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Sex Education

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Sex Education is best learned in age appropriate stages, starting with the easiest to understand information for the young, and the more complex information for the mature and older student. 

The Facts of Life - Birds and the Bees

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The Physical and Mental influences of Sex
Women and Man KissingPhysical Changes - Mental Changes - Responsibilities - Vulnerabilities - Abilities

What is Sex?
Human Sex Drive - Hormones
Gratification - Pleasure - Touch
Human Sexuality - Attraction

Consent - Permission
Safe Sex - Contraception
Teen Pregnancies

Why and When Humans Reproduce
Man on top of a Women in Bed while Naked Human Reproduction - Childbirth
Pre-Mature Births - Pre-Natal Care
Toxic Dangers

Women's Body

Men's Body

Gay - Lesbian

Relationships - Friendships
Dating - Love - Marriage

Videos about Sex - Books about Sex

Sex Crimes - Dating Dangers - Fooling Around

Pornography - Public Displays

Warning: Some sexual content may be disturbing or overwhelming for some people, especially the young. Do not be alarmed. Do not be distracted. Stay focused on what's important, like your education, your family, your friends, your goals. Most sexual experiences are not relevant to you and you will most likely never be exposed to certain sexual experiences. Sex education is learning about certain human behavior. And certain human behavior is not something that you want to experiment with. This information is to make sure that you are not victimized or manipulated by your lack of knowledge, or other peoples lack of knowledge. Everyone is on a Need to Know basis.

The Sex Knowledge below is not an any particular order. The Information below is just the beginning of what kind of course material that might be included in Sex Education.

How do you prepare kids for the onslaught of sexual imagery that is portrayed in today's society?

No matter how subtle or insignificant sex may seem, you should be prepared for its interpretations.

Sex and intimacy is one of our greatest gifts to experience but sadly it is also one of our greatest dangers. For young adults the Peer Pressure to have sex is sometimes over whelming and hard to deal with, as well as the need to Feel Loved. Young adults also have a hard time understanding Body Image and the powerful influences of the Human Sex Drive. So young adults have to learn about the dangers of peer pressure. Young adults also have to learn about Love and Friendship and the different ways to express their appreciation for others. Young adults also have to learn about the powerful influences of the Human Sex Drive. Sex is not the problem. The problem is what happens to a persons understanding of themselves and what happens to their understanding of others after they have experienced Sex. I would recommend that young adults wait to experiment with sex until they're over 16, including masturbation. This will allow their Mental Maturity to catch up with their Sexual Maturity, which should help kids to have a better chance of handling the changes they will experience. Kids should also be aware that their first time having sex might not be the best experience, which they should also be prepared for. Know the difference between Infatuation or Fixation and truly liking someone for who they really are. It takes time to get to know someone, and then on top of that, a person can change and so can you. So it's not easy finding the right Friend.

Criminals and Dating Dangers

Know the differences between Physical Attractiveness, Body Image, Beauty, Lust, Obsessive Love, Dating Abuse, Sexual Attraction, Limerence, Infatuation, Fixation and having a Crush on someone. Sex does not always mean Love, and Love does not always mean sex. And sex is not needed to confirm that you love someone or care about them. Love is Blind, why? A lot of times you’ll find that some people just don’t feel the same way that you do and also you’ll find that some people will never feel the same way that you do. You also have to be aware of other peoples beliefs, religion, traditions and culture, because they may not see things the same way that you do, so it's always a good idea, and a proper thing to do, to ask before acting, don't assume. Communicate Though Sex is a part of life, it shouldn’t be a big part of your life. There are much more meaningful aspects of a Relationship to enjoy. Though Sex and Intimacy can be a great expression of Love and Appreciation between two people, it should never be the sole reason for wanting to be with someone. We should be aware of the power of sex to seduce and also be aware of its Addictive Nature. Also be aware that your feelings before a relationship might not be the same after you have become Intimate. Being open and honest is very important.  Be responsible, have safe sex and learn to be intimate unselfishly. 

Empathy - Temptation - Love

You sometimes have to have sex more then once in order to reproduce. So if sex didn't feel good, we wouldn't do it again, thus humans would not have survived. But just because something feels good, this doesn't mean that you don't have control. Just like breathing, if you had to remember to breathe, you would forget to breathe and die. That is why breathing is automatic. But you can control your breathing, if you could not control your breathing, you would die underwater because you did not hold your breath. Humans have inherited automatic features. But humans also have a brain that can learn and acquire knowledge, which gives us control over our lives, control over our abilities and control over our automatic features.

Don't confuse sex with love and intimacy. One does not necessarily imply the other. Experiencing one does not necessarily satisfy our need for the other. While all three ideally come together at certain moments, each of them must be attended to and appreciated. And finally, do not forsake one for the other. You can have them all. 

"You should desire to know someone first, before you desire to touch someone."

Anything that can become obsessive or controlling will always leave you vulnerable to mistakes and cause you to make bad decisions. So avoiding these types of behaviors may save your life and may save the life of others."

Sex education is so extremely important. Educating our young on Sexuality and all of its pleasures, all of its understandings and all of its dangers, would give our young the ability to be much more comfortable and capable of making the right decisions. They would enjoy sex no matter what small inconveniences that there might be associated with having Safe Sex, or using Condoms.


Hormone is any member of a class of signaling molecules produced by glands in multicellular organisms that are transported by the circulatory system to target distant organs to regulate physiology and behaviour. Hormones have diverse chemical structures, mainly of 3 classes: eicosanoids, steroids, and amino acid derivatives (amines, peptides, and proteins). The glands that secrete hormones comprise the endocrine signaling system. The term hormone is sometimes extended to include chemicals produced by cells that affect the same cell (autocrine or intracrine signalling) or nearby cells (paracrine signalling).

Everyone, especially young people, should be fully aware of the physical and mental effects of certain Hormones.

Testosterone - Estrogen - Oxytocin - Dopamine - Norepinephrine - Endorphins - Adrenaline - Cortisol - Pheromones - Androgen - Vasopressin - Serotonin

The Body Effects the Mind

Everyone should also be fully aware about all the powerful influences that sex and intimacy has on the human psyche.

Sex Steroid are steroid hormones that interact with vertebrate androgen or estrogen receptors. Their effects are mediated by slow genomic mechanisms through nuclear receptors as well as by fast nongenomic mechanisms through membrane-associated receptors and signaling cascades. The term sex hormone is nearly always synonymous with sex steroid. The polypeptide hormones luteinizing hormone, follicle-stimulating hormone and gonadotropin-releasing hormone are usually not regarded as sex hormones, although they play major sex-related roles.

Sex Hormones List (wiki)

Sexual Motivation and Hormones is influenced by hormones such as testosterone, estrogen, progesterone, oxytocin, and vasopressin. In most mammalian species, sex hormones control the ability to engage in sexual behaviours. However, sex hormones do not directly regulate the ability to copulate in primates (including humans). Rather, sex hormones in primates are only one influence on the motivation to engage in sexual behaviours. Orgasm.

Steroid Hormone is a steroid that acts as a hormone. Steroid hormones can be grouped into two classes: corticosteroids (typically made in the adrenal cortex, hence cortico-) and sex steroids (typically made in the gonads or placenta). Within those two classes are five types according to the receptors to which they bind: glucocorticoids, mineralocorticoids (corticosteroids), androgens, estrogens, and progestogens (sex steroids). Vitamin D derivatives are a sixth closely related hormone system with homologous receptors. They have some of the characteristics of true steroids as receptor ligands. Steroid hormones help control metabolism, inflammation, immune functions, salt and water balance, development of sexual characteristics, and the ability to withstand illness and injury. The term steroid describes both hormones produced by the body and artificially produced medications that duplicate the action for the naturally occurring steroids, which can have side effects like severe acne, oily skin and hair, hair loss, liver disease, such as liver tumors and cysts, kidney disease, heart disease, such as heart attack and stroke, altered mood, irritability, increased aggression, depression or suicidal tendencies. Sports and Steroids.

Steroid is an organic compound with four rings arranged in a specific molecular configuration. Steroids have two principal biological functions: certain steroids (such as cholesterol) are important components of cell membranes which alter membrane fluidity, and many steroids are signaling molecules which activate steroid hormone receptors.

Hormone.org - Your Hormones.info

Hormones cause energy levels to rise, and hormones also creates changes in your Mind and Body, so you need to be prepared? Sleep Hormones.

Peptide Hormones and protein hormones are hormones whose molecules are peptides or proteins, respectively. The latter have longer amino acid chain lengths than the former. These hormones have an effect on the endocrine system of animals, including humans. Most hormones can be classified as either amino acid–based hormones (amine, peptide, or protein) or steroid hormones. The former are water-soluble and act on the surface of target cells via second messengers; the latter, being lipid-soluble, move through the plasma membranes of target cells (both cytoplasmic and nuclear) to act within their nuclei. Like all peptides and proteins, peptide hormones and protein hormones are synthesized in cells from amino acids according to mRNA transcripts, which are synthesized from DNA templates inside the cell nucleus. Preprohormones, peptide hormone precursors, are then processed in several stages, typically in the endoplasmic reticulum, including removal of the N-terminal signal sequence and sometimes glycosylation, resulting in prohormones. The prohormones are then packaged into membrane-bound secretory vesicles, which can be secreted from the cell by exocytosis in response to specific stimuli (e.g. --an increase in Ca2+ and cAMP concentration in cytoplasm). New bioresources for plant peptide hormones using gene editing technology.

Peptide are natural biological or artificially manufactured short chains of amino acid monomers linked by peptide (amide) bonds. Peptides are distinguished from proteins on the basis of size, and as an arbitrary benchmark can be understood to contain approximately 50 or fewer amino acids.

Orexin is a neuropeptide that regulates arousal, wakefulness, and appetite. Addictions.

Neuropeptide are small protein-like molecules (peptides) used by neurons to communicate with each other. They are neuronal signalling molecules that influence the activity of the brain and the body in specific ways. Different neuropeptides are involved in a wide range of brain functions, including analgesia, reward, food intake, metabolism, reproduction, social behaviors, learning and memory.

Somatostatin is a peptide hormone that regulates the endocrine system and affects neurotransmission and cell proliferation via interaction with G protein-coupled somatostatin receptors and inhibition of the release of numerous secondary hormones. Somatostatin inhibits insulin and glucagon secretion.

Neurohormone is any hormone produced and released by neuroendocrine cells (also called neurosecretory cells) into the blood. Neurohormones

Neurochemical is an organic molecule, such as serotonin, dopamine, or nerve growth factor, that participates in neural activity.

Norepinephrine in the brain increases arousal and alertness, promotes vigilance, enhances formation and retrieval of memory, and focuses attention; it also increases restlessness and anxiety. In the rest of the body, norepinephrine increases heart rate and blood pressure, triggers the release of glucose from energy stores, increases blood flow to skeletal muscle, reduces blood flow to the gastrointestinal system, and inhibits voiding of the bladder and gastrointestinal motility. norepinephrine is to mobilize the brain and body for action. Norepinephrine release is lowest during sleep, rises during wakefulness, and reaches much higher levels during situations of stress or danger, in the so-called fight-or-flight response. Norepinephrine is an organic chemical in the catecholamine family that functions in the brain and body as a hormone and neurotransmitter.

Locus Coeruleus is a nucleus in the pons (part of the brainstem) involved with physiological responses to stress and panic.

Brain Knowledge - Limbic System

Oxytocin plays a role in social bonding, sexual reproduction in both sexes, and during and after childbirth. Oxytocin acts like a modulator in the brain, turning up the volume of certain stimuli while turning others down, helping the brain to make sense of the barrage for information it receives from one moment to the next. Processes a wide array of social signals involved in social interactions ranging from infant/parent bonding to monogamy. Oxytocin is sometimes known as the "cuddle hormone" or the "love hormone," because it is released when people snuggle up or bond socially. Pheromone Signals.

Serotonin thought to be a contributor to feelings of well-being and happiness, regulation of mood, appetite, and sleep. also has some cognitive functions, including memory and learning.

Endorphins are naturally produced in response to pain, but their production can also be triggered by various human activities. Vigorous aerobic exercise can stimulate the release of endorphins in the bloodstream, leading to an effect known as a "runner's high". Laughter may also stimulate endorphin production; a 2011 study showed that attendees at a comedy club showed increased resistance to pain.

Adrenalin or Epinephrine plays an important role in the fight-or-flight response by increasing blood flow to muscles, output of the heart, pupil dilation, and blood sugar. Epinephrine does this by its effects on alpha and beta receptors.

Adrenal Gland are endocrine glands that produce and release a variety of hormones including adrenaline and the steroids aldosterone and cortisol. two adrenal glands are found attached to the top of each kidney. Each gland has an outer cortex which produces steroid hormones and an inner medulla. The adrenal cortex itself is divided into three zones: zona glomerulosa, the zona fasciculata and the zona reticularis. Adrenal glands can become either overactive or underactive.

Aldosterone is the main mineralocorticoid hormone, is a steroid hormone produced by the zona glomerulosa of the adrenal cortex in the adrenal gland. It is essential for sodium conservation in the kidney, salivary glands, sweat glands and colon. It plays a central role in the regulation of the plasma sodium (Na+), the extracellular potassium (K+) and arterial blood pressure. It does so mainly by acting on the mineralocorticoid receptors in the distal tubules and collecting ducts of the nephron. It influences the reabsorption of sodium and excretion of potassium (from and into the tubular fluids, respectively) of the kidney, thereby indirectly influencing water retention or loss, blood pressure and blood volume. When dysregulated, aldosterone is pathogenic and contributes to the development and progression of cardiovascular and renal disease. Aldosterone has exactly the opposite function of the atrial natriuretic hormone secreted by the heart.

Adrenal Cortex mediates the stress response through the production of mineralocorticoids and glucocorticoids, such as aldosterone and cortisol, respectively. It is also a secondary site of androgen synthesis. Recent data suggest that adrenocortical cells under pathological as well as under physiological conditions show neuroendocrine properties; within the normal adrenal, this neuroendocrine differentiation seems to be restricted to cells of the zona glomerulosa and might be important for an autocrine regulation of adrenocortical function.

Mineralocorticoid influence salt and water balances (electrolyte balance and fluid balance). The primary mineralocorticoid is aldosterone, notable for an aldehyde group at the 18 position. A class of Steroid Hormones.

Glucocorticoid role in regulation of glucose metabolism, synthesis in the adrenal cortex, and its steroidal structure. A less common synonym is glucocorticosteroid. A class of steroid hormones.

Cortisol is released in response to stress and low blood-glucose concentration. It functions to increase blood sugar through gluconeogenesis, to suppress the immune system, and to aid in the metabolism of fat, protein, and carbohydrates. It also decreases bone formation. Cortisol is a Steroid Hormone, in the glucocorticoid class of hormones. When used as a medication, it is known as hydrocortisone.

Pheromone are chemicals capable of acting outside the body of the secreting individual to impact the behavior of the receiving individual. Scents

Vasopressin two primary functions are to retain water in the body and to constrict blood vessels. Vasopressin regulates the body's retention of water by acting to increase water reabsorption in the kidney's collecting ducts, the tubules which receive the very dilute urine produced by the functional unit of the kidney, the nephrons.

Endocrine System is the collection of glands of an organism that secrete hormones directly into the circulatory system to be carried towards distant target organs. The phenomenon of biochemical processes' serving to regulate distant tissues by means of secretions directly into the circulatory system is called endocrine signaling. The major endocrine glands include the pineal gland, pituitary gland, pancreas, ovaries, testes, thyroid gland, parathyroid gland, and adrenal glands. The endocrine system is in contrast to the exocrine system, which secretes its hormones to the outside of the body using ducts. The endocrine system is an information signal system like the nervous system, yet its effects and mechanism are classifiably different. The endocrine system's effects are slow to initiate, and prolonged in their response, lasting from a few hours up to weeks. The nervous system sends information very quickly, and responses are generally short lived. In vertebrates, the hypothalamus is the neural control center for all endocrine systems. Peptides.

Endocrinology is a branch of biology and medicine dealing with the endocrine system, its diseases, and its specific secretions known as hormones. Endocrine Society - Endocrine.

Endocrine Gland are glands of the endocrine system that secrete their products, hormones, directly into the blood rather than through a duct. The major glands of the endocrine system include the pineal gland, pituitary gland, pancreas, ovaries, testes, thyroid gland, parathyroid gland, hypothalamus and adrenal glands. The hypothalamus and pituitary gland are neuroendocrine organs.

Exocrine Gland are glands that produce and secrete substances onto an epithelial surface by way of a duct. Examples of exocrine glands include sweat, salivary, mammary, ceruminous, lacrimal, sebaceous, and mucous. Exocrine glands are one of two types of glands in the human body, the other being endocrine glands, which secrete their products directly into the bloodstream. The liver and pancreas are both exocrine and endocrine glands; they are exocrine glands because they secrete products—bile and pancreatic juice—into the gastrointestinal tract through a series of ducts, and endocrine because they secrete other substances directly into the bloodstream.

Thyroid is an endocrine gland in the neck, consisting of two lobes connected by an isthmus. It is found at the front of the neck, below the Adam's apple. Thyroid hormones are important for normal development. They increase the growth rate of young people, and cells of the developing brain are a major target for the thyroid hormones T3 and T4. Thyroid hormones play a particularly crucial role in brain maturation during fetal development. The thyroid hormones also play a role in maintaining normal function of sleep and thought patterns. Increased levels are associated with increased speed of thought generation but decreased focus. Sexual function, including libido and the maintenance of a normal menstrual cycle, are influenced by thyroid hormones. The hormones increase the rate and strength of the heartbeat. They increase the rate of breathing, intake and consumption of oxygen, and increase the activity of mitochondria. Combined, these factors increase blood flow and the body's temperature. Thyroid Hormones increase the basal metabolic rate and have effects on almost all body tissues. Appetite, the absorption of substances, and gut motility are all influenced by thyroid hormones. They increase the absorption in the gut, generation, uptake by cells, and breakdown of glucose. They stimulate the breakdown of fats, and increase the number of free fatty acids. Despite increasing free fatty acids, thyroid hormones decrease cholesterol levels, perhaps by increasing the rate of secretion of cholesterol in bile. The thyroid gland secretes thyroid hormones, which primarily influence the metabolic rate and protein synthesis. The hormones also have many other effects including those on development. The thyroid hormones triiodothyronine (T3) and thyroxine (T4) are created from iodine and tyrosine. The thyroid also produces the hormone calcitonin, which plays a role in calcium homeostasis. Hormonal output from the thyroid is regulated by thyroid-stimulating hormone (TSH) secreted from the anterior pituitary gland, which itself is regulated by thyrotropin-releasing hormone (TRH) produced by the hypothalamus. The thyroid may be affected by several diseases. Hyperthyroidism occurs when the gland produces excessive amounts of thyroid hormones, the most common cause being Graves' disease — an autoimmune disorder. In contrast, hypothyroidism is a state of insufficient thyroid hormone production. Worldwide, the most common cause is iodine deficiency. Thyroid hormones are important for development, and hypothyroidism secondary to iodine deficiency remains the leading cause of preventable intellectual disability. In iodine-sufficient regions, the most common cause of hypothyroidism is Hashimoto's thyroiditis—also an autoimmune disease. In addition, the thyroid gland may also develop several types of nodules and cancer.

