots in preformationism as well as earlier folklore and
is the study and analysis of the patterns,
causes, and effects of health and disease conditions in defined
populations. It is the cornerstone of public health, and shapes policy
decisions and evidence-based practice by identifying risk factors for
disease and targets for preventive healthcare.
The Golden Rule
is the principle of treating others as one
would wish to be treated. It is a maxim of altruism seen in many human
religions and human cultures. The maxim may appear as either a positive or
negative injunction governing conduct: One should treat others as one
would like others to treat oneself (positive or directive form). One
should not treat others in ways that one would not like to be treated
(negative or prohibitive form). What you wish upon others, you wish upon
yourself (empathic or responsive form).
refers to metrics related to human
characteristics. Biometrics authentication (or realistic authentication)
is used in computer science as a form of
. It is also used to identify individuals in groups that
are under surveillance.
is giving and receiving
recognition as human beings. Morals
Improve your Social Skills
How to Judge People Based on Their Appearance
How to Judge a Persons Character
NowMeta Morf Us
People Skills Decoded
Robert Sapolsky: The Uniqueness of Humans
are people born during the years 1946 and 1964.
early 1960s to the early 1980s.
or Generation Y, are years ranging from the early 1980s to
or i-Generation, are people born after the Millennials,
starting in the mid-1990s
We have to be extremely careful with
and narrow minded
descriptions like Personality Types
is the work of an actor or actress, which is a person in theatre,
television, film, or any other storytelling medium who tells the story by
portraying a character and usually, speaking or singing the written text
refers to a range of techniques for training actors to achieve better
characterizations of the characters they play.
refers to the changing of one's behaviour to assume a role, either
unconsciously to fill a social role, or consciously to act out an adopted
contraction of the words costume play, is a performance art in which
participants called cosplayers wear costumes and fashion accessories to
represent a specific character.
is a person in a narrative work of art (such as a novel, play,
. A character who stands as a representative of a particular
class or group of people is known as a type.
is a supporting actor who plays unusual, interesting, or eccentric
characters who are very different from the actor's off-screen real-life
is a literary device in which a fictional character who
is the real author of a work of fiction appears as an idealized character
within that fiction, either overtly or in disguise.
is an imaginary person
represented in a work of fiction (play or film or
). An actor's
portrayal of someone in a play.
distinctive style of dress of an individual or group that reflects their
class, gender, profession, ethnicity, nationality, activity or epoch.
is an object
normally worn on the face, typically for protection, disguise,
performance, or entertainment. Masks have been used since antiquity for
both ceremonial and practical purposes. They are usually worn on the face,
although they may also be positioned for effect elsewhere on the wearer's
body. In parts of Australia, giant totem masks cover the body, whilst
Inuit women use finger masks during storytelling and dancing.
) is a process in which an individual changes or
"masks" their natural personality
pressures, abuse, and/or
Some examples of masking are a single overly dominant temperament, or
humor, two incongruent temperaments, or displaying three of the four main
temperaments within the same individual. Masking can be strongly
influenced by environmental factors such as
parents, rejection, and
emotional, physical, or sexual abuse. An individual may not even know he
or she is wearing a mask because it is a behavior that can take many
forms. Masking should not be confused with masking behavior which is to
mentally block feelings of suffering as a survival mechanism.
is someone who is
who acts one way in certain situations and then in a
is someone who imitates or copies the behavior or actions of another.
is an advanced behavior whereby an individual observes and replicates
another's behavior. Look-alike
or double, is a person who closely resembles another person. In popular
Western culture, a look-alike is a person who bears a close physical
resemblance to a celebrity, politician or member of royalty.
is a range of voluntary, intrinsically motivated activities normally
associated with recreational pleasure and enjoyment.
is the process by which a particular actor
becomes strongly identified with a specific character.