Pineal body secretes melatonin and neuroactive peptides. Associated with circadian rhythms.

Neurohypophysis (posterior pituitary) releases neurohormones like oxytocin and vasopressin into the blood.

Area postrema is the vomiting center when a toxic substance enters the bloodstream it will get to the area postrema and may cause the animal to throw up. In this way, the animal protects itself by eliminating the toxic substance from its stomach before more harm can be done.

Subfornical organ is important for the regulation of body fluids.

Vascular organ of the lamina terminalis is a chemosensory area that detects peptides and other molecules.

is the perception of chemical signals by the senses.

Olfactory System (sense of smell)

Median eminence regulates anterior pituitary through release of neurohormones.

Pituitary Gland is an endocrine gland about the size of a pea and weighing 0.5 grams (0.018 oz) in humans. It is a protrusion off the bottom of the hypothalamus at the base of the brain. Regulates several physiological processes (including stress, growth, reproduction, and lactation). Hormones secreted from the pituitary gland help control: growth, blood pressure, certain functions of the sex organs, thyroid glands and metabolism as well as some aspects of pregnancy, childbirth, nursing, water/salt concentration and the kidneys, temperature regulation and pain relief. 

Prolactin is a protein that in humans is best known for its role in enabling mammals, usually females, to produce milk. It is influential in over 300 separate processes in various vertebrates. Prolactin is secreted from the pituitary gland in response to eating, mating, estrogen treatment, ovulation and nursing. Prolactin is secreted in pulses in between these events. Prolactin plays an essential role in metabolism, regulation of the immune system and pancreatic development.

Reward System

Hormones Related to Over Eating

"The Most Important Sex Organ is the Brain"

Emotions - Body Chemistry - Sleep - Memory

Microbial Balance

Influenced Sex-Specific Behavior


Sex has its Rewards and Dangers

Gratification is the pleasurable emotional reaction of happiness in response to a fulfillment of a Desire or Goal.

Pleasant is to cause pleasure or being in harmony with your taste or likings. Pleasant also means having pleasing manners or behavior. Stimulus - Reward.

Pleasure describes the broad class of mental states that humans and other animals experience as positive, enjoyable, or worth seeking. It includes more specific mental states such as Happiness, entertainment, enjoyment, ecstasy, and euphoria.

Euphoria is an affective state and a form of pleasure in which a person experiences intense feelings of well-being, happiness, and excitement. Orgasm - Great Sex.

Ecstasy refers to any heightened state of consciousness or intensely pleasant experience. But also characterized by diminished awareness of other objects or the total lack of the awareness of surroundings and everything around the object.

Fervor are feelings of great warmth and intensity. The state of being emotionally aroused and worked up.

Peak Experiences moments of highest happiness and fulfillment that can range from simple activities to intense events; however, it is not necessarily about what the activity is, but the ecstatic, care-free feeling that is being experienced during it. It can be rare, exciting, oceanic, deeply moving, exhilarating, elevating experiences that generate an advanced form of perceiving reality, and are even mystic and magical in their effect upon the experimenter.

Reward System is a group of neural structures responsible for incentive salience (i.e., "wanting" or desire), pleasure (i.e., "liking" or hedonic value), and positive reinforcement. Reward is the attractive and motivational property of a stimulus that induces appetitive behavior – also known as approach behavior – and consummatory behavior.

Anticipation of Reward - Reward Signals

Addiction Behavior (habits) - Delayed Gratification

Always wanting things is not good for you, especially when you are always wanting things that you don't really need. We spend too much time wishing for things that we do not have. If you spend all your time wishing for things, then when you finally do get something that you always wanted, you will have very little time to enjoy it, or you will realize that it was not something that you really didn't need. So the thing that you need most is knowledge, knowledge that will help you understand that you don't need all the things that you want or wish that you had. Once you have the knowledge you need, you will free yourself from the mental bondage of always wanting things, and you will start enjoying everything that you already have, and you will start working on and planning to acquire the the things that you really need.

Temptation is a fundamental desire to engage in short-term urges for enjoyment, that threatens long-term goals.

Just because something feels good when you do it, this doesn't mean that you have to do it. This is why you have a brain. You either use it or lose it. And losing control of your life is extremely dangerous, as you can clearly see by looking at all the problems in the world. When people lose control it doesn't always end well, and mistakes are plentiful. So don't take awareness for granted. Use it or lose it. Just don't do something because it feels good, do it because it is good, and not just good for you, but good for everything.

is an inability to resist the gratification of whims and desires. Foolish or senseless behavior. A disposition to yield to the wishes of someone.

Yearning is a prolonged unfulfilled desire or need. Desire strongly or persistently. Have a desire for something or someone who is not present. Have affection for; feel tenderness for.

"As a young man I always had a yearning for love, a yearning for change, a yearning for something new and exciting, a yearning to feel important like I belonged, a yearning to feel good, a yearning to feel normal and to feel happy. And all a long I never realized how much I had. So yearning was my own ignorance that I never knew I had. Now 30 years later, I finally started to educate myself, the yearning is gone. Now I live like I should have from the beginning. No regrets. Love, Live, Learn and Progress."

Profit - Addictions - Self-Control - Focus

Libido is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological, psychological and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine, respectively) regulate libido in humans.

Sexual Arousal is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in anticipation of sexual activity. Kissing.

Horny is a feeling great sexual desire. Aroused, Turned On, Excited, Energetic or Stimulated. Emotion.

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder results in a spontaneous, persistent, and uncontrollable genital arousal, with or without orgasm or genital engorgement, unrelated to any feelings of sexual desire. Physical arousal caused by this syndrome can be very intense and persist for extended periods, days or weeks at a time. Orgasm can sometimes provide temporary relief, but within hours the symptoms return. Failure or refusal to relieve the symptoms often results in waves of spontaneous orgasms in women and ejaculation in men.

Orgasm - Casual Sex

Sexual Desire is a motivational state and an interest in “sexual objects or activities, or as a wish, need, or drive to seek out sexual objects or to engage in sexual activities”. Synonyms for sexual desire are libido, sexual attraction, and lust. Sexual desire is an aspect of a person's sexuality, which varies significantly from one person to another, and also varies depending on circumstances at a particular time.

Lust is a strong sexual desire. Self-indulgent sexual desire.

Desire is an inclination to want things. Expect and wish.

You need to know the difference between Love and Infatuation.

Kama means "sex" "or" "desire, wish, longing" in Indian literature. Kama often connotes sexual desire and longing in contemporary literature, but the concept more broadly refers to any desire, wish, passion, longing, pleasure of the senses, the aesthetic enjoyment of life, affection, or love, with or without sexual connotations.

Physiological Arousal involves activation of the reticular activating system in the brainstem, the autonomic nervous system, and the endocrine system, leading to increased heart rate and blood pressure and a condition of sensory alertness, mobility, and readiness to respond.

Sensation are stages of processing of the senses in human and animal systems, such as vision, auditory, vestibular, and pain senses. Included in this topic is the study of illusions such as motion aftereffect, color constancy, auditory illusions, and depth perception.

Sexual Stimulation is any stimulus (including bodily contact) that leads to, enhances and maintains sexual arousal, and may lead to orgasm. Although sexual arousal may arise without physical stimulation, achieving orgasm usually requires physical sexual stimulation. The term sexual stimulation often implies stimulation of the genitals, but may also include stimulation of other areas of the body, stimulation of the senses (such as sight or hearing) and mental stimulation (i.e. from reading or fantasizing). Sufficient stimulation of the penis in males and the clitoris in females usually results in an orgasm. Stimulation can be by self (e.g., masturbation) or by a sexual partner (sexual intercourse or other sexual activity), by use of objects or tools, or by some combination of these methods. Some people practice orgasm control, whereby a person or their sexual partner controls the level of sexual stimulation to delay orgasm, and to prolong the sexual experience leading up to orgasm.

Human Sexual Response Cycle is a four-stage model of physiological responses to sexual stimulation, which, in order of their occurrence, are the excitement phase, plateau phase, orgasmic phase, and resolution phase.

Hedonism is the pursuit of pleasure as a matter of preference and not need. Hedonistic Pursuit of Pleasure.

Brain Stimulation Reward is a phenomenon in which direct stimulation of regions of the brain through either electrical or chemical means is rewarding and can serve as an operant reinforcer. The stimulation activates the reward system and establishes response habits similar to those established by natural rewards such as food and water.

Behavioral Addiction is a form of addiction that involves a compulsion to engage in a rewarding non-drug-related Behavior – sometimes called a natural reward, despite any negative consequences to the person's physical, mental, social or financial well-being.

Anticipation being enthusiastic, is an emotion involving pleasure, excitement, and sometimes anxiety in considering some expected or longed-for good event.

Psychophysics quantitatively investigates the relationship between physical stimuli and the sensations and perceptions they produce.

Nucleus Accumbens area of the brain has a significant role in the cognitive processing of aversion, motivation, pleasure, reward and reinforcement learning; hence, it has a significant role in addiction.

Mesolimbic Pathway or Reward Pathway releases dopamine into the nucleus accumbens, where it affects motivation for rewarding stimuli, the perception of pleasure, and reward-related motor function learning. It is the most significant neural pathway in the brain in which changes occur in all known forms of addiction.

Dopaminergic Pathways is sometimes called dopaminergic projections, are neural pathways in the brain that transmit the neurotransmitter Dopamine from one region of the brain to another. Dopaminergic pathways are involved in many functions such as executive function, learning, reward, motivation, and neuroendocrine control. Hormones.

Striatum is a subcortical part of the forebrain that coordinates multiple aspects of cognition, including motor and action planning, decision-making, motivation, reinforcement, and reward perception. Basal Ganglia (wiki).

Social Reward System or The Social Brain and Reward: Social Information Processing in the Human Striatum.

Dopamine plays a major role in reward-motivated behavior. Most types of reward increase the level of dopamine in the brain, and many addictive drugs increase dopamine neuronal activity. Other brain dopamine pathways are involved in motor control and in controlling the release of various Hormones. These pathways and cell groups form a dopamine system which is neuromodulatory. Study identifies the molecular machinery responsible for dopamine release in the brain by focusing on dopamine-producing neurons in the midbrain active zones—specialized neurotransmitter release sites located at synapses, the junctions that connect one neuron to the another found that dopamine neurons contained proteins that mark the presence of active zones.

Ventral Tegmental Area is a group of neurons located close to the midline on the floor of the midbrain. The VTA is the origin of the dopaminergic cell bodies of the mesocorticolimbic dopamine system and other dopamine pathways; it is widely implicated in the drug and natural reward circuitry of the brain. The VTA plays an important role in a number of processes, including cognition, motivation, orgasm, and intense emotions relating to love, as well as several psychiatric disorders. Neurons in the VTA project to numerous areas of the brain, ranging from the prefrontal cortex to the caudal brainstem and several regions in between.

Activation of the Ventral Tegmental Area (VTA) and Mesolimbic Networks is essential to motivation, performance, and learning. So feeling good can be used to benefit us is a positive way, instead of controlling us in a negative way.

Brain Games (education toys)

Can sex be a form of Classical Conditioning?

Learning Methods

Hypersexuality or Nymphomaniac, is a clinical diagnosis used by mental healthcare researchers and providers to describe extremely frequent or suddenly increased sexual urges or sexual activity.

What is Arousal Addiction?

Weakness of the Flesh is nothing new and has been around since the beginning. Sex can easily become an Addiction in many ways so be careful.

The Science of Lust (Docudrama) (youtube)

Sexual Obsessions are obsessions with sexual activity. In the context of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), these are extremely common, and can become extremely debilitating, making the person ashamed of the symptoms and reluctant to seek help. As preoccupation with sexual matters, however, does not only occur as a symptom of OCD, they may be enjoyable in other contexts (i.e. sexual fantasy).

Psychosexual Development is an instinctual libido (sexual energy) that develops in five stages. Each stage – the oral, the anal, the phallic, the latent, and the genital – is characterized by the erogenous zone that is the source of the libidinal drive.

Crime of Passion is when a perpetrator commits the act against someone because of sudden strong impulse such as sudden rage rather than as a premeditated crime. Is it just an excuse or a disease of the mind? Controls.

Compensation in psychology is a strategy whereby one covers up, consciously or unconsciously, weaknesses, frustrations, desires, or feelings of inadequacy or incompetence in one life area through the gratification or (drive towards) excellence in another area. Compensation can cover up either real or imagined deficiencies and personal or physical inferiority.

What are the Similarities between Sex and Gambling?

What are the similarities between Sex Addiction and Drug Addiction?

Aphrodisiac is a substance that increases libido when consumed. Aphrodisiacs are distinct from substances that address fertility issues such as impotence or secondary sexual (dys)function such as erectile dysfunction.

Deep and beautiful. The reward prediction error hypothesis of dopamine

How many Sex Addicts are there? We know the ones who actually admit sex addiction but how many are actually unaware of their Sex Addiction?

Sexual Control - Pornography

Fooling Around - Sexual Expression Policy (PDF)

River Spring Health Nursing Home

Animals have sex without being taught what sex is, and without being taught how to have sex. Animals just have sex automatically at these right moments. That means that there is knowledge in human DNA that helps drive people to have sex. If animals did not have these instructions, animals and humans would not reproduce. So how do hormones communicate to the brain in a way that it produces the intended result and action? Does that mean you can think about sex without any language or words to describe what sex is, or without words to describe what you're feeling? Yes. Then language is the tool that we can use to control these automatic functions, but that's only if you have the necessary language and know how to use language effectively.

"When the phone rings, you answer it and say hello, and then you find out what the reason is for the phone call? When a thought appears in your mind, you answer it and say 'what is your purpose, and what is your reason?' Mindfulness.

What is Sex?

Sexual Intercourse or coitus or copulation, is principally the insertion the penis, usually when erect, into the vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or both.

Touching - Great SexOral Sex - Positions - Orgasm - Consent - Underage - Sex Ed - Safe Sex

Intimate Relationship is an interpersonal relationship that involves physical and/or emotional intimacy. Physical intimacy is characterized by friendship, platonic love, romantic love or sexual activity. While the term intimate relationship commonly implies the inclusion of a sexual relationship, the term is also used as a euphemism for a relationship that is strictly sexual.

Human Sexuality is the capacity of humans to have erotic experiences and responses.

Sexual Arousal is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in anticipation of sexual activity. A number of physiological responses occur in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue during it. Genital responses are not the only changes, but noticeable and necessary for consensual and comfortable intercourse. Male arousal will lead to an erection, and in female arousal the body's response is engorged sexual tissues such as nipples, vulva, clitoris, vaginal walls and vaginal lubrication. Mental stimuli and physical stimuli such as touch, and the internal fluctuation of hormones, can influence sexual arousal.

Gratification - Desire

Sex Drive or Libido is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological, psychological and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine, respectively) regulate libido in men and women. Social factors, such as work and family, and internal psychological factors, like personality and stress, can affect libido. Sex drive can also be affected by medical conditions, medications, lifestyle and relationship issues, and age (e.g., puberty). A person who has extremely frequent or a suddenly increased sex drive may be experiencing hypersexuality, while the opposite condition is hyposexuality.

Hypoactive sexual desire disorder is considered a sexual dysfunction and is characterized as a lack or absence of sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity, as judged by a clinician.

Sexology is the scientific study of human sexuality, including human sexual interests, behaviors and functions.

Interpersonal Attraction is the attraction between people which leads to friendships and to platonic or romantic relationships. Interpersonal attraction, the process, is distinct from perceptions of physical attractiveness, which involves views of what is and is not considered beautiful or attractive.

Sexual Attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual attractiveness or sex appeal is an individual's ability to attract the sexual or erotic interest of another person, and is a factor in sexual selection or mate choice. The attraction can be to the physical or other qualities or traits of a person, or to such qualities in the context in which they appear. The attraction may be to a person's aesthetics or movements or to their voice or smell, besides other factors. The attraction may be enhanced by a person's adornments, clothing, perfume or style. It can also be influenced by individual genetic, psychological, or cultural factors, or to other, more amorphous qualities of the person. Sexual attraction is also a response to another person that depends on a combination of the person possessing the traits and also on the criteria of the person who is attracted.

Human Body - Body Smart

Behavior - Human Nature

Sex is part Perception, it's part Visualization, it's part Human Chemistry, it's part Human Biology, it’s a persons Mood, it’s a persons Desire, it’s a persons Energy Level, it’s the other Persons Touch, it’s the other persons past experiences, it’s your past experiences, it's a persons skill level, it’s a persons ability to trust, it’s a persons ability to relax, it’s a persons ability to explore, it’s how well a person knows themselves, it’s how well a person knows the other person, sex can be something more then you can understand, sex can be nothing at all, and sex can change your life, for better or for worse.

Sex and intimacy should be a great benefit and a great pleasure in your life. Sex and intimacy should never control your life, or endanger your life, or drastically alter your life’s direction or your life’s goals. Sex and intimacy is a great thing and should never be a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone has had sex with someone they wish that they never had sex with. Learn from that experience, because if you don't, you will most likely repeat that same mistake. This is easier said then done and everyone is vulnerable. So please educate yourself. Learn about Intrapersonal intelligence,

Self-Discipline - Self-Respect - Friendships.

Everyone wants to be loved, but sex is not the most important way to feel loved.

Dating Dangers

Sex Education ?

Sex education is not just learning about where baby's come from or how horrible venereal diseases are. Sex Education is more about knowing why something that is so beautiful and so natural could actually have so many problems and responsibilities associated with it. Should sex education be separated by gender? And when should you start teaching Safe Sex? And what is Great Sex?

Sex Education is instruction on issues relating to human sexuality, including emotional relations and responsibilities, human sexual anatomy, sexual activity, sexual reproduction, age of consent, reproductive health, reproductive rights, safe sex, birth control and sexual abstinence. Sex education that covers all of these aspects is known as comprehensive sex education. Common avenues for sex education are parents or caregivers, formal school programs, and public health campaigns.

Sex and Relationships Education is a form of sex education taught in UK schools. SRE focuses on exploring the emotional, social and physical aspects of growing up, having relationships, engaging in sex, and learning about human sexuality and sexual health. Young people learn about the nature of marriage and its importance for family life and bringing up children. Young people are protected from teaching and materials which are inappropriate, having regard to the age and the religious and cultural background of the pupils concerned. School governing bodies have regard for the guidance. Parents have the right to withdraw their child from all or part of SRE provided outside national curriculum science.

Relationship Education promotes practices and principles of premarital education, relationship resources, relationship restoration, relationship maintenance, and evidence-based marriage education.