21 Things make casting directors happy during auditions
How to be a Film Actor
is also called a screen name, is a
used by performers and entertainers such as actors, comedians, and
can be anything which conceals or changes a
person's physical appearance, including a wig, glasses, makeup, costume or
other items. Camouflage is a type of disguise for people, animals and
objects. Hats, glasses, changes in hair style or wigs, plastic surgery,
and make-up are also used. The appearance of something on the
or hides what's beneath.
when smiling your smile may seem more genuine?
Can you spot a fake
- Liberal Arts
Body Language - Facial Expressions - Micro-Expressions
is one or more motions or positions
of the muscles beneath the skin of the face. According to one set of
controversial theories, these movements convey the emotional state of an
individual to observers. Facial expressions are a form of nonverbal
communication. They are a primary means of conveying social information
between humans, but they also occur in most other mammals and some other
Facial Action Coding System
is a system to taxonomize human
facial movements by their appearance on the face, based on a system
originally developed by a Swedish anatomist named Carl-Herman Hjortsjö.
Micro Expression Training App
Micro Expressions Training Videos
The fusiform face area: a cortical region specialized
for the perception of faces
is a brief, involuntary facial expression
shown on the face of humans according to emotions experienced. They
usually occur in high-stakes situations, where people have something to
lose or gain. Microexpressions occur when a person is consciously trying
to conceal all signs of how they are feeling, or when a person does not
consciously know how they are feeling.] Unlike regular facial expressions,
it is difficult/impossible to hide microexpression reactions.
Microexpressions cannot be controlled as they happen in a fraction of a
second, but it is possible to capture someone's expressions with a high
speed camera and replay them at much slower speeds. Microexpressions
express the seven universal emotions: disgust, anger, fear, sadness,
happiness, contempt, and surprise. Nevertheless, in the 1990s, Paul Ekman
expanded his list of emotions, including a range of positive and negative
emotions not all of which are encoded in facial muscles. These emotions
are amusement, embarrassment, anxiety, guilt, pride, relief, contentment,
pleasure, and shame. They are very brief in duration, lasting only 1⁄25
to 1⁄15 of a second.
Paul EkmanBody Smart
occurs when two people look at each other's eyes at the same time. In
human beings, eye contact is a form of nonverbal communication and is
thought to have a large influence on social behavior. The customs and
significance of eye contact vary between societies, with religious and
social differences often altering its meaning greatly.
is the process of measuring either the point of
gaze (where one is looking) or the motion of an eye relative to the head.
An eye tracker is a device for measuring eye positions and eye movement.
Eye trackers are used in research on the visual system, in psychology, in
psycholinguistics, marketing, as an input device for human-computer
interaction, and in product design. There are a number of methods for
measuring eye movement. The most popular variant uses video images from
which the eye position is extracted. Other methods use search coils or are
based on the electrooculogram.
Foy Vance - "She
is an individual's understanding and
interpretation of the face, particularly the human face, especially in
relation to the associated information processing in the brain. The
proportions and expressions of the human face are important to identify
origin, emotional tendencies, health qualities, and some social
information. From birth, faces are important in the individual's social
interaction. Face perceptions are very complex as the recognition of
facial expressions involves extensive and diverse areas in the brain.
Sometimes, damaged parts of the brain can cause specific impairments in
understanding faces or
, also called face blindness, is a cognitive disorder of
face perception where the ability to recognize familiar faces, including
one's own face (self-recognition), is impaired, while other aspects of
visual processing (e.g., object discrimination) and intellectual
functioning (e.g., decision making) remain intact.
personality from facial images.
is the subtle,
unintentional, unconscious cues that provide information to another
individual. It can be verbal (speech patterns, physical activity while
speaking, or the tone of voice of an individual) or it can be nonverbal
(facial expressions and body language).
is the assessment of a person's character or personality from his or her
outer appearance, especially the face.
Classroom Divided, 1968
is a type of non-verbal communication in which
physical behavior, as opposed to words, is used to express or convey
information. Such behavior includes facial expressions, body posture,
gestures, eye movement, touch and the use of space. Body language exists
in both animals and humans, but this article focuses on interpretations of
human body language. It is also known as kinesics.
can provide a significant amount
of important information through nonverbal communication. Psychological
studies have also demonstrated the effects of body posture on emotions.
Study Body Language
Read Body Language
Body Language University
Cuddy: Body Language
between people is communication
through sending and receiving wordless clues. It includes the use of
visual cues such as body language (kinesics), distance (proxemics) and
physical environments/appearance, of voice (paralanguage) and of
(haptics). It can also include
chronemics (the use of time) and oculesics (eye contact and the actions of
looking while talking and listening, frequency of glances, patterns of
fixation, pupil dilation, and blink rate).
Pupils dilate when we are interested in someone. If you want
someone to like you gaze in their eyes.
Our feet point towards people we are interested in. if you want
someone to trust you let them speak first.
If you want someone to believe you, then nod your head when
If you want someone to like you, then mirror their expressions
Blue clothing could make you seem trustworthy and secure Red
clothing could make you seem dangerous, but also seem loving.
Tilting your head back shows more dominant, while tilting your
head down could mean more submissive.
is a form of
non-verbal communication or non-vocal communication in which visible
bodily actions communicate particular messages, either in place of, or in
conjunction with, speech. Gestures include movement of the hands, face, or
other parts of the body. Gestures differ from physical non-verbal
communication that does not communicate specific messages, such as purely
expressive displays, proxemics, or displays of joint attention. Gestures
allow individuals to communicate a variety of feelings and thoughts, from
contempt and hostility to approval and affection, often together with body
language in addition to words when they speak.
is a movement of part of the body, especially a hand or the
head, to express an idea or meaning.
Misleading Hand Gestures
Hand Gestures in other Countries
List of Gestures
When people believe that no one is watching them, people tend to make more
obvious body language gestures, which some can even be easily
distinguishable from the
corner of your eye
. But even gestures are not always accurate in
determining a persons intentions or beliefs, because people could just be
to a situation without even being fully aware of how they are
reacting, or how their reaction is being understood. Just like any
language, things need to be
to accurately interpret
the message. Observation Flaws
is the reddening of a person's face due to psychological reasons. It is
normally involuntary and triggered by emotional
, such as that associated with embarrassment,
, or romantic
stimulation. Severe blushing is common in people who suffer social
in which the person experiences extreme
and persistent anxiety in
and performance situations.
How to Handshake
is a short ritual in which two people grasp one of
each other's like hands, in most cases accompanied by a brief up and down
movement of the grasped hands.Using the right hand is generally considered
proper etiquette. Customs surrounding handshakes are specific to cultures.
Different cultures may be more or less likely to shake hands, or there may
be different customs about how or when to shake hands. Handshakes are
known to spread germs.
How to Give a Proper Handshake
Bodily-Kinesthetic Body Image
"Just because you're not speaking, doesn't mean that you are not saying anything."
"Words convey information; nonverbal communication adds meaning
to the information."
Every time I
to know what someone looked like just by hearing their voice
over the phone, I was wrong.
The Human Face (2001) Face Documentary Series 1 - 4
Analyze People On Sight - FULL Audio Book - Human Analysis,
Psychology, Body Language
Are Deaf People better at Interpreting
Do you know what these facial
expressions are saying?
anger, disgust, fear, happiness, sadness, and surprise
is the process of
and expressions to fulfill
the emotional requirements of a job. More specifically, workers are
expected to regulate their emotions during interactions with customers,
co-workers and superiors. This includes analysis and decision making in
terms of the expression of emotion, whether actually felt or not, as well
as its opposite: the suppression of emotions that are felt but not
is understood as the art of trying to
change in degree or quality an emotion or feeling. Emotion work may be
defined as the management of one's own feelings, or work done in an effort
to maintain a relationship; there is dispute as to whether emotion work is
only work done regulating one’s own emotion, or extends to performing the
emotional work for others.
is a subject's externally displayed
affect. The display can be by facial, vocal, or gestural means. When
displayed affect is different from the subjective affect, it is
incongruent affect. Affect display may also be referred to as simply
Common Coding Theory
is a cognitive psychology
theory describing how perceptual representations (e.g. of things we can
see and hear) and motor representations (e.g. of hand actions) are linked.