Teaching young students about Safe Sex should not influence them to have sex, just like teaching a young person to wear their seatbelt in a car does not make them believe that they can now drive a car. They know that they have to be a certain age and also be tested, so that they can prove that they have the knowledge and skill and know how to drive a car, or drive the human body. And every person needs to remember that driving a car is still dangerous even when you're old enough and you know how to drive. Just knowing how to do something doesn't remove all the risks involved. Knowing how to effectively do something only increases your chances of making a good decision and being successful in the choices you make. The key is to always keep learning. The key to the car is like the key to your brain, they both require knowledge and skill to operate effectively and efficiently.

Single Sex Education
Sex Education Website
Advocates for Youth Sex Education

What do young people think about their school-based sex and relationship education? A qualitative synthesis of young people's views and experiences.

Study Finds Girls Feel Unprepared for Puberty

Among U.S. high school students surveyed in 2015 - 41% had sexual intercourse. So less than half of U.S. teenagers aged 15 to 19 are having sex, a rate dramatically lower than it was a quarter-century ago. 30% had sexual intercourse during the previous 3 months, and, of these, 43% did not use a condom the last time they had sex. 14% did not use any method to prevent pregnancy. 21% had drunk alcohol or used drugs before last sexual intercourse. Only 10% of sexually experienced students have ever been tested for human immunodeficiency virus (HIV).

The Love Competition (vimeo)
Future of Sex Ed
National Sexuality Education Standards (pdf)

Our Whole Lives Sexuality Education Curricula
Sex Ed Conference
I Wanna Know
Sex Ed Resources

Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Sex Education (HBO) (youtube)
Adolescent Sexual and Reproductive Health

Momentumme is committed to educating and supporting people to develop a healthy and positive understanding of human sexuality and to give tools to foster thriving relationships for people with intellectual disabilities.
Relate with Katy Park - Michael Gill
Disability Workshops Addressing Sexuality with People with Developmental Disabilities.

Sex will have a very strong influence on your life. So the more you understand about this influence the better you can control it and enjoy it.

Is sex an Instinct? Instinctual, but you still have control.

The Facts of Life - The Birds and the Bees

Sex Talk is when an adult tries to explain sex to a younger person. Usually it's about the basic physiological functions involved in sex and reproduction. Often includes the details of sexual behavior. A sex talk is something unavoidable that must be taken seriously. But most adults know very little about sex, and often don't have a good enough friendship with a younger person in order to explain sex in a meaningful and honest way. So it's best that everyone reads this entire page first, and then have an open and honest discussion without any judgment. Learn from each other.

Puberty is the process of physical changes through which a child's body matures into an adult body capable of sexual reproduction.

Coming of Age is a young person's transition from being a child to being an adult. It continues through the teenage years of life. The certain age at which this transition takes place changes in society, as does the nature of the change. It can be a simple legal convention or can be part of a ritual or spiritual event, as practiced by many societies. In the past, and in some societies today, such a change is associated with the age of sexual maturity (early adolescence), especially menarche and spermarche. In others, it is associated with an age of religious responsibility. Particularly in western societies, modern legal conventions which stipulate points in late adolescence or early adulthood (most commonly 18-21 when adolescents are generally no longer considered minors and are granted the full rights and responsibilities of an adult) are the focus of the transition. In either case, many cultures retain ceremonies to confirm the coming of age, and stories that are told in film are called coming-of-age films. And likewise there are also coming-of-age comics. Enlightenment.

Sexual Maturity is the age or stage when an organism can reproduce. Consent.

Rite of Passage is a ceremony of the passage which occurs when an individual leaves one group to enter another.

Adult is a human or other organism that has reached sexual maturity, but not always mental maturity.

Adolescence is a transitional stage of physical and psychological development that generally occurs during the period from puberty to legal adulthood (age of majority).

Child Sexuality is an integral part of the development and maturation of children. A range of sensational, emotional and consequent sexual activities that may occur before or during early puberty, but before full sexual maturity is established. The development of child sexuality is influenced by social and cultural aspects; the perception of developing child sexuality is even more heavily influenced by cultural aspects. The concept of child sexuality also played an important role in the classical psychoanalysis.

Mental Maturity - Consent - Age doesn't make you an Adult, so what does?

How sleeping mammary stem cells are awakened in puberty. Scientists have discovered how the growth of milk-producing mammary glands is triggered during puberty. Sleeping stem cells in the mammary gland are awoken by a protein dubbed FoxP1, according to the research.

The Birds and the Bees - Sexual Slang (profanity)

What if your Under Age Child starts thinking about Sex?

An adult must first explain to a young person that they will answer all their questions and that they're not here to censor them or impeded their learning, or predetermine their intelligence. Sex for anyone, young or old, can cause physical harm and mental harm if the person is not prepared mentally or physically. "So please don't rush this." Rushing it will not make you a better person, or make your life more meaningful, or make you look cool, or will it make you understand sex more just because you experience it. You might think that sex will make you popular, but popularity has it's own dangers. Sex is more than a biological function, it's emotional and complicated. And these complications and particular emotions are better experience when you are older and more mature and more educated and knowledgeable about sex and about relationships and all the vulnerabilities that are associated with them. Having sex when you are to young could confuse you, embarrass you and it could also be very traumatic, which could cause more harm than good and also have negative effects on future relationships. Sex is a Risk, but when you are 16 and older, sex can also be an amazing journey and very beautiful, but it's not safe for kids or young minds or young bodies. So hey, at least you got one good thing to look forward to when you get older, kidding of course, there are millions of things to look forward to. Don't waste your time thinking about sex like previous generations, focus on the important knowledge, you'll thank me later. In other words....Explain to them that Sex is for Fully developed Adults, and this is why. Sex is not for people under the age of 16. Mostly because a 16 year old person is not fully developed yet, mentally or physically. And mental maturity is needed to cope with the dangers of sex. Mental maturity is also needed to help minimize the risks that are associated with sex. Not to say that you can't have sex, or that you can't get pregnant or catch a disease, it's just saying that you need to be more prepared, which takes time and takes education. And being prepared is a responsibility that you will need to have your entire life. Young adults must also understand their vulnerabilities and their weaknesses when it comes to pressure from friends, biological urges, media influences, and Aggression from others that forces you to do things that you do not want to do, which is not your fault. You must learn what actions and behavior will protect you from these unwarranted influences. Sex is for reproduction, sex is for bonding with someone you love, and sex is also for pleasure. And this pleasure, reproduction and bonding is more suited for the adult mind, an adult mind that fully understands the vulnerabilities of human life, and the adult mind that fully understands the temptations in life that can easily exploit an uneducated mind. And sadly these uneducated minds are everywhere, and not just among the children, these uneducated minds are also among most adults. So please wait till you have learned everything that you need to know. If not, you will make mistakes, with some of those mistakes drastically effecting your life in the most awful way you could ever imagine. I want you to enjoy sex, I just don't want sex to ruin your life, like it has for a lot of people, just look around you. Please be careful, Life doesn't have an Undo Button. It's better when you are young to focus more on friendships and save the relationships for after 16 or older. Relationships are more complicated, more responsible, more emotional, more difficult and relationships can be devastating and painful when the relationship ends. So there's a lot to learn. Even though relationships are a lot of work, it's great to feel loved, and it's great to share life experiences with someone you love. You will soon understand how extremely important friendships are. So learn about Relationships, and learn what it takes to have good Friendships. Enjoy the roller-coaster.

You have to learn the right things at the right time. In order to understand something accurately enough you need to learn a few things first, if you don't learn a few things first, then you could easily misunderstand things and make big mistakes.

Sexualized Behavior in young people is definitely a concern, but you first need to define sexual behavior verses inappropriate behavior. It may not be sexual, but a more a confused reality.

Beware of the TV, Magazines, and the News, they are not your friends, they are more about Manipulation then they are about Education and keeping you informed

Human Sex Drive is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological, psychological and social factors..

A lot of things in life may appear to be innocent or harmless, but everything has risks evolved. So you either minimize the risks and increase your safety by learning everything that you can, or you just avoid doing the activity and thus avoid any risk that is associated with that particular action. Play it safe, play it smart, or play something else.

In order to acquire Mental Maturity you should study these subjects.
Self Smart - People Smart - Relationships - Social Intelligence
Intelligence - Know Thyself - Physical Health - Mental Health
Information Literacy - Media Literacy

Age of Majority is the threshold of adulthood as it is conceptualized (and recognized or declared) in law. Is the chronological moment when minors cease to legally be considered children and assume control over their persons, actions, and decisions.

Minor is a person under a certain age, generally 18 years old.

Adult is a human being that has reached physical sexual maturity. A legal adult is a person who has attained the age of 18 years old and is therefore regarded as independent, self-sufficient, and responsible, but not always the case. Criminals.

If you're a child and an adult asks you what do you think or know about sex? Just answer that you are too young and that you don't waste time thinking about things that you know you shouldn't be doing, or do things that are not beneficial to you at this time in your life, instead you spend your time thinking about the things that you can do, things that are important, valuable and known to be enjoyable. There's a time and place for everything, and this is not the time, or the place. Capisci?

When it comes to desire, if you give in, you may have to give something up. So the more educated and knowledgeable you are, the better your chances will be in making good decisions, and, the better your chances will be that you will never feel tormented, or feel guilty, or feel like you have no control over your life, because you do. It's only a mistake if you keep making the same mistake over and over again. Learning = Power, Power = Freedom, Freedom = Potential, Potential = Control, Control = Endless Possibilities.

The moment that you stop feeling insecure about not doing interesting things that would impress your friends, is one of the most liberating moments in your life. You have to live your life, just don't do things to impress others, or do things to feel important or do things just to be popular. Experiences are important to have, just don't let your pursuit of experiences control you, Some experiences you still have to plan and prepare for, you still have to do research, and you still have to learn more and do a Risk Assessment. You should not feel bad about saying no, just apologize for not being ready. Not feeling comfortable is not an answer, just explain why you are not ready. Because when we can explain ourselves, we learn and we also teach. You're not being selfish when you're saying no, you're just saying no at this moment. What does your gut say? What does your common sense say? Even though you are responsible for your actions, mistakes happen. So please be careful. No regrets and no blame. You'll be ok. Remember be true to yourself. Be fearless, but be responsible. Be Aware, but be compassionate and be sensible. You care about your friends needs, just don't feel guilty or feel insecure about not being ready to fulfill those needs. Be honest. If my absence makes this experience more dangerous, then we should all wait. Don't judge your friends, and tell your friends not to judge you, learn from each other.

No Pressure

Just saying that something is bad, or wrong, or a sin, does not explain enough. And just knowing who says it is not important, whether you say your father says it, or your mother says it, or God says it, or the leader says it, or an expert says it, what's important is knowing why it was said. There is no replacement for knowledge. Either you know something or you don't know something. If you can't explain something in a way that it's understood, then you should learn more about it, you should know most of the benefits, and know most of the dangers, and be able to accurately see in a side by side comparison, what the best choice is, and know why it is the best choice, and be able to explain it. Trying to pretend that you know something, is dangerous, and it's also a very ineffective way of teaching and learning. This is not to say that you might get lucky from time to time giving advice, and that advice would save someone from making a bad mistake, but everyone knows, it's better to know then it is to depend on luck, because you are not always that lucky. Saying that Ignorance is bliss is a lie, Intelligence is bliss, and that can be proven, just like ignorance is proof that you're an idiot.

Consent - Not Being Pressured

No means No - Yes means Maybe ?

Consent occurs when one person voluntarily agrees of their own free will to the proposal or desires of another, as long as they're mature enough and are totally aware of the situation and are in sound mind with the capacity to think, reason and understand oneself. Underage - Sex Ed - Safe Sex - Sexual Harassment.

Informed Consent is a process for getting permission based upon a clear appreciation and understanding of the facts, implications, and consequences of an action. To give informed consent, the individual concerned must have adequate reasoning faculties and be in possession of all relevant facts. Self-Manage.

Affirmative consent is a knowing, voluntary, and mutual decision among all participants to engage in sexual activity. Consent can be given by words or actions, as long as those words or actions create clear permission regarding willingness to engage in the sexual activity. Silence or lack of resistance, in and of itself, does not demonstrate consent. The definition of consent does not vary based upon a participant’s sex, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression.

Permissible is something that may be permitted but follows certain rules. Something that is accepted, safe or allowed.

Permission is giving someone the approval or a formal written authorization to do something. Saying yes and agreeing.

Principles of Consent: Consent to any sexual act or prior consensual sexual activity between or with any party does not necessarily constitute consent to any future or other sexual act. Consent may be initially given but withdrawn at any time. Consent must be free of any coercion, intimidation, force, or threat of harm. A person initiating sexual activity is still responsible to obtain consent even if the person is under the influence of drugs or alcohol. When consent is withdrawn or cannot be given, sexual activity must stop. Consent cannot be given when a person is incapacitated. Incapacitation occurs when an individual lacks the ability to knowingly choose to participate in sexual activity. Incapacitation may be caused by the lack of consciousness or being asleep, being involuntarily restrained, or if an individual otherwise cannot consent. Depending on the degree of intoxication, someone who is under the influence of alcohol, drugs or other intoxicants may be incapacitated and therefore unable to consent.

How do I avoid being Coerced into having sex when I'm not ready or willing? Self Defense.

What if I say yes but then I change my mind and say no or stop? You have the right to revoke consent once it's been given. But this may not stop the person. So make sure that the person understands the fact that you have the right to change your mind, and that you will apologize for any inconvenience that it causes, just as long as they respect your wishes. So I'm saying yes for now, but if something doesn't feel right, then I want to stop.

Just because something is Popular does not mean that it is good or right.  Conformity - Social Influences.

Consensual Sex

Age of Consent is the age at which a person is considered to be legally competent to consent to sexual acts, and is thus the minimum age of a person with whom another person is legally permitted to engage in sexual activity. The distinguishing aspect of the age of consent laws is that the person below the minimum age is regarded as the victim, and their sex partner as the offender.

Rape is the lack of consent. A type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration perpetrated against a person without that person's consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent. Prostitution.

Marital Rape is non-consensual sex (i.e., rape) in which the perpetrator is the victim's spouse. It is a form of partner rape, domestic violence and sexual abuse.

Groping is Touching or fondling another person in an unwelcome sexual way using the hands.

Unwelcome is not liking something or being uncomfortable with something that does not feel good.

Sex Crimes - Dating Dangers

Implied Consent not expressly granted by a person, but rather implicitly granted by a person's actions and the facts and circumstances of a particular situation (or in some cases, by a person's silence or inaction).

Unanimous Consent is a situation in which no one present objects to a proposal. Fear or Ignorance?

You should only ask for things or search for things, you should never force things or take things. Stealing is more then wrong, stealing is a sign that ignorance has destroyed your awareness and your connection to life. Ignorance has made a fool of many. The true joy of a gift, its true greatness, is when a gift comes naturally, like when it comes from someone's heart, as if it was the will of God or the will of the Universe.

Depending where you live in the world, when you reach a certain physical age you are given some rights, and you also lose some rights too.
16 years of age you're allowed to drive a car, Get married or register a civil partnership with consent, Drive a moped or invalid carriage, You can consent to sexual activity with others aged 16 and over, Drink wine/beer with a meal if accompanied by someone over 18, Get a National Insurance number, Join a trade union.
17-year-olds are not that much different from 16-year-olds. But 17-year-olds can be defined as 'arrested juveniles' and treated the same as children in the eyes of the law. This means that, if a young person aged 10-17 commits a crime, they will be: Dealt with by youth courts, Given different sentences to adults, Sent to special secure centers for young people, rather than adult prisons.
18 year olds are allowed to vote, even for presidents, Open a bank account, Buy cigarettes, Gamble or buy a lottery tickets, Get a tattoo, Get a piercing, Enlist in the army (which means that you can legally move out of your parents house), and Drink alcohol in most European countries and in Canada.
19 and 20 year olds are not that different than 18 year olds.
21 year olds can now Drink alcohol and Go to nightclubs, Change your driver's license, Rent a car, Adopt a child, and stay on your parent's health insurance plan even though they are socially considered to be no longer dependent on their parents.

Platonic Love is a term used for a type of love, or close relationship that is non-sexual.

Platonic is free from physical desire. Friendship.

Try not to go against the grain, or fight the natural flows of life's energy. Premonition is a sense that everyone should learn to pay attention to. When something feels wrong, or when something feels like it's not quite right, it may be because something is wrong or not quite right. This is when the importance of knowledge becomes clear. We must learn to master our natural born abilities in order to effectively utilize them.

Let's Not, and Say we Did Let's Not, and Say we Did indicates that the speaker does not agree with a proposed action, and does not wish to participate, but offers an alternative, to pretend that the action did take place, but only happened only in our minds. "I don't think so" meaning, let's take time to think about this. This is not just about the experience, this is about the freedom of choice and human rights. Both parties have to agree, if not, then there is no agreement. So if this is not about saving lives, then forcing is a crime, which is not about Love. Don't confuse instincts with reality. Kiss and tell?

This is not about rejection, this is about mutual respect and awareness. I would rather focus on long term gratification then the immediate gratification.

Media Literacy - Social Influences - Self-Control

Control Freak describes a person who attempts to dictate how everything is done around them. The phrase was first used in the 1970s, an era when stress was laid on the principle of 'doing one's own thing' and letting others do the same.

The effects of sexualized virtual selves (PDF)

There's a big difference between Self-Control and Repression. Self-Control is when you understand human instincts and human urges but learn to control these influences on your behavior and your actions. Repression is being forced to deny information and knowledge, which causes confusion and the inability to understand your behaviors and actions. Repression also makes you vulnerable to disinformation, with most of the disinformation being created within yourself and not just from other people and the world around you.

Sexual Attitude Reassessment is a process-oriented, structured group experience to promote participants' awareness of their attitudes and values related to sexuality, and to assist them in understanding how these attitudes and values affect them professionally and personally.

Sex must be Consensual, if not, then its most likely to be exploitive or possibly destructive. And this is not to confuse "not being in the mood" with not being "sexual attracted to someone" or not even 'liking someone'. A relationship solely based on sexual attraction is hardly ever sustainable, especially if you don't have a sincere and honest relationship. You have to feel comfortable with someone and enjoy their company. You should also have similar interests, enjoy the same activities, and have similar goals and similar dreams. If you lack these similarities then you're most likely to be two people living separate lives, but being together. Each person also needs to know how to communicate effectively without implications or expectations. You should be with someone you can trust, someone who knows how to touch you, someone who knows how to kiss you, someone who knows how to talk to you, before and after intimacy. And the talking after part is the most important aspect of a relationship. Because if a relationship is not sincere and honest it is most likely to fail and could possibly be dangerous or destructive. If you are not able to make it on your own, then your dependency on relationships could put you in danger, especially if you're not with the right person.

Arousal nonconcordance exists when genital response and arousal, the subjective experience of enjoying/desiring a sexual activity, differ. It turns out that all genital response tells us is that the genitals are reacting to something they’ve been conditioned to perceive as sexually relevant. Genital response tells us absolutely nothing about whether we are enjoying the situation, because arousal takes place in the brain, not in the genitals. In other words, genital response is an autonomic, trained physiological reaction that is not necessarily related to what we find sexually appealing. And at times, we may find something very sexually appealing—and our genitals do not respond at all. Perversion.