The theory claims that there is a shared representation (a common code)
for both perception and action. More important, seeing an event activates
the action associated with that event, and performing an action activates
the associated perceptual event.
describes the process
whereby in a close relationship, as between mother and child, lovers, or
therapist and patient, parts of the self may in unconscious fantasy be
thought of as being forced into the other person.
Too Much Attention
Decisions are being made right now
. The question is: Are you
making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them
When Observations are Flawed
Observation Flaws and Effects
This list below is what the TSA thinks are the Signs a
person displays that Might indicate that they are a Terrorist.
Exaggerated Yawing. (a tired traveler is not that unusual,
it's called jet lag?)
Excessive complaints about the screening process. (who
hasn't complained about the excessiveness of the screening
Excessive throat clearing. (give them a drink of water)
Widely open staring eyes. (like when a man stares at a
women on the street?)
Wearing improper attire for location. (so fashion is
Whistling as the individual approaches the screening process. (I
can't be happy?)
Gazing down. (Like looking down at your cell phone, some people
prefer not to make eye contact, especially with molesters)
Exaggerated or repetitive grooming gesture. (don't touch
Face pale from recent shaving of beard. (no grooming
Rubbing or wringing of hands. (offer them a coat)
So the TSA knows that you can't tell a
terrorist just by how a person looks or acts. This
is so vague that they can accuse and target
anyone they want, and at the same time, violate a persons privacy
and their rights. So this list of
signs is more about them saying, "Don't say anything bad about
or we will treat you like a terrorist", so the TSA is
basically a terrorist organization themselves.
This list looks like some idiots way of trying to
control peoples behavior, while at the same time, force TSA
Airport Screening Officers to act
towards people, and act disrespectfully
towards the US Constitution? WTF
92-Point Checklist of the Spot Referral Report
Travel Tips and Travel Advice
I am more interested in the TSA's ability to recognize
also to recognize
? And also to recognize their own
? I don't know about you, but I would feel a
lot safer if my security officers were more intelligent and
better trained, just sayin. And don't try tell me that you don't have
the money to improve training, we know how much money you've
taken, so you have more then enough.
is a set of techniques used by mentalists, psychics,
fortune-tellers, mediums and illusionists to imply that the reader knows
much more about the person than the reader actually does. Without prior
knowledge, a practiced cold-reader can quickly obtain a great deal of
information by analyzing the person's body language, age, clothing or
fashion, hairstyle, gender, sexual orientation, religion, race or
ethnicity, level of education, manner of speech, place of origin, etc.
Cold readings commonly employ high-probability guesses, quickly picking up
on signals as to whether their guesses are in the right direction or not,
then emphasizing and reinforcing chance connections and quickly moving on
from missed guesses.
is an enhanced state of sensory
accompanied by an exaggerated intensity of behaviors whose
purpose is to detect
. Hypervigilance is also accompanied by a state of increased
which can cause
symptoms include: abnormally increased arousal, a high responsiveness to
, and a constant scanning of the
environment for threats. Fear
. In hypervigilance,
there is a perpetual scanning of the environment to search for sights,
sounds, people, behaviors, smells, or anything else that is reminiscent of
threat or trauma. The individual is placed on high alert in order to be
certain danger is not near. Hypervigilance can lead to a variety of
obsessive behavior patterns, as well as producing difficulties with
can be a symptom of post traumatic stress
(PTSD) and various types of anxiety disorders. It is
distinguished from paranoia. Paranoid states
such as those in schizophrenia, can seem superficially similar, but are
characteristically different. Hypervigilance is differentiated from
dysphoric hyperarousal in that the person remains
of their surroundings. In dysphoric
hyperarousal, the PTSD victim may lose contact with reality and
re-experience the traumatic event verbatim. Where there have been multiple
, a person may become hypervigilant and
suffer severe anxiety attacks intense enough to induce a
where the effects of related traumas overlap. This can result in the
thousand-yard stare.Some of the common
behaviours of hypervigilance are:
Lack of objectivity – reading too
much into situations. An over awareness of what people see or think about
us. Looking for others to betray constantly. Constantly concerned about
Over scrutiny and
behaviour of situations. Paranoid
TSA Doesn't Stop Terrorist Attacks - Adam Ruins Everything
TSA's 'SPOT' program. 'Screening Passengers By Observation
Technique' Behavior Detection Officers
Carlin - Airport Security
TSA "basically an illusion designed to give us the appearance of
" at a hefty price and a loss of freedoms.