The truth about unwanted arousal: Emily Nagoski (video and text). "My genitals do not tell you what I want or like. I do." Just because your wife isn’t wet, this doesn’t mean she’s not interested in sex. Sex Lubrication (K-Y). She does not feel sexually interested or aroused but discovers to her horror that her genitals are responding. You can be unaroused mentally, but show physical signs of arousal. Just because a man has an erection, this doesn’t mean something turned him on mentally. Many women have experienced lying in bed with their husband, going through foreplay, and being very lubricated, but mentally not being there at all. We automatically assume that wet = aroused, both physically and mentally, and when that doesn’t happen, we assume that something is wrong. Either they’re not interested in sex right now, or worse, they’re not interested in us. If a wife is giving her husband oral or manual sex, for example, and he loses his erection, the assumption is that she’s not doing a good job, or at least that he’s not enjoying it. But, I know for a fact that this happens to a lot of men and they are absolutely loving the attention…there’s just this arousal non-concordance. It doesn’t mean he’s not enjoying it, and it doesn’t mean you aren’t doing a good job. He may be extremely aroused mentally, but physically just need something different.

Why does having Sex change you?

Why does having sex make you believe that your world is better? False Confidence.
Why does having sex make you believe that you are better then others? Ego - Power Trip.
Why is self-discipline and self-control considered unnecessary when it comes to sex? (lack of experience and Knowledge)
Why do I have the urge to smoke tobacco and drink large amounts of alcohol after sex? (celebrating the wrong way)
Why does sex change a Relationship? (lack of experience and Knowledge)
What should I do when things start to get Weird or become too Complicated? (communicate)
What is this new level of closeness that is created by having sex? (false sense of security or love?)
Why does sex produce change in some while others feel no change at all? (how do you know?)
Why does sharing something so special become so complicated? (perception)
Does the relationship have to change? (depends on what changes you mean)
How do I explain to someone that "I" have changed? (explain and communicate)
Does it have to be change or be nothing? What is change? Yes we improve ourselves, yes we grow up, and yes we mature, but how do we know if we are growing up right? - Morals?

Hooking Up

Hookup Culture is one that accepts and encourages casual sexual encounters, including one-night stands and other related activity, which focus on physical pleasure without necessarily including emotional bonding or long-term commitment. It is generally associated with Western late adolescent behavior and, in particular, American college culture. The term hookup has an ambiguous definition because it can indicate kissing or any form of physical sexual activity between sexual partners.

Promiscuity is the practice of having casual sex frequently with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners. The term can carry a moral judgment if the social ideal for sexual activity is monogamous relationships. A common example of behavior viewed as promiscuous by many cultures is the one-night stand, and its frequency is used by researchers as a marker for promiscuity.

Smash, get some booty, bump uglies, do the nasty, get laid, get lucky, let's do it, let's go all the way, make woopie, pootie tang, quickie, afternoon delight, screw, schtupping, shag. Sexual Slang.

Womanizer is showing disapproval for a man who has sexual relationships with many women. (also known as philanderer or player).

Casanova is a man with a reputation for having many sexual partners.

Lothario is showing disapproval a man who has sexual relationships with many different women.

Don Juan is a man who has sexual relationships with many women.

Romeo is a man who tries to have sexual relationships with many different women.

Swinger is someone who exchanges sexual partners with other people.

Dirty old man is an older man who offends people by being sexually interested in someone younger than him.

Libertine is someone who behaves in an immoral way, especially someone who has a lot of sexual relationships.

Rake is old-fashioned for a man who behaves in an immoral way, for example by having sexual relationships with a lot of women.

No matter what kind of sex you have, if you can't communicate with your partner, then sex will never be as good as it should be.

Pity sex happens when people have sex with other people because they feel sorry for them.

Charity sex is when you love your partner, and while you don't feel like having sex at that moment, you do it anyway.

Expedient sex is when people have sex with someone, not out of love or pity, but in order to derive some material benefit, such as money or status. Prostitution - Gold Diggers

Casual Sex is sexual activity that takes places outside a romantic relationship and implies an absence of commitment, emotional attachment, or familiarity between sexual partners. Examples are sexual activity while casually dating, one-night stands, extramarital sex, prostitution, or swinging.

One-Night Stand is a single sexual encounter in which there is an expectation that there shall be no further relations between the sexual participants. The practice can be described as "sexual activity without emotional commitment or future involvement.

Friend Sex or "friends with benefits", is when mutual pleasure can be derived from a friendship, but it will test your friendship, so you still need to communicate.

Love Sex is the best circumstances to have sex are those of partners feeling profound love in which a pleasurable mood predominates before, during, and after sex.

Vacation sex, Hotel sex, Drunken sex, Morning sex, Makeup sex, Breakup sex, Shower sex, Car sex, Period sex, Tired sex, Drunk sex, First-time sex, Beach sex.

Humans have sex in all kinds of different ways, but we still have problems with communication. Learn to communicate before you fornicate, which means to have sex without being married.

Casual Dating is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have casual sex or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the extra commitments of a more formal romantic relationship.

Dating - Falling out of Love

Conjugal Visit is a scheduled period in which an inmate of a prison or jail is permitted to spend several hours or days in private with a visitor, usually their legal spouse. The parties may engage in sexual activity. The generally recognized basis for permitting such visits in modern times is to preserve family bonds and increase the chances of success for a prisoner's eventual return to life after release from prison. Additionally, they serve as an incentive to motivate inmates to comply with the various day-to-day rules and regulations of the prison, and to avoid any infringement which might disqualify them from having a conjugal visit.

Sociosexual Orientation is the individual difference in the willingness to engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship. Individuals with a more restricted sociosexual orientation are less willing to engage in casual sex; they prefer greater love, commitment and emotional closeness before having sex with romantic partners. Individuals who have a more unrestricted sociosexual orientation are more willing to have casual sex and are more comfortable engaging in sex without love, commitment or closeness.

Infidelity is being unfaithful, or having an affair a violation of a couple's assumed or stated contract regarding emotional and/or sexual exclusivity? (also referred to as Cheating, or adultery when married).

Adultery is extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on social, religious, moral, or legal grounds.

Cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife.

Falling out of Love

Sexting is sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually explicit messages, photographs or images, primarily between mobile phones. It may also include the use of a computer or any digital device. The term was first popularized in the early 21st century, and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the wide sense of sending a text possibly with images.

Sex Addiction are obsessions with sexual activity. In the context of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), these are extremely common, and can become extremely debilitating, making the person ashamed of the symptoms and reluctant to seek help. As preoccupation with sexual matters, however, does not only occur as a symptom of OCD, they may be enjoyable in other contexts (i.e. sexual fantasy). Technology Addiction.

Safe Sex - Kinky Sex

Besides learning the joys of sex, we also have to be aware of the Obsessive influence of sex, the addictive nature of sex, the mind consuming and thought control of sex, The Sexual Triggers, the life changing moments that sex can create, the diseases that you can get from having sex and that Pregnancies happen because of sex. Just because you haven't personally experienced difficulties does not mean they don't exist. And just because you have personally experienced difficulties does not guarantee that you actually learned something important from the experience .....this is sex education....

What is Gateway Sexual Activity? - Drugs and Sex

Over Confidence and Insecurity about sex will both have their share of vulnerabilities and ignorance. Both will cause you to make bad decisions. Because they are both based on Emotions and not Reality or Logic. How do you tell the Difference between having self-confidence and having a false sense of security?......is this sex education?...

Are people delusional for thinking that their obsession with sex is normal and that they are not hurting anyone? If you believe that you can control yourself and control your Compulsions does it mean that you don’t need Sexual Advice?

Does Abstinence or refraining from sex make you more vulnerable to the influences of sex and more likely to experience sexual dysfunction?

It's not just that sex occupies your thoughts, sex also makes you do things and makes you say things that you are not fully aware of, what are they? What are these implications that you are unaware of and what are the effects that sex can have on yourself and the effects that sex can have on others?

Stronger Working Memory Reduces Sexual Risk Taking in Adolescents, Even After Controlling for Parental Influences.

Sex can consume a lot of time in your life. So if you are not aware of how much time is actually being consumed by this obsession with sex, then it will turn into more then just an Obsession and most likely distort reality and cause you to have Irrational Behavior and may cause you to take irrational actions.

Sexual Dysfunction is difficulty experienced by an individual or a couple during any stage of a normal sexual activity, including physical pleasure, desire, preference, arousal or orgasm.

You have to learn as soon as you can that if you don't know how to control obsessions with sex it will end up controlling you….this is sex education..

Why does sex affect the normal processes of the mind? Is this why teenagers make bad decisions?

How many Psychological Effects does sex have on the human mind? 

The Biology of Sexuality

Having seconds thoughts about something or discovering something about yourself is all part of the Journey.

Regret - Guilt - Shame - Remorse
Morality - Intrapersonal intelligence (self smart)
Mental Health

Am I with this person just for sex? Is this person with me just for sex? Can sex be the cause of a Dysfunctional Relationship? Can sex be used as a method of control? Can you still be friends without sex? What are the dangers of kiss and tell and bragging about sexual encounters? 

Sexism is prejudice or discrimination based on a person's sex or gender. Sexism can affect any gender, but it is particularly documented as affecting women and girls. It has been linked to stereotypes and gender roles, and may include the belief that one sex or gender is intrinsically superior to another. Extreme sexism may foster sexual harassment, rape, and other forms of sexual violence.

Do drugs make sex better or do they just make you think that the sex is better? If sex is already good to begin with why does changing the perception of good sex by using drugs thought to be fun?

Natural Sexual Enhancers (youtube)

Monogamy is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time (serial monogamy), as compared to polygyny, polyandry, or polyamory. The term is also applied to the social behavior of some animals, referring to the state of having only one mate at any one time.

Polyamory is typically the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships where individuals may have more than one partner, with the knowledge and consent of all partners. It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy.

Polygyny is when a man marries several women or has several brides or wives.

Polyandry is the practice of a woman having two or more husbands.

Polygyny in Animals is a mating system in which one male lives and mates with multiple females, but each female only mates with a single male. Systems where several females mate with several males are defined either as promiscuity or polygynandry. Lek mating is frequently regarded as a form of polygyny because one male mates with many females, but lek-based mating systems differ in that the male has no attachment to the females with whom he mates, and that mating females lack attachment to one another. Polygyny is typical of one-male, multi-female groups and can be found in many species including: gorilla, elephant seal, red-winged warbler, house wren, hamadryas baboon, common pheasant, red deer, Bengal tiger, Xylocopa varipuncta, Anthidium manicatum and elk. Oftentimes in polygynous systems, females will provide the majority of parental care. Some females willingly choose polygyny in order to gain access to the "best" resources available. An explanation for why polygynous systems persist is explained by the polygyny threshold model. This model demonstrates the link between female reproductive success and territory quality or the quality of a breeding situation. The polygyny threshold model also shows the effects of female reproductive success when multiple females in the same territory mate with one male. In this situation, the female has the option of breeding with an unmated male in a poor-quality territory or with an already-mated male in a high-quality territory. The second breeding female will receive fewer resources from the male than the first breeding female. However, if the bigamous threshold is higher than the second female's original resource threshold, the female will enter into a polygynous mating system, since she would still benefit from acquiring more resources. The polygyny threshold model can be applied to more than two females, provided there are enough resources to support them. Female choice, the act in which a female chooses her mate based on the attractiveness of his qualities, is very common in polygynous systems. In these cases, females will choose males based on secondary sexual characteristics, which may indicate access to better and more resources. From an evolutionary standpoint, the most predominant characteristic that is often found in polygynous mating systems is extreme sexual dimorphism. Sexual dimorphism, or the difference in size or appearance between males and females, gives males an advantage in fights against each other to demonstrate dominance and win over harems. Sexual dimorphism can present in larger body size and canine size. Polygyny is beneficial in particular to the male because he has a greater increase in fitness and reproductive success. This increase consequently reduces the genetic diversity of the community, often leading to increased inbreeding. However, polygyny is not a particularly beneficial mating system for females because their mate choice is limited to one male. Extra-pair copulations are a strategy used by females to avoid the sexual conflict caused by polygyny, allowing them access to better mate choice. Unlike in males, extra-pair copulations are advantageous for females because they present females with more mate choice as well as increase the genetic diversity of the community. Extra-pair copulations exemplify sexual conflict, a situation in which one behavior is advantageous for one sex, but disadvantageous for the other.

Lek Mating is an aggregation of male animals gathered to engage in competitive displays, lekking, to entice visiting females which are surveying prospective partners for copulation. Leks are commonly formed before or during the breeding season. A lekking species is characterised by male displays, strong female mate choice, and the conferring of male indirect benefits. Although most prevalent among birds such as black grouse, lekking is also found in insects including paper wasps, crustaceans, fishes, amphibians, reptiles and mammals. A classical lek consists of male territories in visual and auditory range of each other. An exploded lek, as seen in the kakapo (the owl parrot), has more widely separated territories, but still in auditory range. Lekking creates a paradox: strong sexual selection by females for specific male traits ought to erode genetic diversity by Fisherian runaway, but diversity is maintained and runaway does not occur. Many attempts have been made to explain it away, but the paradox remains.

Sexual Selection Sexual selection is a mode of natural selection where members of one biological sex choose mates of the other sex to mate with (intersexual selection), and compete with members of the same sex for access to members of the opposite sex (intrasexual selection). These two forms of selection mean that some individuals have better reproductive success than others within a population, either from being more attractive or preferring more attractive partners to produce offspring. For instance, in the breeding season, sexual selection in frogs occurs with the males first gathering at the water's edge and making their mating calls: croaking. The females then arrive and choose the males with the deepest croaks and best territories. Generalizing, males benefit from frequent mating and monopolizing access to a group of fertile females. Females have a limited number of offspring they can have and they maximize the return on the energy they invest in reproduction.

Safe Sex

There's more then just Cooties out there. People who are sexually active should be tested for STD once a year.

Avoiding Sexually Transmitted Disease or STD's, Aids, Herpes, Chlamydia, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and the Human Papilloma Virus to name a few.

STD Testing at Home - Prostitution - Sex Education (does not influence sex)

The Most Sexually Diseased Cities in the USA

Human Immunodeficiency Virus or HIV AIDS, is a condition in humans in which progressive failure of the immune system allows life-threatening opportunistic infections and cancers to thrive. Without treatment, average survival time after infection with HIV is estimated to be 9 to 11 years, depending on the HIV subtype. Infection with HIV occurs by the transfer of blood, semen, vaginal fluid, pre-ejaculate, or breast milk. Within these bodily fluids, HIV is present as both free virus particles and virus within infected immune cells.

More cases of sexually transmitted diseases were reported last year than ever before. More than 1.5 million people were reported with chlamydia, the most common sexually transmitted disease (STD). Gonorrhea infects an estimated 820,000 American's each year, and doctors are worried about the increasing number of gonorrhea cases with antibiotic-resistant bacteria. 19 percent increase in syphilis cases, a 13 percent rise in gonorrhea and a 6 percent increase in chlamydia. Gay and bisexual men account for many of the new cases, and the biggest numbers are among young adults, especially those in their late teens and early 20s. "Half of all STDs occur in youth under age 20".

Party and Play or chemsex is the consumption of drugs to facilitate sexual activity. Sociologically, both terms refer to a subculture of recreational drug users who engage in high-risk sexual activities under the influence of drugs within groups.

Why do some people have Homosexual Tendencies and thoughts while on Cocaine? Less Than Zero (film) (wiki).

Sexual Behavior, Sexual Identity, and Substance Abuse among Low-Income Bisexual and Non-Gay-Identifying African American Men Who Have Sex with Men.

Abuse of some prescription drugs can be risk for college sexual assaults, regretted sex Romantic Remorse - Hookup Regret.

Hooking Up

Can Safe Sex be fun? Why is Safe Sex believed to be unnatural? Religion?

Safe Sex is sexual activity engaged in by people who have taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) such as HIV. It is also referred to as safer sex or protected sex, while unsafe or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged in without precautions, especially forgoing condom use.

How do I learn Safe Sex? Why is safe sex so difficult to talk about? - Great Sex - Trust.

Non-Penetrative Sex is sexual activity that usually does not include sexual penetration. It generally excludes the penetrative aspects of vaginal, anal, or oral sexual activity, but includes various forms of sexual and non-sexual activity, such as frottage, mutual masturbation, kissing, or cuddling. Some forms of non-penetrative sex, particularly when termed outercourse, include penetrative aspects, such as penetration that may result from forms of fingering or oral sex.

Girls who use other birth control methods without using condoms makes them more vulnerable to sexually transmitted infections. (STI's)

Growing antibiotic resistance forces updates to recommended treatment for sexually transmitted infections

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Billions of dollars in healthcare costs for treating STD's.

HIV/AIDS killed .47m people in 2010 and viral hepatitis killed 1.44m, more people in 117 of the 187 countries tracked by the Institute of Health Metrics and Evaluation

Safe Sex is sexual activity engaged in by people who have taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) such as HIV. It is also referred to as safer sex or protected sex, while unsafe or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged in without precautions, especially forgoing condom use.

Peer Pressure - Safer Sex Guide 

Globally, an estimated two-thirds of the population under 50 are infected with Herpes Simplex Virus Type 1. More than 3.7 billion people under the age of 50, or 67% of the population, are infected with herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1).

Condom Nick Names
The Rubber, the C**k Sock, the Goalie, the Love Glove, the Salami Sling, the Raincoat, the Safety Tool, the Willie Hat.
Condom Depot - Condoms (amazon) - Lelo Hex-Condoms
Galactic Cap Condom on just the Tip (youtube) 
Sexually active women who used condoms had larger colonies of beneficial microbes in their vaginas, which preserve the natural flora of the vagina, and also helps to avoid Bacterial Vaginosis.
Women (body knowledge)
How to put on a Condom (youtube)
Female Condom Demonstration (youtube)
Condom Use Instructions
LELO HEX - The World's First Re-Engineered Condom (youtube)
L. Condoms are made from the highest grade materials on earth without the harmful additives. For every condom you purchase, one is distributed in a developing country in need. Get love, give love.
Condoms made from this Native Australian Grass would be as thin as a human hair, but as strong as latex

Stealthing is the intentional removal of a condom during sex without a partner's consent.

Teen Pregnancies, Abortions Plummet With Free Contraception
Choice Project
Long-Acting Reversible Contraception (LARC)

The Safest Sex is No Sex

What is Abstinence-only Sex Education, Abstinence, Sexual Abstinence, Virginity, Sexual Inhibition and Celibacy?
The Vapors - Turning Japanese (youtube)

Why are Condoms better then Birth Control Pills? What are the Side Effects?

Birth Control
What other Birth Control methods are Safe?
Birth Control Methods used by Countries
Teen Pregnancy Prevention
Diaphragm (wiki)
Contraceptive Implant (wiki)
Nexplanon (wiki)
Contraceptive Patch (wiki)
NuvaRing (wiki)
Progestin (wiki)
Tubal Ligation (wiki)
Vasectomy (wiki)
Spermatogenesis Inhibitor ?
Intrauterine Device (IUD) What is an IUD
Levonorgestrel is a manufactured hormone used in a number of birth control methods.
What is Emergency Contraception? (wiki)

Pulling out early does not always work because Semen still comes out before ejaculation. Coitus Interruptus is a method of birth control in which a man, during sexual intercourse, withdraws his penis from a woman's vagina prior to orgasm (and ejaculation) and then directs his ejaculate (semen) away from the vagina in an effort to avoid insemination.

Sperm calcineurin inhibition prevents mouse Fertility with implications for Male Contraceptive.

And having sex on your period or Menstrual Cycle is not a guarantee that you won't get pregnant either.

6 million pregnancies annually in the United States with 3 million pregnancies being unintended or not planned. And those 3 million unintended pregnancies account for the vast majority of the more than 1 million abortions annually performed in the United States.

Population Control is the practice of artificially maintaining the size of any population. It typically refers to the act of limiting the size of an animal population so that it remains manageable, as opposed to the act of protecting a species from excessive rates of extinction, which is referred to as conservation biology.

A Lack of Women in Asia | DW Documentary (youtube) - Asia is missing around 170 million women: 70 million in India, 50 million in China, 20 million in Vietnam, 10 million in Korea. The result of population control policies imposed by the West. The fight for women as tradable commodities takes on a new dimension. With the growing surplus of men, crime rates are rising and threatening the internal stability of these nations.

Human Population Planning is the practice of intentionally controlling the rate of growth of a human population. Historically, human population planning has been implemented with the goal of increasing the rate of human population growth. However, in the period from the 1950's to the 1980's, concerns about global population growth and its effects on poverty, environmental degradation and political stability led to efforts to reduce human population growth rates. More recently, some countries, such as China, Iran, and Spain, have begun efforts to increase their birth rates once again. While population planning can involve measures that improve people's lives by giving them greater control of their reproduction, a few programs, most notably the Chinese government's "one-child policy and two-child policy", have resorted to coercive measures. Ford Foundation: Founder of Modern Population Control - World Population Plan of Action.

The most proven and effective way to control over population is education. People who are highly educated have smaller families. But sadly the rich and powerful don't want people to be more educated because educated people are harder to manipulate and educated people are less likely to believe the lies.

Ovulation is the release of egg from the ovaries. In humans, this event occurs when the de Graaf's follicles rupture and release the secondary oocyte ovarian cells. After ovulation, during the luteal phase, the egg will be available to be fertilized by sperm. In addition, the uterine lining (endometrium) is thickened to be able to receive a fertilized egg. If no conception occurs, the uterine lining as well as blood will be shed during menstruation.

When should you or even should you visit Planned Parenthood?

Adolescent Maternity Program 

Fertility Awareness refers to a set of practices used to determine the fertile and infertile phases of a woman's menstrual cycle. Fertility awareness methods may be used to avoid pregnancy, to achieve pregnancy, or as a way to monitor gynecological health.

Is safe sex really that intrusive or am I just giving into pear pressure or the fact that I’m selfish and can only perform sex under certain narrow minded conditions? Is it just me or am I just being stubborn and spoiled? I can still enjoy driving a car wearing a seatbelt, I can still enjoy the beach wearing suntan lotion, so I should be able to enjoy sex even if I have to wear a condom. If you care about yourself and you care about the person you are with, then you wear a condom.

Can masturbating with a condom make you more at ease with using a condom?

If a women helps you to put on condom for you, will you be more at ease with using a condom?
Would this make you want to use a condom more?  

Unplanned pregnancies, single parents and foster children. .......this is sex education.....

If you can't take responsibility for an outcome you know is possible, then you either don't do it, or you do everything possible to minimize the risk. No one is saying that you can't do it, we are just saying that "Don't be Stupid about it."  Try to avoid making your life more complicated then it needs to be. Learning = Power, Power = Freedom, Freedom = Potential, Potential = Control, Control = Endless Possibilities.

Birth - Giving Birth - Pre-Mature Births

Toxins and Dangers to Babies

Prolife - Prochoice

Sex Education Programs and Teaching Safe Sex Lowers Abortion Rates. When teens have access to the free birth control of their choice, abortion rates plummet. The analysis also found that abortion rates are down worldwide, from 40 per 1,000 women in 1994 to 35 per 1,000 women by 2014. However, the decrease is concentrated mostly in the developed world, where the rate declined from 46 abortions per 1,000 women to 27 per 1,000. Mortality Rates.

Threats, Punishment, Laws, and Fear Mongering doesn't keep people from making mistakes, never has. In 2016, 19 states passed more than 60 restrictions on abortion. And 2017 is starting to offer more of the same: Kentucky passed a bill banning abortion after 20 weeks and Arkansas just passed a law that allows a man to stop his wife from having an abortion if he is the father of the fetus. Restrictive laws don’t actually seem to reduce abortion rates. Instead, they are linked to unsafe abortions, which put women at risk of serious health problems and even death. States that emphasize abstinence-only programs have the highest rates of teen pregnancy and teen birth. Being prolife is being prochoice and being prochoice is being prolife. Shaming people, bullying people or threatening people will never cure people of their ignorance, so it will not help people or change people. Only a high quality education can help people and change people for the better. Punishment doesn't always teach people the difference between right from wrong, only a good education can teach people the difference between right from wrong.

Politicians use prolife and prochoice to divide people and to keep people distracted. Hidden Agendas

1 in 5 American women won't be having a biological child -- some by choice, some by chance.

Christen Reighter, from a young age, knew she didn't want kids, in spite of the insistence of many people (including her doctor) who told her she'd change her mind. In this powerful talk, she shares her story of seeking sterilization -- and makes the case that motherhood is an extension of womanhood, not the definition. Women reported that medical practitioners were often condescending and dismissive of their motivations.

Medical Paternalism is a set of attitudes and practices in medicine in which a physician determines that a patient's wishes or choices should not be honored. These practices which were current up to the early to mid 20th century, and were characterised by a paternalistic attitude, surrogate decision-making and a lack of respect for patient autonomy. It is almost exclusively undertaken with the intention of benefiting the patient, although this is not always the case. In the past, paternalism was considered an absolute medical necessity, as there was little to no public understanding of medical procedures and practices. However, in recent years, paternalism has become limited and blind faith in doctors' decisions has come to be frowned upon. By the end of the 20th century and into the 21st, paternalistic medicine was increasingly seen as inappropriate in the West with guidance from professional bodies such as the General Medical Council indicating that it is ethically unsupportable.

Compulsory Sterilization also known as forced or coerced sterilization, programs are government policies which attempt to force people to undergo surgical or other sterilization. The reasons governments implement sterilization programs vary in purpose and intent. In the first half of the 20th century, several such programs were instituted in countries around the world, usually as part of eugenics programs intended to prevent the reproduction of members of the population considered to be carriers of defective genetic traits.

Intact Dilation and Extraction is a surgical procedure that removes an intact fetus from the uterus. The procedure is used both after late-term miscarriages and in late-term abortions. It is also known as intact dilation and evacuation, dilation and extraction (D&X, or DNX, disfavored term), and, in United States federal law, as partial-birth abortion.

Instead of the Mourning after Pill or Plan B, How about "The Day Before Pill"? A pill (in the form of knowledge and information) that protects you from not being aware of choices, options and responsibilities. This way you make far fewer mistakes and not have to feel like an ignorant moron. So you wake up the next day, you will be extremely happy because you made no mistake the day before. We'll call the pill "Education Plan A Pill" and we will make it free to everyone. No side effects, no guilt and no problems. Just more happiness and more potential.

Just make it against the law for a Man to have sex without a Condom. The Man must have a written "Contract of Consent and Responsibility" from a women if he wants to have sex without a condom. If not, then they both risk getting a fine. The fines will be used to pay for sex education. If you cannot enjoy sex safely, then you should not have sex at all. And if you believe that a condom reduces the pleasure of a sexual experience, then you obviously don't know enough about sex, so don't have sex until you learn enough about sex and know how to enjoy sex fully and safely. And you should also know about the things that are risky and reckless. Knowing what to do is just as important as knowing what not to do. Awareness comes from knowledge. And education is your responsibility, no one else's.

Safe Sex solves this problem, but only when people are also educated to the highest degree.

How Accurate are home Paternity Tests?

One reason why education needs drastic improvements is Abortion. My heart goes out to all women because this is no doubt one of the hardest decisions a women has to make. I wish that men would be more responsible and respectable towards women and just wear a condom or practice safe sex, and I wish that women would be more responsible and respectable towards themselves and practice birth control and self-control, but of course it's not that simple, and blaming someone doesn't help. We need more education and less regulation. Because as history clearly shows, regulation and intimidation does not work, it does not solve our problems, it only makes our problems worse. So we need more education and less legislation because education has been clearly documented as being the greatest determining factor in improving life for everyone. I'm Prolife, as most Prochoice people are, but I'm not going to tell a women what she should do with her life, or would I back any law that would tell a women what she should do. People who hide behind the word pro-life in order to force their beliefs on women, or to intimidate women, are acting more like pro-idiots then they are pro-lifers. The hearts of pro-lifers may be in the right place but they are clearly not using their brains. If you are truly prolife then you should be helping to Feed Starving Children, helping children with diseases, helping homeless children, helping abused children, helping children who have no parents, and you should also be helping to educate children so they learn to respect themselves and learn to respect others, and learn about the dangers of life so they can avoid having to make life or death decisions. Intimidating pregnant women is not going to help them. Women need our love and support, as all children do. Women should see Pregnancy as a blessing as most women do. But if a women feels that her pregnancy is not a blessing, then she needs our help and our support, she does not need our guilt or our regrets. I see a future where all women will feel blessed to be pregnant, and they will give birth because they're educated, healthy and full of love. And if a women decides not to give birth, it will not be because she was threatened or coerced, it will be because it was thought to be the right decision for her and her baby at that time.

Roe v. Wade - Roe v. Wade Documentary (youtube)

Do Prolife Groups Really Protect the Unborn? - Assisted Suicide

Birth Control Sabotage is threats or acts of violence against a partner's reproductive health or reproductive decision-making and is a collection of behaviors intended to pressure or coerce a partner into becoming a parent or ending a pregnancy. Reproductive coercion is a form of domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence, where behavior concerning reproductive health is used to maintain power, control, and domination within a relationship and over a partner through an unwanted pregnancy. It is considered a serious public health issue. This reproductive control is highly correlated to unintended pregnancy. The three forms of reproductive coercion are pregnancy pressure, pregnancy coercion, and birth control sabotage; they can exist independently or occur simultaneously. If a woman does not comply with her partner's wishes, her partner may act out violently against her, which is a common response. Around 10% of U.S. men reported ever having an intimate partner who tried to get pregnant when they did not want to or stopped them from using birth control. Around 9% of U.S. women reported having an intimate partner who tried to get them pregnant when they did not want to or refused to use a condom.

Female Foeticide is the practice of terminating a pregnancy based upon the predicted sex of the infant.
Girl Killers - India (youtube)

Orphans - Adoption - Mentoring

Ever since Texas passed HB2 in 2013 At least 100,000 Texas women—and as many as 240,000—between the ages of 18 and 49 have attempted to self-induce abortions, according to a report released today by the Texas Policy Evaluation Project (TxPEP).

Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Abortion Laws (HBO) (youtube)

Targeted Regulation of Abortion Providers (TRAP Laws)

Study Finds Women Who Want Abortions Are Often Given Misleading Information (PDF)

Nearly half of all abortions worldwide are unsafe, and nearly all unsafe abortions (98%) occur in developing countries. In developing world, 56% of all abortions are unsafe, compared with just 6% in developed regions. In 2008, six million abortions were performed in developed countries and 38 million in developing countries, a disparity that largely reflects population distribution. Of the 55.7 million abortions that occurred worldwide each year between 2010–2014, the researchers estimated that 30.6 million (54.9%) were safe, 17.1 million (30.7%) were less safe and 8 million, (14.4%) were least safe.

Poverty is not just about the lack of money, but it's more about the lack of knowledge.

Feticide is an act that causes the death of a fetus.

Infanticide is the intentional killing of infants.

Neonaticide is the deliberate act of a parent murdering their own child during the first 24 hours of life.

Safe-Haven Law is when a mother feels that she can not properly care for a new born child, she can then leave her unharmed infant at a hospital, Police station or other safe place where someone will definitely find the child. The mother can do this without being persecuted or criminally charged for abandonment. The child then becomes a ward of the state and the parent waives parental rights similar to adoption. "Safe-haven" laws typically let parents remain nameless to the court, often using a numbered bracelet system as the only means of linking the baby to the parent. Texas was the first state to enact a “Baby Moses Law” in 1999, although the Safe Place originates in Mobile, Alabama after a string of infanticides. All 50 states plus the District of Colombia and Puerto Rico have versions of the Safe Haven law. The goal of the laws are to protect newborns from abandonment and death.

Miscarriage is the natural death of an embryo or fetus before it is able to survive independently. Some use the cutoff of 20 weeks of gestation after which fetal death is known as a stillbirth. The most common symptoms of a miscarriage is vaginal bleeding with or without pain. Sadness, anxiety and guilt may occur. Tissue or clot-like material may also come out of the vagina. (also known as spontaneous abortion and pregnancy loss).

Damage to Sperm DNA can lead to repeat miscarriages. Between 1 and 2 percent of couples have recurrent pregnancy loss (RPL), defined as the consecutive loss of three or more pregnancies before 20 weeks gestation.

There are about 4.4 million confirmed pregnancies in the U.S. every year. 900,000 to 1 million of those end in pregnancy losses EVERY year. Approximately 75% of all miscarriages occur in the first trimester. An estimated 80% of all miscarriages are single miscarriages. The vast majority of women suffering one miscarriage can expect to have a normal pregnancy next time. An estimated 19% of the adult population has experienced the death of a child (this includes miscarriages through adult-aged children).

Stillbirth is typically defined as fetal death at or after 20 to 28 weeks of pregnancy. It results in a baby born without signs of life. A stillbirth can result in the feeling of guilt in the mother. The term is in contrast to miscarriage which is an early pregnancy loss and live birth where the baby is born alive, even if it dies shortly after. PDF.

Sudden Infant Death is the sudden unexplained death of a child less than one year of age. Diagnosis requires that the death remains unexplained even after a thorough autopsy and detailed death scene investigation. SIDS usually occurs during sleep. Typically death occurs between the hours of 00:00 and 09:00. There is usually no evidence of struggle and no noise produced.

Premature Births

Mizuko Kuyo is a Japanese ceremony for those who have had a miscarriage, stillbirth, or abortion. This practice has become particularly visible since the 1970s with the creation of shrines devoted solely to this ritual. Reasons for the performance of these rites can include parental grief, desire to comfort the soul of the fetus, guilt for an abortion, or even fear of retribution from a vengeful spirit.

300.000 Mothers die from complications from pregnancy and childbirth every year

WHO estimated 40-50 million abortions every year in the world. This corresponds to approximately 125,000 abortions per day. 1.72 billion abortions worldwide in the last 40 years.

Population Still Rising - Causes of Death

Falling out of Love, or Falling out of Lust?

Infidelity is referred to as cheating, adultery (when married), being unfaithful, or having an affair) is a violation of a couple's assumed or stated contract regarding emotional and/or sexual exclusivity. Other scholars define infidelity as a violation according to the subjective feeling that one's partner has violated a set of rules or relationship norms; this violation results in feelings of sexual jealousy and rivalry.

Hooking Up - I'm not comfortable

Adultery is extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on social, religious, moral, or legal grounds. Though what sexual activities constitute adultery varies, as well as the social, religious and legal consequences, the concept exists in many cultures and is similar in Islam, Christianity and Judaism. A single act of sexual intercourse is generally sufficient to constitute adultery, and a more long-term sexual relationship is sometimes referred to as an affair.

Affair is a sexual relationship, romantic friendship, or passionate attachment between two people without the attached person's significant other knowing.

Why is it called Cheating? - Rejection - Jealousy

Sexual incompatibility is when one person really doesn't like sex and the other person does. Or, one person wants to have sex more often than the other person.

Alienation of Affections is a common law tort, abolished in many jurisdictions. Where it still exists, an action is brought by a deserted spouse against a third party alleged to be responsible for the failure of the marriage. The defendant in an alienation of affections suit is typically an adulterous spouse's lover, although family members, counselors and therapists or clergy members who have advised a spouse to seek divorce have also been sued for alienation of affections. As of 2016, six US states (Hawaii, North Carolina, Mississippi, New Mexico, South Dakota, and Utah) recognize this tort. The tort of alienation of affections is similar to the tort of criminal conversation.

Criminal Conversation, is a tort arising from adultery, abolished in many jurisdictions. It is similar to breach of promise, a tort involving a broken engagement against the betrothed, and alienation of affection, a tort action brought by a deserted spouse against a third party.

Breach of Promise was also called breach of contract to marry, and the remedy awarded was known as heart balm. From at least the Middle Ages until the early 20th century, a man's promise of engagement to marry a woman was considered, in many jurisdictions, a legally binding contract. If the man were to subsequently change his mind, he would be said to be in "breach" of this promise and subject to litigation for damages. The converse of this was seldom true; the concept that "it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind" had at least some basis in law (though a woman might pay a high social price for exercising this privilege, as explained below)—and unless an actual dowry of money or property had changed hands or the woman could be shown to have become engaged to a man only to be able to use large amounts of his money, a man was only rarely able to recover in a "breach of promise" suit against a woman, were he even allowed to file one.

Philanderers is a man who readily or frequently enters into casual sexual relationships with women; a womanizer.

Promiscuity is the practice of having casual sex frequently with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners. The term can carry a moral judgment if the social ideal for sexual activity is monogamous relationships. A common example of behavior viewed as promiscuous by many cultures is the one-night stand, and its frequency is used by researchers as a marker for promiscuity.

Player is a male who is skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex. "play him for a fool", or "play him like a violin".

What is a Open Relationship?

Limerence is a state of mind which results from a romantic attraction to another person and typically includes obsessive thoughts and fantasies and a desire to form or maintain a relationship with the object of love and have one's feelings reciprocated.

Sugar Daddy?

Age Disparity in Sexual Relationships refers to differences in ages of individuals in all sexual relationships.

Sugar Baby is a slang term for a young female or male who is financially pampered/cared for by a 'sugar daddy' or 'sugar mama' in exchange for companionship. Prostitution.

Gold Digger is a person (usually female) who cultivates a personal relationship in order to attain money.

Cougar is a slang term referring to a woman who seeks sexual activity with significantly younger men.

Jailbait is slang for a person who is younger than the legal age of consent for sexual activity, with the implication that a person above the age of consent might find them sexually attractive.