should be the responsibility of the
individual rather than just the state.
Why are there so many names on the U.S. government's terrorist list?
In September 2007, the Inspector General of the Justice Department
reported that the Terrorist Screening Center
organization that consolidates terrorist watch list information in the
United States) had over 700,000 names in its
database as of April 2007
- and that the list was growing by an average of over 20,000 records per
9-in-10 on terror watch list who sought guns were approved in 2015
The problems with using the terrorist watch list to ban gun sales
Almost 16,000 people a day are now applying for
PreCheck. That's a huge increase from less than 7,000 a day in March.
3 million since 2014
Pay $85 for PreCheck, valid for five years.
Again the wealthy are f*cking the poor.
MOSAIC Threat Assessment
10 years almost 200 employees and contract workers of the Department
of Homeland Security have taken nearly $15 million in
while being paid
to protect the nation’s borders and enforce immigration laws. Records show
that Border Patrol officers and customs agents, who protect more than
7,000 miles of the border and deal most directly with drug cartels and
smugglers, have taken the most in bribes, about $11 million.
"People who give up essential liberty to
obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor
"Security is mostly a superstition. It does
not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole
experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than
outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or
"Man must exist in a state of balance
between risk and safety. Pure risk leads to self-destruction.
Pure safety leads to stagnation. In between lies survival and
Body Language Descriptions:
What other things about peoples appearance that might be of
concern, but not to judge, just to be aware of.
Wearing dirty clothes, Dressed too formally for situation,
Dressed too casually for situation, Wore revealing clothing,
Fashionably Dressed, Extremely thin, Extremely Obese, Extremely
Tall, Extremely Muscular, unkempt hair, Push hair out of eyes, greasy hair,
Nose in air, very pale
skin, Has facial hair, bags under his or her eyes, Avoids eye
contact, Meet gaze, Look in the eye, Eyes glitter, Bulging eyes,
Wink, Rub eye, Look down nose, Look sideways, Peer, Glance, Stare, Glare,
Eyes glint, Squint, Gaze slide to floor, Blink, Peculiar smile, Grin, Smiled a lot,
Smirk, Sigh, Grimace, Furrow brow, Wrinkle forehead, Slap forehead, Showed
little emotional expression, Displayed a lot of emotion, Long
fingers, Crossed arms, Licked his or her lips frequently,
Purse lips, Frequently played with hair, Run hand through hair,
Twirl hair, Twiddle thumbs, Clap, Snap fingers, Thread fingers, Fold
hands, Twitch/tick, Bite nails, Suck thumb, Pick nose, Flare nostrils,
Sniff, Swallow, Wrinkle nose, Touched friend frequently, Hug self/knees,
Rub arms, Nodded
frequently, Tilt head to one side, Shudder, Shiver, Tremble,
Scratch, Bob head, Shake head, Skipped, Amble, Stroll, Lumber, Slouch,
Shrug, Shift weight, Cross legs, Swagger, Shuffle, Has mental illness
These appearances may mean nothing.
"When you choose to see the good in others, you end up finding the good in yourself."
"People are more about what they hide than what they show."
"What if everyone around you is just you at another moment in time?
Most people know that everything is connected in one way or
another, so maybe we all are just part of the same thing at
different moments in time, we're one, and separation is just an illusion"
(Nero Semantic Posture)