Trophy Wife is an informal term for a wife, usually young and attractive, who is regarded as a status symbol for the husband, who is often older or unattractive, but usually wealthy. Such a gentleman may be referred to as a sugar daddy. The term is normally used in a derogatory or disparaging way. The term trophy husband is the male equivalent, although this is rarer. A trophy wife is usually a second or later marriage.

Polyamory (hooking up)

Monogamy is having only one spouse at a time and not fooling around.

Evolution used same Genetic Formula to turn Animals Monogamous. According to a new study that looked at 10 species of vertebrates, evolution used a kind of universal formula for turning non-monogamous species into monogamous species -- turning up the activity of some genes and turning down others in the brain.

What is Romance is the expressive and pleasurable feeling from an emotional attraction towards another person often associated with sexual attraction. It is eros rather than agape, philia, or storge.

What is Love?

Some of My Personal Experiences with Relationships (feeling boxed in)

Wanderlust is a strong desire for or impulse to wander or travel and explore the world.

Why can't you have an affair with the person your with? Acting and dressing up as other people could be fun. Breaking up sucks, and on top of that, you're always wondering what went wrong. It would be great if there was a last meeting between the two people ending a relationship, that would be used to discus why the friendship or relationship can not continue. Then at least you could have a chance to explain certain behaviors or changes. So at the least a person could learn from the experience, even if the friendship or relationship ends. Effective communication skills again become extremely important. Never under estimate the importance of effective communication skills. It's extremely important for everyone to learn effective communication skills, or have someone teach you effective communication skills. Communication is your vehicle for transferring knowledge and information, not just to others, but to yourself. To be a great learner, you have to be a good communicator. Because if you don't have the necessary vocabulary to tag information with proper labels, then remembering this information is extremely difficult. This is why we name things.

When I say your name, I'm saying that I remember you. Even though a name or label could never fully explain everything about the contents, names and labels do make our lives a lot easier.

Esther Perel: Rethinking infidelity a talk for anyone who has ever loved (video)

Don't Break my Heart

Why does a Broken Heart cause so much pain? - Rejection.

Broken Heart also known as a heartbreak or heartache) is a term metaphor for the intense emotional—and sometimes physical—stress or pain one feels at experiencing great longing. The concept is cross-cultural, often cited with reference to a desired or lost lover, and dates back at least 3,000 years. Emotional pain that is severe can cause 'broken heart syndrome', including physical damage to the Heart.

Takotsubo Cardiomyopathy is a type of non-ischemic cardiomyopathy in which there is a sudden temporary weakening of the muscular portion of the Heart. This weakening may be triggered by emotional stress, such as the death of a loved one, a break-up, or constant anxiety. This leads to one of the common names, Broken Heart Syndrome. Stress cardiomyopathy is now a well-recognized cause of acute heart failure, lethal ventricular arrhythmias, and ventricular rupture. The name "Takotsubo syndrome" comes from the Japanese word for a kind of octopus trap (ja), because the left ventricle takes on a shape resembling a fishing pot.

Emotions (why we feel)


A person can have sex with one person their whole life. But that doesn't make them an expert. It only means that they had sex, and not that they have learned enough for them to be an expert. And just because you had sex with several different people, this too does not make you an expert. It mostly depends on who you're with, and that both of you had the time and knowledge to fully explore the world of intimacy. But just going to school does not make you a teacher. To be good in bed is to be good in the head. Meaning, it's what you know and not how well you blow. But for some people it's the opposite. Being good in bed might be enough for some people, but eventually, you will realize there is so much more to life then sex. And that is when you will enjoy sex even more. Sex is personal, and sex is an agreement between two people. And each person will experience sex in their own way, even when they have sex with the same person multiple times. When you can openly communicate with your partner about sex, that is when sex becomes its best. But, you can have a great relationship with someone but not have great sex with that someone. And, you can have great sex with someone, but not have a great relationship with that someone. And when you can have a great relationship with someone, and have great sex, and feel you're in love, that is when you get married. Unless of course your life takes you both in two different directions, which happens. You can have it all and still not have everything, which is the mistake that everyone makes. What we want is not necessarily what we need. And the only way to know exactly what we need is to keep learning. You can think about the "what ifs", or you can think about the "what now?" A "what if" is just a guess of where you might have been. A "what now" is knowing where you are at the present time, and where you think you are going to be in the future.

Exploring Sexuality

When do I get to fully explore my Sexuality? You most likely will not get it right the first time...so when will you get it right? How long does it take to know someone?

Sexual Surrogate are hired by individuals experiencing sexual dysfunction to provide direct sexual activity, with the goal of improving the quality of the client's future sexual experiences. Prostitution.

What is a Love and Intimacy Coach? - World Association of Sex Coaches

Smokey & The Miracles: You Better Shop Around (youtube)

When will I know who is the right person to explore my sexuality with? Relationships.


Kiss is the touch or pressing of one's lips against another person or an object.

How to Kiss Creatively (youtube)

kissing - Master the Art of Kissing

Kissing Tradition involve kissing which can indicate joy or be used as part of a greeting. Kissing involves the Touching of one's lips to the lips or other body part, such as the cheek, head, hand, of another person.

Why people have Lateral Preferences when Kissing and Hugging. People tend to tilt their head to the right rather than to the left when kissing and initiate a hug with the right hand, and in emotional situations, the lateral preference shifts to the right. To cradle a baby in the left arm. The dominant hand is kept unoccupied when cradling a child so that it can be used to perform other tasks.

Gestures - Senses - Brail - Message

Air Kiss is a ritual or social gesture whose meaning is basically the same as that of many forms of kissing. The air kiss is a pretence of kissing: the lips are pursed as if kissing, but without actually touching the other person's body. Sometimes, the air kiss includes touching cheek-to-cheek. Also, the gesture may be accompanied by the mwah sound.

Spin the Bottle is a party game in which several players sit/stand/kneel in a circle. A bottle is placed on the floor in the center of the circle. A player spins the bottle, and must kiss the person to whom the bottle points when it stops spinning.

Making Out refers to kissing, petting, and necking, but may also refer to non-penetrative sex acts such as heavy petting. Snogging is a term with roughly the same meaning in British English and some related varieties of English, except in Hiberno-English (spoken in Ireland), where it is more commonly known as shifting. How to make out (youtube).

Hickey is a bruise or bruise-like mark caused by the kissing or sucking of the skin, usually on the neck or arm. While biting might be part of giving a hickey, sucking is sufficient to burst small superficial blood vessels under the skin. Be extremely careful because a young person died after receiving a hickey from his 24-year-old girlfriend. The suction was strong enough to cause a blood clot in the neck. The clot traveled to his brain and caused a fatal stroke. The stroke occurred hours after the hickey was given, when he began having convulsions while having dinner with his family.

Physical Intimacy is sensual proximity or touching. It is an act or reaction, such as an expression of feelings (including close friendship, love, or sexual attraction), between people. Examples of physical intimacy include being inside someone's personal space, holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing, and sexual activity.

Foreplay is a set of emotionally and physically intimate acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity. Either or any of the sexual partners may indicate sexual interest to initiate foreplay, and the initiator may not be the active partner during the sexual activity. Foreplay stimulates both partners' sexuality, lowers inhibitions and increases emotional intimacy between partners, and implies a certain level of confidence and trust between the partners. In animal sexual behavior, the loose equivalent is sometimes termed 'precoital activity'. Why is is foreplay important?

Sexual Arousal is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in anticipation of sexual activity. A number of physiological responses occur in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue during it. Libido.

What is a Skin Orgasm?

Hug is a form of physical intimacy, universal in human communities, in which two or more people put their arms around the neck, back, or waist of one another and hold each other closely. If more than two persons are involved, this is informally referred to as a group hug. Why are Hugs important? Why is a Hug more beneficial to a person then an Orgasm?

Cuddle Party - What is Cuddling? (youtube)

Social Touching (PDF) - Touching - Body Smart

The role of touch in regulating inter-partner physiological coupling during empathy for pain. When an empathetic partner holds the hand of a woman in pain, their heart and respiratory rates sync and her pain dissipates. The more empathic the partner and the stronger the analgesic effect, the higher the synchronization between the two when they are touching. Brainwaves fall into a similar pattern.

Holding hands can sync brainwaves, ease pain, study shows
Brain-to-brain coupling during handholding is associated with pain reduction

Why can’t you tickle yourself?

Tickling is the act of touching a part of a body in a way that causes involuntary twitching movements or laughter. The word About this sound "tickle" evolved from the Middle English tikelen, perhaps frequentative of ticken, to touch lightly.

Efference Copy is an internal copy of an outflowing (efferent), movement-producing signal generated by the motor system. It can be collated with the (reafferent) sensory input that results from the agent's movement, enabling a comparison of actual movement with desired movement, and a shielding of perception from particular self-induced effects on the sensory input to achieve perceptual stability. Together with internal models, efference copies can serve to enable the brain to predict the effects of an action. An equal term with a different history is corollary discharge. Efference copies are important in enabling motor adaptation such as to enhance gaze stability. They have a role in the perception of self and nonself electric fields in electric fish. They also underlie the phenomenon of tickling.

What is being in the Mood? What are some of the things that help you get in the mood? Can you control your Mood?

What does it mean to be treated like an object? Dehumanization.

Social Dangers - Dating Dangers

Groping is touching or fondling another person in an unwelcome sexual way using the hands. Harassment.

Why is it important to find a good lover, and to be a good lover?

Knowing how to effectively communicate to yourself is one thing, knowing how to communicate with others is another thing.

How do you avoid Sexual Frustration?

Sexual Frustration in humans is frustration caused by a discrepancy between a person's desired and achieved sexual activity. It can be a result of multiples issues such as obtaining less sex than desired. It may also derive from not being satisfied during sex, which may be due to issues such as anorgasmia, anaphrodisia, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction or an incompatibility or discrepancy in libido.

Sexual Performance Anxiety Causes and Treatments - Anxieties

Sometimes men, in order to maintain an erection and to keep from having an orgasm to quickly, men must learn to stay focused continually for many minutes, and then be able to change focus back and fourth when needed. 
How do you handle Rejection?

Information Literacy
Problem Solving
Intelligence - Social Intelligence
Awareness - Confidence

How do I talk to my partner about sex when I have little or no experience? Learn Together. Communication.

Will having great sex make it more difficult to repeat a great sexual experience?

Should I just settle for and except mediocre sex?

How does Body Image effect my sexuality?  Feeling comfortable in your own skin.

Manscaping is when a man grooms, trims or shaves his pubic hair, or the hair on his body.

Pubic Hair Grooming Prevalence and Motivation Among Women in the United States

What's that hard disk behind my nipple?

Gynecomastia is a common disorder of the endocrine system in which there is a non-cancerous increase in the size of male breast tissue. Most adolescent boys, up to 70%, have some breast development during puberty. Newborn and adolescent males often experience temporary gynecomastia due to the influence of maternal hormones and hormonal changes during puberty, respectively. The development of gynecomastia is usually associated with benign pubertal changes; in adolescent boys, the condition is often a source of psychological distress. However, 75% of pubertal gynecomastia cases resolve within two years of onset without treatment. In rare cases, gynecomastia has been known to occur in association with certain disease states. Gynecomastia may be seen in individuals with Klinefelter syndrome or certain cancers, with disorders involving the endocrine system or metabolic dysfunction, with the use of certain medications, or in older males due to a natural decline in testosterone production.

How many sexual experiences does a person need to have before they figure out what they like?
How many sexual experiences does a person need to have before they become experienced?
When is the right time to talk about sexual preferences with your partner? - Communication.
If I feel uncomfortable doing a particular sex act do I still have to do it because my partner likes it?
Can I find ways to enjoy something that I normally don’t like?
How do I explain to my lover what I like and what I don't like?

Message Techniques

Do I need a Sex Contract or Consensual Sex Agreement, or is this unnecessary and dangerous?

Relationship Contract 

When is having a good sense of humor about sex important?

Sex Positions

What Sex Positions do I need to know?

Sexual Intercourse Positions for Man and Women It's not just how you touch your lover, or where you touch your lover, it's more about how your lover reacts to your touch, which can vary depending on the time, the place and the mood. Communication.

SSex Positions for Female Orgasm (youtube) - Doggy Style, Cowgirl, Legs Over Shoulders.

Sex Positions for Female Orgasm

Are certain Sex Acts that enhance your sexual experience all in your head or is this your real G-Spot? Why are there so many sexual positions?

Sex Info 101

Should I learn Sensual Massage Techniques?

Message - Masseuse

Kama Sutra is a guide to a virtuous and gracious living that discusses the nature of love, family life and other aspects pertaining to pleasure oriented faculties of human life. It is presumed or depicted as a synonym for creative sexual positions; in reality, only 20% of Kama Sutra is about sexual positions.

Tantric Sex is synonymous with "spiritual sex" or "sacred sexuality," a belief that sex should be recognized as a sacred act capable of elevating its participants to a higher spiritual plane. A catch-all phrase for "sacred sexuality", and may incorporate unorthodox practices. Seen as a "cult of ecstasy", combining sexuality and spirituality to correct Western repressive attitudes towards sex.

Mindful Sex is having awareness and being relaxed, it's taking your time to learn and to explore your sexuality and your partners sexuality.

Sex Magic is any type of sexual activity used in magical, ritualistic or otherwise religious and spiritual pursuits. One practice of sex magic is using the energy of sexual arousal or orgasm with visualization of a desired result. A premise of sex magic is the concept that sexual energy is a potent force that can be harnessed to transcend one's normally perceived reality.

Wheelchair Sex Positions Wheelchair Sex - Wheel Chairs

Intimate Rider helps overcome physical challenges & disabilities, achieve a broader range of motion with minimal effort. More than 56 million Americans who have some kind of disability.

Disability Sex and Relationships

Mechanics of Human Sexuality
The mechanics of human sexuality or mechanics of sex, or more formally the Biomechanics of human sexuality, is the study of the mechanics related to human sexual activity. Examples of topics include the biomechanical study of the strength of vaginal tissues and the biomechanics of male erectile function. The mechanics of sex under limit circumstances, such as sexual activity at zero-gravity in outer space, are also being studied.

Exercise Knowledge

Pioneering researchers studied the male and female genitals during coitus (penile-vaginal penetration) with ultrasound technology in 1992 and magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) in 1999, mapping the anatomy of the activity and taking images illustrating the fit of male and female genitals. In the research using MRI, researchers imaged couples performing coitus inside an MRI machine. The magnetic resonance images also showed that the penis has the shape of a boomerang, that one third of its length consists of the root of the penis, and that the vaginal walls wrap snugly around it. Moreover, MRI during coitus indicate that the internal part of the clitoris is stimulated by penile-vaginal movements. These studies highlight the role of the clitoris and indicate that what is termed the G-spot may only exist because the highly innervated clitoris is pulled closely to the anterior wall of the vagina when the woman is sexually aroused and during vaginal penetration.

Human Sexual Activity is the manner in which humans experience and express their sexuality. People engage in a variety of sexual acts, ranging from activities done alone (e.g., masturbation) to acts with another person (e.g., sexual intercourse, non-penetrative sex, oral sex, etc.) in varying patterns of frequency, for a wide variety of reasons. Sexual activity normally results in sexual arousal and physiological changes in the aroused person, some of which are pronounced while others are more subtle. Sexual activity may also include conduct and activities which are intended to arouse the sexual interest of another or enhance the sex life of another, such as strategies to find or attract partners (courtship and display behavior), or personal interactions between individuals (for instance, foreplay or BDSM). Sexual activity may follow sexual arousal. Human sexual activity has sociological, cognitive, emotional, behavioral and biological aspects; these include personal bonding, sharing emotions and the physiology of the reproductive system, sex drive, sexual intercourse and sexual behavior in all its forms. In some cultures, sexual activity is considered acceptable only within marriage, while premarital and extramarital sex are taboo. Some sexual activities are illegal either universally or in some countries or subnational jurisdictions, while some are considered contrary to the norms of certain societies or cultures. Two examples that are criminal offenses in most jurisdictions are sexual assault and sexual activity with a person below the local age of consent. - PDF.


Orgasm is the sudden discharge of accumulated sexual excitement during the sexual response cycle, resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by sexual pleasure. Experienced by males and females, orgasms are controlled by the involuntary or autonomic nervous system. They are often associated with other involuntary actions, including muscular spasms in multiple areas of the body, a general euphoric sensation and, frequently, body movements and vocalizations. The period after orgasm (known as the refractory period) is often a relaxing experience, attributed to the release of the neurohormones oxytocin and prolactin as well as endorphins (or "endogenous morphine"). Human orgasms usually result from physical sexual stimulation of the penis in males (typically accompanying ejaculation), and the clitoris in females. Sexual stimulation can be by self-practice (masturbation) or with a sex partner (penetrative sex, non-penetrative sex, or other sexual activity). The health effects surrounding the human orgasm are diverse. There are many physiological responses during sexual activity, including a relaxed state created by prolactin, as well as changes in the central nervous system such as a temporary decrease in the metabolic activity of large parts of the cerebral cortex while there is no change or increased metabolic activity in the limbic (i.e., "bordering") areas of the brain. There is also a wide range of sexual dysfunctions, such as anorgasmia. These effects impact cultural views of orgasm, such as the beliefs that orgasm and the frequency/consistency of it are important or irrelevant for satisfaction in a sexual relationship, and theories about the biological and evolutionary functions of orgasm. Synesthesia.

Why does touching feel good, while other times it does not feel good?

Do you have to have an Orgasm in order to enjoy sex? - Temporary Gratification.

Orgasm Control is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period of time without reaching orgasm. When practiced by males, orgasm control allows the practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without waiting through the refractory period common after orgasm. When the decision is made to allow orgasm, the physical sensations may be much greater and more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced conventionally.

The average women needs around 25 minutes of sexual activity to have an orgasm. Men orgasm more than women, with a 52% Orgasm Gap. Lesbian women have significantly more orgasms than straight women. Women have more orgasms when they masturbate than when they are with a partner. Great Sex Tips.

Expanded Orgasm an full body orgasmic state which lasts 30 minutes or longer.

Brain Orgasm refers to a sensation of tingling or warmth that is triggered by specific sounds or visual scenarios. It generally originates in the crown of the head or back of the neck and can travel throughout the periphery of the body.

Energygasm is an orgasm triggered by the mind. It involves tantric stuff and uses elements of mindfulness.

Ejaculation is the discharge of semen (normally containing sperm) from the male reproductory tract, usually accompanied by orgasm. It is the final stage and natural objective of male sexual stimulation, and an essential component of natural conception.

Where does the Orgasm come from? Sex is not supposed to be a race to the finish line. While 75 percent of men always reach orgasm during sex, only 29 percent of women report the same. In addition, most women are unable to climax through vaginal intercourse, instead needing Clitoral Stimulation. Sex shouldn't be just about the orgasm but more about the exploration of the human body and the exploration of our senses, this way you learn something about yourself and the other person, thus sex becomes more enjoyable and more meaningful over time.

In what ways can a man make a women orgasm? (youtube)

Where is the G-Spot (youtube)

Internal Clitoris

G-Spot is characterized as an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and potential female ejaculation. It is typically reported to be located 5–8 cm (2–3 in) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the female prostate.

Super Orgasms. Experts claim that the climaxing state is possible with a mix of relaxation, yoga and bonding. Those with the ability of being “super orgasmic” typically have greater blood flow to their genitals compared to “single orgasmic” women.

Orgasms can help you Sleep. when you orgasm you release a cocktail of hormones that actually promote good sleep. Oxytocin, a.k.a. the love hormone, counteracts stress hormones, which helps you fall asleep. And serotonin and norepinephrine help the body cycle through REM and deepnon-REM sleep cycles. An orgasm also releases a hormone called prolactin, which causes stem cells in the brain to develop new neurons in the brain’s olfactory bulb (or smell centre). In women, prolactin is known to surge after sex, during pregnancy and while breastfeeding. Vasopressin is also released during orgasm, which is another chemical associated with sleep. Vasopressin increases the amount of solute-free water reabsorbed back into the circulation from the filtrate in the kidney tubules of the nephrons. Second, AVP constricts arterioles, which increases peripheral vascular resistance and raises arterial blood pressure. A third function is possible. Some AVP may be released directly into the brain from the hypothalamus, and may play an important role in social behavior, sexual motivation and pair bonding, and maternal responses to stress. It has a very short half-life, between 16–24 minutes.

Blended Orgasm happens when both a clitoral and vaginal orgasm occur simultaneously.

Vaginal Orgasm is a G-Spot Orgasm. Touching.

Clitoral Orgasm is a direct stimulation of the Clitoris.

Why do females make more sounds then men during sex?

Female Copulatory Vocalization occur during sexual intercourse and are hence related to sexual activity. Vocalizations that occur before intercourse, for the purpose of attracting mates, are known as mating calls. In humans, coital vocalizations are linked to orgasm, hence occurring during copulation and serving as an expression of sexual pleasure. Vocalizations can be used intentionally by women in order to boost the self-esteem of their partner and to cause quicker ejaculation.

Nocturnal Emission is a wet dream or sleep orgasm.

Can sleeping on your stomach provoke sex dreams?

Coregasm is an orgasm triggered by exercise.

Sexercises is physical exercise performed in preparation for sexual activity and designed to tone, build, and strengthen muscles. Sexercises are often performed as part of a sex diet lifestyle, which seeks to maximize the health benefits of regular sexual activity. Exercise is known to improve and quicken the flow of oxygenated blood, in higher and consistent amounts, along with other beneficial chemical compounds, to the genitalia, which is important for fertility and important during intercourse. Sexercises range from Kegel exercise to aerobic and cardiovascular routines. Flexibility for performing contortion specifically for erotic or sexual positions may also be practiced.

"Sex helps you sleep better, and better sleep helps you have sex."

Exercise will also immediately increase levels of neurotransmitters like dopamine, serotonin and noradrenaline, which will increase your mood right after that workout. Exercise also produces brand new brain cells in the hippocampus, that actually increase its volume, as well as improve your long-term memory. Effects of long-term exercise improves attention function dependent or your prefrontal cortex. You not only get better focus and attention, but the volume of the hippocampus increases as well.

Male orgasms that happen when sleeping are better known as "wet dreams".

Sleep Sex is a condition in which a person will engage in sexual activities while asleep.

Why is a Man's Penis very Sensitive after an Orgasm? After an orgasm the head of the penis, the glans, is usually very sensitive. The most "over-sensitivity" is in the first few moments right after orgasm. Refractory period and is there to ensure you get out of the vagina as soon as you ejaculate. This is because evolution has shaped your glans as a scoop to get the sperm of your male competitors out before you deposit your own. "So sloppy seconds is not necessarily that bad from a reproduction point of view. Being first or dominate is not always a good thing."

Refractory Period is usually the recovery phase after orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for a man to have additional orgasms. This phase begins immediately after ejaculation and lasts until the excitement phase of the human sexual response cycle begins anew with low level response. Although it is generally reported that women do not experience a refractory period and can thus experience an additional orgasm (or multiple orgasms) soon after the first one, some sources state that both men and women experience a refractory period because women may also experience a moment after orgasm in which further sexual stimulation does not produce excitement.

Refractory Period in Physiology is the fundamental property of any object of autowave nature (especially excitable medium) not to respond on stimuli, if the object stays in the specific refractory state. In common sense, refractory period is the characteristic recovery time, a period of time that is associated with the motion of the image point on the left branch of the isocline u ˙ = 0 {\displaystyle {\dot {u}}=0} \dot{u} = 0[B: 1] (for more details, see also Reaction-diffusion and Parabolic partial differential equation).

Psychological Refractory Period psychological refractory period (PRP) refers to the period of time during which the response to a second stimulus is significantly slowed because a first stimulus is still being processed. This delay in response time when one is required to divide attention can exhibit a negative effect that is evident in many fields of study. The PRP can be used to investigate many areas of research that study processes which require divided attention, such as reading aloud, language, or driving and talking on the phone. PRP effects related to personality, age, and level of alcohol or caffeine intake have also been investigated.

Human Sexual Response Cycle is a four-stage model of physiological responses to sexual stimulation, which, in order of their occurrence, are the excitement phase, plateau phase, orgasmic phase and resolution phase.

Excitement Phase (also known as the arousal phase or initial excitement phase) is the first stage of the human sexual response cycle, which occurs as a result of physical or mental erotic stimuli, such as kissing, petting, or viewing erotic images, that leads to sexual arousal. During this stage, the body prepares for sexual intercourse, initially leading to the plateau phase. There is wide socio-cultural variation regarding preferences for the length of foreplay and the stimulation methods used. Physical and emotional interaction and stimulation of the erogenous zones during foreplay usually establishes at least some initial arousal.

Foreplay is a set of emotionally and physically intimate acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity. Foreplay results in physiological and mental responses in both parties in anticipation of the expected sexual activity. Either or any of the sexual partners may indicate sexual interest and initiate foreplay, and the initiator may not be the active partner during the sexual activity. Foreplay stimulates both partners' sexuality, lowers inhibitions and increases emotional intimacy between partners, and implies a certain level of confidence and trust between the partners. In animal sexual behavior, the loose equivalent is sometimes termed 'precoital activity'.

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Anyone could have a particular area of their body that can be sensitive to sexual stimulation.

Happy Ending


Skin Orgasms

Caressing is touching or stroking gently or lovingly. Affectionate play.

Kissing - Foreplay - Message - When Not to Touch

Touch is a complex system of nerve cells that responds to changes to the surface or internal state of the body.

Frisson is a sensation somewhat like shivering, usually caused by stimuli other than cold. It is typically expressed as an overwhelming emotional response combined with piloerection (Goosebumps). Stimuli that produce a response are specific to the individual. Exploring.

Why does a persons Touch sometimes Tickle? How our Brains distinguish between Self-Touch and Touch by Others.

How To Stop Yourself Being Ticklish - with Dr Emily Grossman (youtube)

Erogenous Zone is an area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity, the stimulation of which may generate a sexual response, such as relaxation, the production of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm. Erogenous zones are located all over the human body, but the sensitivity of each varies, and depends on concentrations of nerve endings that can provide pleasurable sensations when stimulated. The touching of another person's erogenous zone is regarded as an act of physical intimacy. Some people may resent stimulation in this manner while others may find it pleasing, and this may also depend on the relationship between the persons involved. Erogenous zones may be classified by the type of sexual response that they generate. Many people are gently aroused when their eyelids, eyebrows, temples, shoulders, hands, arms and hair are subtly touched. Gently touching or stroking of these zones stimulates a partner during foreplay and increases the arousal level. Also, the gentle massage or stroke of the abdominal area along with kissing or simply touching the navel can be a type of stimulation.

Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone is reportedly a female erogenous zone that when stimulated can lead to rapid vaginal lubrication and arousal, sometimes without any other form of stimulation, with continued stimulation resulting in an intense orgasm. Second G-Spot.

Prostate Massage is the massage or stimulation of the male prostate gland for medical purposes or sexual stimulation. The prostate takes part in the sexual response cycle, and is essential for the production of semen. Due to its proximity to the anterior rectal wall, it can be stimulated from the anterior wall of the rectum or externally via the perineum.


Great Sex

One of the secrets to great sex is Communication. If you can openly communicate with someone, that's when sex can be incredible. So you will need to know how to Communicate effectively with yourself and communicate effectively with your partner, openly and honestly. This means that you will need to educate yourself about a lot of different subjects, because you will need a lot more than just experience in order to understand yourself and others accurately. And you also need to promise to keep learning about yourself and promise to keep learning about your partner because people can change over time, so it's a good idea to be prepared for those changes. The next important thing is, you will need to feel comfortable in your own skin, with no expectations, no awkwardness and no self doubt. Sex should happen without feeling any kind of guilt and without feeling any type of insecurity, because once you remove all self-conscious fears and doubts, that is when sex becomes truly amazing, like a spiritual awakening, but that's only if you're with the right person, because some people are not meant for eachother and some people just don't want to learn. The next important thing is, you will need to make your lover feel sexy and beautiful, and make them feel loved, and make them feel comfortable and worry free. You have to make sure that the information that you're communicating to your lover is being interpreted correctly, this way the desired action is performed in the right way. Great sex happens when two people work together on achieving common goals. Sometimes the man will need to delay his own orgasm so that his partner can achieve an orgasm as well. Sometimes it's best that the man gives first before receiving, because a man could easily lose interest after an orgasm. Remember that the average women needs around 25 minutes of sexual activity in order to have an orgasm. So please be aware of your partners needs. And also be aware that people may want to have sex at different times in the day, so if someone is not in the mood for sex or ready for sex, then you have to patient and understanding of each others ups and downs. Being Horney at different times than your partner is not that unusual. It's how you understand that moment and how you both agree what the appropriate rules should be at that moment. It starts with a question, but neither person can expect anything, only know yourself and know your partner. Know that people are sometimes not in the mood, and know that people can also change their minds. But the person needs to explain what they feel, effectively and accurately. If you have trust and communication, then you have great sex. And the sex keeps getting better and better as time goes on, especially if you're with the right person. This is when you realize that learning is the best orgasm that you will ever have, but not right away of course, a little after. And remember, if an orgasm is your only goal, then you will most likely never appreciate or understand the fantastic journey of having sex. A man needs to be able to focus and be able to change his focus when needed. And a man also needs to be able to multitask at times, and also learn how to relax and let go when the time comes. Sex is about Giving and Receiving. And giving must be totally unselfish. It's my turn now, then it's your turn next, Reciprocation. Giving should be about the receiver and their needs and their personal preferences. And when you're receiving, this is a great opportunity for you to really explore yourself and enjoy all the various sensations of sex. Role play if needed, but don't lose yourself in the character. Taking turns means that each person should have an equal amount of time playing the leader who's in control and who gets to tell the other person what to do and what to say.

Safe Sex - Trust - Sharing - Exploring

Being able to say anything you want, is good and bad. A man would say things to his friend that he would not say to his wife or girlfriend. Most of the time it's out of respect and other times it's being submissive or censored. Some language is offensive, but that depends on who you talk to. Something's don't need to be said, but some people like to say certain things because they perceive them to be either funny or shocking. And most of the time people will never fully explain what we mean, or say if they were even trying to say something meaningful. Sometimes people are just shooting the sh*t, or just making conversation or small talk. But when we cannot communicate things to a person effectively, then understanding is lost. And if someone does not want to listen or understand, which is different than tolerate, then that person will stop learning and will never care about other people in the way they should.

To be Good in Bed you have to be Good in the Head, which means that you need to learn how to be a good lover in order to be a good lover. You want to get to a point where you know your partner really well so that you can take them on an amazing journey filled with pleasure without having to be told what to do or how to do it. Learn to Empathize and feel joy in knowing that someone else is feeling joy too because of you. Compassion.

To truly experience Pleasure, and too really enjoy all the sensations of pleasure fully, you have to understand what pleasure is and also know yourself and be aware of yourself. Knowledge is the key to pleasure, the more you know, the more things in life you can enjoy. "It's kind of like helping each other masturbate."

5 Things You Should avoid Before Sex: Don't eat a heavy meal. Brush teeth for fresh breath. Don't drink too much. Don't worry about how you look. Don't forget the lube. Don't forget to pee, before and after.

To figure out what kind of mood someone is in, is not that easy. That is why communication is so valuable. You don't have to be able to read each others minds if you're both good at expressing yourselves using words, or using body language.

What do you think would be the Perfect Date? How many hours should a date be? How many activities should you do? Questions? What do you think would be the best sexual experience? How would the intimacy begin? How would it proceed? And how would it finish? How confident are you in accomplishing all these activities? Could you be spontaneous if plans change? Do you have a backup plan? Do you need practice?

Lighting - Aromas - Colors - Music or Silence - Sheets and Pillows - Temperature - Clothing - Script

Sexual Roleplay is role-play that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more people who act out roles in a sexual fantasy and may be a form of foreplay and be sexually arousing. "You can play the role, but just don't become the role you play. Everyone plays a role in life, and we sometimes like to imagine being someone else. But the roles we play in life can be false and not based on reality. So be careful not to blur the line between fantasy and reality, or blur the line between having fun and criminal perversion."

Uniform Fetishism is a sexual fetishism where an individual is obsessed and fixated by another or oneself wearing a uniform.

Live Action Role-Playing Game - LARP is a form of role-playing game where the participants physically portray their characters. The players pursue goals within a fictional setting represented by the real world while interacting with each other in character. The outcome of player actions may be mediated by game rules or determined by consensus among players. Event arrangers called gamemasters decide the setting and rules to be used and facilitate play.

More, More, More (Andrea True Connection - 1976) (youtube) - Oooh how do you like your love, More more more, How do you like it, how do you like it?

Any Way You Want It - Journey (youtube) - Any way you want it, That's the way you need it, Any way you want it, She loves to laugh, She loves to sing, She does everything, She loves to move, She loves to grove, She loves the lovin' things.

Sharing your Sexual Fantasies with your Partner

The Perfect Sexual Experience:
Write the sex script and create the scene of how you want your sexual experience to be like. Share the script with your lover. The more details there are the more accuracy you will have in the performance. Two actors playing their parts, both knowing what the other is going to do. The main focus is making the other person feel loved, as well as making the other person feel beautiful attractive and sexy. You also want to make the other person feel comfortable, relax and worry free with no expectations and no awkwardness. Talk about your fears and any insecurities, hang-ups, or pet peeve's that you may have, so they don't distract you, or get in the way. And don't expect perfection or miracles to happen the first time. The sex script will need practice, rehearsing and editing. So eventually the experience will happen smoothly and natural, if not, it may become awkward at times and cause you to lose the passion or ruin the mood. But remember this is not a test, so put aside all judgments. This is a learning journey of discovery. Open your mind and open your heart. You also want to make sure that each person is well groomed, clean and smelling nice before you start. Don't make love to a body, make love to the person. Being good in bed is not just about being skilled with the mere mechanics of sex, it's about making a connection, it's seeing each other, touching each other, feeling each other, tasting each other, smelling each other, and listening to each other. It's sharing an intimate moment in life. Coming together is not just about cuming together. Coming together is making a connection. And it's not all about like and dislike, it's more about what you know and what you don't know. You come to learn, you don't cum to learn. There is so much that we can learn from each other, it would be a shame not to talk and cuddle. 

Sex Script Example:
They have dinner, they take a romantic walk, they return home, they sit close together, they look into each others eyes, they kiss softly, they whisper softly into each others ears, they gently touch each other, they slowly undress each other, softly caressing the skin as each item of clothes is removed. Both give each other oral sex on their knees (optional). The women then gets into her first sexual position and gently guides the penis into her vagina. The man goes deep as specified by the women, she also specifies the rhythm and the speed and any variation that would give her the most pleasure. After a few minutes they change position to one that is more comfortable to the man, after a few minutes they change into another position that they both feel comfortable in. Caressing the skin in areas the person likes to be touched and for how long. Speaking words that the person likes to hear and not speaking words they don't like to hear. During intercourse the kissing may get more passionate, but the kissing is done exactly they way each other likes it. " Orgasms "  Then they lie next to each other, softly caressing, quite, enjoying the rush of oxytocin, feel the breathing as your Heart Rate begins to return to normal, you can then after a few minutes fall asleep, talk, or take a shower, in any order you choose. So this is only one example, and of course people have different ideas, so there can be many variations. You may number them for quick reference, like variation number 12 or 44.

After Sex Effect:
The experience after sex is just as important as the actual experience of sex itself. There is nothing worse then feeling guilty after an orgasm. You have to make sure that your lover has no bad feelings after sex. After sex you should feel extremely happy and relaxed. Sometimes people may feel a burst of energy and feel energetic, and some people become tired and just fall asleep. So it is a good idea to talk about the moments after sex. After an orgasm, a man’s brain releases a cocktail of different chemicals, and each man reacts a little differently. Some women like to cuddle after sex. So men need to be aware of a women's needs after sex, and not just during sex. What you say and how you act is very important, before, during and after.

"Fantasy's are hard to describe and even harder to reenact. So don't ever expect too much from a fantasy, for every fantasy is just an idea, and as we all know, not every idea is a good idea, so be careful what you wish for."

Timing is everything. When Breathing, taking drugs, eating food, saying certain words, and doing certain actions, all have to consider the timing and the place. Just like a movie director does with its actors. (Off Cue) Off timing can ruin a good experience, so we need to rehearse and to practice.

I will not judge you. You must be free to communicate no matter how crazy an idea might be. I may laugh at the idea at first, but I will not judge you for it. And my laugh is just the first impression, so I could be wrong. So I will always leave room for discussion. I will not deny you of your right to express yourself. I would be a fool not to listen to you, and I would be even more of a fool if I did not even try to understand you. That is my commitment to you, my promise to you. Though I am also only human, I make a mistakes too, so please forgive me, for I will always forgive you.

Intimately Connected: The Importance of Partner Responsiveness for Experiencing Sexual Desire.

Having Confidence can be dangerous, especially when you don't have Common Sense. You want to feel comfortable in your own skin, but not so comfortable that you believe that you're better then others, and eventually stop paying attention to other peoples needs. Grand Funk Railroad - Some Kind of Wonderful (youtube).

A good and healthy sex life has both physical health benefits and mental health benefits.

Flattery is the act of giving excessive compliments, generally for the purpose of ingratiating oneself with the subject. Make sure the attention and generosity is sincere and honest, because it just may be a way to manipulate you in order to gain favors?

What are the differences between Friendship, Dating, Courtship, Cohabitation, Concubinage and Marriage

Dating Tips (relationships)

Wingman is a role that a person may take when a friend needs support with approaching potential partners.

Fantasies and Beyond

Fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body. Excessive or irrational devotion to some activity. Sexual Fetishism is a sexual fixation on a nonliving object or nongenital body part. The object of interest is called the fetish; the person who has a fetish for that object is a fetishist. A sexual fetish may be regarded as a non-pathological aid to sexual excitement, or as a mental disorder if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life. Sexual arousal from a particular body part can be further classified as partialism. While medical definitions restrict the term sexual fetishism to objects or body parts, fetish can also refer to sexual interest in specific activities in common discourse. Safe Sex.

Disinhibition is not the same as having Confidence.

Just because it Feels Good does not mean you have to do it. There’s a lot of things that feel good that a person can do. Choosing the right thing to Enjoy, that has the least amount of negative side effects, is not that easy, but it can be done. There’s a difference between choosing and having a Choice. Sex is awesome, just don't let sex control your life. Of course that is just one of many advices that are easier said then done.

Why most Sexual Fantasies should never be explored in real life?

Sexual Fantasies is a mental image or pattern of thought that stirs a person's sexuality and can create or enhance sexual arousal. A sexual fantasy can be created by the person's imagination or memory, and may be triggered autonomously or by external stimulation such as erotic literature or pornography, a physical object, or sexual attraction to another person. Anything that may give rise to a sexual arousal may also produce a sexual fantasy, and sexual arousal may in turn give rise to fantasies.

Why am I even having these types of fantasies to begin with?

Why are some sexual fantasies considered healthy and why are some sexual fantasies considered not so healthy? 

What makes a particular sex act Perverted?

Perversion is a type of human behavior that deviates from that which is understood to be orthodox or normal. Although the term perversion can refer to a variety of forms of deviation, it is most often used to describe sexual behaviors that are considered particularly abnormal, repulsive or obsessive. Perversion differs from deviant behavior, in that the latter covers areas of behavior (such as petty crime) for which perversion would be too strong a term. It is often considered derogatory, and, in psychological literature, the term paraphilia has been used as a replacement, though this term is controversial, and deviation is sometimes used in its place

When does Sex become a Crime?

What makes something Kinky?

Kinky is any unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" (cf. a "kink") in one's sexual behaviour, to contrast such behaviour with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities. The term kink has been claimed by some who practice sexual fetishism as a term or synonym for their practices, indicating a range of sexual and sexualistic practices from playful to sexual objectification and certain paraphilias. Kink sexual practices go beyond what are considered conventional sexual practices as a means of heightening the intimacy between sexual partners. Some draw a distinction between kink and fetishism, defining the former as enhancing partner intimacy, and the latter as replacing it. Because of its relation to "normal" sexual boundaries, which themselves vary by time and place, the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely as well.

Taboo is a vehement prohibition of an action based on the belief that such behavior is either too sacred or too accursed for ordinary individuals to undertake. Such prohibitions are present in virtually all societies. The word has been somewhat expanded in the social sciences to strong prohibitions relating to any area of human activity or custom that is sacred or forbidden based on moral judgment and religious beliefs. "Breaking a taboo" is usually considered objectionable by society in general, not merely a subset of a culture.

Cheating - Hooking up

Lascivious is sexual behavior or conduct that is considered crude and offensive, or contrary to local moral or other standards of appropriate behavior. In this sense "lascivious" is similar in meaning to "lewd", "lustful", "indecent", "lecherous", "unchaste", "licentious" or "libidinous".

Dominatrix is a woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM activities. A dominatrix might be of any sexual orientation, but her orientation does not necessarily limit the genders of her submissive partners. The role of a dominatrix may not even involve physical pain toward the submissive; her domination can be verbal, involving humiliating tasks, or servitude. A dominatrix may be a paid professional ("pro-domme"), or may use the title of dominatrix in her personal sex life.

Dominance and Submission is a set of behaviors, customs, and rituals involving the submission of one person to another in an erotic episode or lifestyle. It is a subset of BDSM.

Masochism is sexual pleasure obtained from receiving punishment (physical or psychological).

Erotic Humiliation is consensual psychological humiliation in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal. This can be for the person being humiliated and demeaned or for the person humiliating, or for some spectator. It may be part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay or accompanied by the sexual stimulation of one or both partners in the activity. Humiliation is a subjective issue, and is dependent on context. It does not need to be sexual in nature; as with many other sexual activities, it is the feelings that are obtained from the experience that are desired, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. Usually there is a feeling of submission for the person being humiliated, and dominance, for the person implementing the humiliation. Erotic humiliation can be done verbally and/or physically, and can take place privately or publicly. Some individuals assume an acting role and others prefer to be spoken to in a degrading way. A classic technique that can be used to put the submissive into a bottom mind space is to humiliate them while also providing them with sexual stimulation. Select individuals who desire this form of humiliation also use it to acquire emotional release. Humiliation can become ritualized, and unlike some sexual variations, it can also be easily carried out over a long distance (such as online). While fantasy and fascination with erotic humiliation is a prevalent part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay, relatively little has been written on it. Humiliation play can, however, be taken to a point where it becomes emotionally or psychologically distressing to one or the other partner, especially if it is public humiliation. Erotic humiliation can become extreme enough to be considered a form of edgeplay, which some consider may best be approached with advance negotiation and use of a safeword.

Safeword is a code word, series of code words or other signal used by a submissive or bottom to unambiguously communicate their physical or emotional state to a dominant or top, typically when approaching, or crossing, a physical, emotional, or moral boundary. Some safewords are used to stop the scene outright, while others can communicate a willingness to continue, but at a reduced level of intensity. Safewords are usually agreed upon before playing a scene by all participants, and many organized BDSM groups have standard safewords that all members agree to use to avoid confusion at organized play events. Safewords of BDSM fall under the guiding philosophy of safe, sane and consensual. Those who practise the more permissive philosophy of risk-aware consensual kink may abandon the use of safewords, especially those that practice forms of edgeplay or extreme forms of dominance and submission. In such cases, the choice to give up the use of safewords is a consensual act on the part of the bottom or submissive. (Stop or No)

Code Words and Meanings

What is considered Risky Sexual Behavior?

Lower Back Tattoo or Tramp Stamp is tattoo that was popular among some women in the 2000s and gained a reputation for its feminine appeal. They are sometimes accentuated by low-rise jeans and crop tops, and are considered erotic by some.

Erotophilia is a personality trait which assesses an individual's disposition to respond to sexual cues in either a positive or negative manner. It is measured on a continuous scale, ranging from erotophobia to erotophilia. Erotophobes tend to score higher on authoritarianism and need for achievement, have more traditional sex roles, experience more sex guilt and have more negative reactions to masturbation and homosexuality than erotophiles. Erotophilic individuals tend to masturbate and fantasize more frequently, think about sex more often, have sexual intercourse for the first time at an earlier age, have more past sexual experiences and have a greater number of intercourse partners than erotophobic individuals. Erotophiles are also more likely to engage in breast self-examinations, schedule regular gynecological visits and engage in preventative behaviors regarding sexually transmitted diseases (e.g., more frequent condom use).

Should I limit the amount of sexual fantasies that I have?

Should I dream of sexual fantasies that are more reality based and limit the amount of sexual fantasies that should never happen or that will never happen?

Air Sex is a performance activity invented in Japan; clothed men and women simulate sexual activity with an invisible partner, often in an exaggerated manner, set to music, and in a competition before an audience. This is somewhat akin to playing air guitar, explaining the name. The creator, J-Taro Sugisaku, says that it was invented in Tokyo in 2006 by a group of bored men without girlfriends.

Twerking is a type of dance in which an individual, usually female, moves to music in a sexually provocative manner involving thrusting hip movements and a low squatting stance. Twerking is also known as "booty shaking," "p-poppin" or "pussy-poppin", and "bounce" depending on the context.

Why does Role Playing make sex fun? Where do strong sexual desires come from?

Why does exercise and a good diet increase your sexual desire and stamina?

Sexual Fetish Psychology (youtube)

Does Experimenting with Sex Toys really help to enhance the sexual experience?

Sex Toy is an object or device that is primarily used to facilitate human sexual pleasure, such as a dildo or vibrator. Many popular sex toys are designed to resemble human genitals and may be vibrating or non-vibrating. The term sex toy can also include BDSM apparatus and sex furniture such as slings; however, it is not applied to items such as birth control, pornography, or condoms. Alternative expressions include adult toy and the dated euphemism marital aid, although "marital aid" has a broader sense and is applied to drugs and herbs marketed to supposedly enhance or prolong sex. Sex toys are most commonly sold at a sex shop, but they may also be sold in a pornographic DVD store or head shop. Today's sex toys are available in almost all countries for male and females.

What are the dangers of Anal Sex?  

Anal Sex is generally the insertion of the erect penis into a person's anus, or anus and rectum, for sexual pleasure. Other forms of anal sex include fingering, the use of sex toys for anal penetration, oral sex performed on the anus (anilingus), and pegging. Although the term anal sex most commonly means penile-anal penetration, sources sometimes use the term anal intercourse to refer exclusively to penile-anal penetration, and anal sex to refer to any form of anal sexual activity, especially between pairings as opposed to anal masturbation.

Oral Sex

Is Oral Sex necessary?

Why is Oral Sex so seductive and so significant, and then sometimes degrading? 

Oral Sex is sexual activity involving the stimulation of the genitalia of a person by another person using the mouth (including the lips, tongue or teeth) or throat. Cunnilingus is oral sex performed on a female, while fellatio is oral sex performed on a male. Anilingus, another form of oral sex, is oral stimulation of a person's anus. Oral stimulation of other parts of the body (as in kissing and licking) is usually not considered oral sex. Oral sex may be performed as foreplay to incite sexual arousal before other sexual activities (such as vaginal or anal intercourse), or as an erotic and physically intimate act in its own right. Like most forms of sexual activity, oral sex can pose a risk for contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs/STDs). However, the transmission risk for oral sex, especially HIV transmission, is significantly lower than for vaginal or anal sex. Oral sex is often regarded as taboo, but most countries do not have laws which ban the practice. Commonly, people do not regard oral sex as affecting the virginity of either partner, though opinions on the matter vary. People may also have negative feelings or sexual inhibitions about giving or receiving oral sex, or may flatly refuse to engage in the practice.

Cunnilingus is an oral sex act performed by a person on a female's genitalia.

Eating Pussy Info-Graph (image)

Fellatio is an oral sex act involving the use of the mouth or throat, which is performed by a person on the penis of another person or oneself (autofellatio). Oral stimulation of the scrotum may also be termed fellatio or tea bagging. Fellatio can be sexually arousing for both participants, and may lead to orgasm for the receptive partner. It may be performed by a sexual partner as foreplay before other sexual activities (such as vaginal or anal intercourse), or as an erotic and physically intimate act in its own right. Like most forms of sexual activity, oral sex creates a risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs/STDs). However, the transmission risk for oral sex, especially HIV transmission, is significantly lower than for vaginal or anal sex.  Most countries do not have laws which ban the practice of oral sex, though some cultures may consider it taboo. People may also have negative feelings or sexual inhibitions about giving or receiving oral sex; they may refuse to engage in it of their own volition. Commonly, people do not regard forms of oral sex as affecting the virginity of either partner, though opinions on the matter vary. (also known as blowjob, BJ, giving head, or sucking off).

Motesex is when someone gives oral sex slowly and orderly. #head#dome#becky#skull#scub

Giving a Blow Job Info-Graph (image)

Sex + Food: Auntie Angel (youtube)

Male Body

Male Reproductive System Male organism is the physiological sex that produces sperm.

Man is a male Human. The term man is usually reserved for an adult male, with the term boy being the usual term for a male child or adolescent. Human Rights

Boys have one X and one Y Chromosome.

Testosterone is the primary male sex hormone and an anabolic steroid. In men, testosterone plays a key role in the development of male reproductive tissues such as the testis and prostate, as well as promoting secondary sexual characteristics such as increased muscle and bone mass, and the growth of body hair.

Testosterone Makes Men Less Likely to Question Their Impulses. Sex hormone connected with greater reliance on gut instincts and less self-reflection.

Men's testosterone levels are largely determined by their environment during childhood. Men who grow up in more challenging conditions where there are lots of infectious diseases, for example, are likely to have lower testosterone levels in later life than those who spend their childhood in healthier environments.

Androgen stimulates or controls the development and maintenance of male characteristics in vertebrates by binding to androgen receptors. This includes the activity of the primary male sex organs and development of male secondary sex characteristics.

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Your penis is small, compared to who?  My penis is perfect, but it might not be so perfect for you. I might be small but I'm still Big in Japan (Alphaville) "Does Size Matter?" The size of your vocabulary matters, but even then, it's the quality of the words that you know, and how effective you are at using them. So the matter of Size is Relative. Does size matter? Matter to what? Does it matter to sex? Sex with who? Sex with a women? Which women?" It's not a one size fits all, it matters to some, and it doesn't matter to others.

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"It's not the size of the boat, nor the motion of the ocean, it's whether or not the captain can stay in port long enough for all the passengers to get off."

Penis Names, love stick, holy-poker, schlong, joy-stick, twig and berries, skin flute.

Circumcision is the removal of the foreskin from the human penis.

Foreskin is the double-layered fold of smooth muscle tissue, blood vessels, neurons, skin, and mucous membrane part of the penis that covers and protects the glans penis and the urinary meatus. It is also described as the prepuce, a technically broader term that also includes the clitoral hood in women, to which the foreskin is embryonically homologous. The highly innervated mucocutaneous zone of the penis occurs near the tip of the foreskin. The foreskin is mobile, fairly stretchable, and acts as a natural lubricant.

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Testicular Atrophy is a medical condition in which the male reproductive organs (the testes, which in humans are located in the scrotum) diminish in size and may be accompanied by loss of function. This does not refer to temporary changes, such as those brought on by cold.

Erection is when the penis becomes firmer, engorged and enlarged. Penile erection is the result of a complex interaction of psychological, neural, vascular and endocrine factors, and is often associated with sexual arousal or sexual attraction, although erections can also be spontaneous. The shape, angle and direction of an erection varies considerably in humans.

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Morning glories, or nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT) as they are correctly called, are spontaneous erections that occur during sleep or while waking up. Hypothesizes that the noradrenergic neurons of the locus ceruleus are inhibitory to penile erection, and that the cessation of their discharge that occurs during REM sleep may allow testosterone-related excitatory actions to manifest as NPT. A full bladder can stimulate an erection has existed for some time and is characterized as a 'reflex erection".

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Erectile Dysfunction is sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis during sexual activity in humans. A penile erection is the hydraulic effect of blood entering and being retained in sponge-like bodies within the penis. The process is most often initiated as a result of sexual arousal, when signals are transmitted from the brain to nerves in the penis. The most important organic causes of impotence are cardiovascular disease and diabetes, neurological problems (for example, trauma from prostatectomy surgery), hormonal insufficiencies (hypogonadism) and drug side effects.

Sexual Dysfunction is difficulty experienced by an individual or a couple during any stage of a normal sexual activity, including physical pleasure, desire, preference, arousal or orgasm.

Penile Fracture is rupture of one or both of the tunica albuginea, the fibrous coverings that envelop the penis's corpora cavernosa. It is caused by rapid blunt force to an erect penis, usually during vaginal intercourse, or aggressive masturbation. It sometimes also involves partial or complete rupture of the urethra or injury to the dorsal nerves, veins and arterie.

Penile Cancer is a malignant growth found on the skin or in the tissues of the penis. Around 95% of penile cancers are squamous cell carcinomas. Other types of penile cancer such as Merkel cell carcinoma, small cell carcinoma, melanoma and other are generally rare.

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Urology focuses on surgical and medical diseases of the male and female urinary tract system and the male reproductive organs.

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Masculinity is a set of attributes, behaviors and roles generally associated with boys and men. Masculinity is socially constructed, but made up of both socially-defined and biologically-created factors, distinct from the definition of the male biological sex.

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Stud is the practice of having casual sex frequently with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners.

Libido or sex drive, is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological, psychological and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine, respectively) regulate libido in humans.

Impotence is the quality of lacking strength or power; being weak and feeble. An inability (usually of the male animal) to copulate, which means that you are unable to engage in sexual intercourse.

Yartsa Gunbu is an entomopathogenic fungus found in mountainous regions of Nepal and Tibet. It parasitizes larvae of ghost moths and produces a fruiting body which used to be valued as a herbal remedy.

Being Horny is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in anticipation of sexual activity.

Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity.



The combination of Fantasy and Self Stimulation. Make sure your hands are clean and be very careful with soaps, oils or creams. Be gentle, and Learn. How much should you masturbate? Should I Masturbate? What are some the health concerns that a person should have when Masturbating? (a onesome, instead of a twosome or a threesome). Masturbating too much can cause you to have problems like low energy levels and weakness, which may be confused with depression. Masturbating too much can also cause you to experience certain dysfunctions like erection problems, premature ejaculation and intimacy issues. Masturbating too much can also cause you to experience neurological problems that are similar to addictions.

Masturbation shouldn't be automatic, though it's sometimes unavoidable. You need to be aware of yourself. You should explore your own sexual abilities and sexual energy, and not just do it for a orgasm. And don't expect miracles or assume to be perfect. You need to respect yourself and understand your needs, and not just do what you want or feel. Use masturbation as a way to exercise your self control, and also as a way to learn how to understand all the mechanisms that helps you to maintain control over your mind and body. Stimulate, anticipate, levitate, rejuvenate, live, learn, love and progress.

Making Love to Yourself. Making love to yourself is safer, but it still has risks. And Knowing how to make love to yourself is not the same as making love to another person. Understanding your own sexuality takes a lot of time, so Understanding another persons sexuality will also take a lot of time. there are many benefits that comes from Understanding your own sexuality, but that does not guarantee that you will understand someone else's sexuality. You're not just exploring someone else's sexuality, you're exploring your own sexuality too, and sometimes you're exploring yourself and the other person at the same time. that is why communicating with an open mind is so extremely important. You have to learn how to understand body language as well as human language. You have to learn how to understand how the mind communicates with the body and how the body communicates to the mind. Then you can share this information and experience with another person who is also going through the same process of learning and exploring. Being able to learn together is one of the purest forms of love that there is.

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Orgasm Control is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period of time without reaching Orgasm. When practiced by males, orgasm control allows the practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without waiting through the refractory period common after orgasm. When the decision is made to allow orgasm, the physical sensations may be much greater and more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced conventionally. There are benefits to having sex, but balance is key

For men, you should not always masturbate just to Orgasm. Practice Control, Will Power and Delayed Gratification. Use masturbation as a way to Practice Control. See how long you can maintain an erection without Ejaculation. Try not get get near an orgasm, because once you are close to having an orgasm it's hard to control it and stop it from happening.

Life Force is what Taoists believe that a man loses when he ejaculates, so they like to avoid ejaculation in order to conserve life essence by minimizing the loss of body fluids. How does sex affect my energy level? 

"You're the giver and the receiver simultaneously, switching from women to women and from scene to scene seamlessly, not worrying about time, not thinking about the climax, not thinking about losing focus because my lover knows exactly when to stop and start, and my lover knows exactly where to touch me, so I just enjoy the ride, and I see where fantasy takes me. And when it's over, I think about what was learned from this journey, and then I talk to the lover within me, and ask, was it good for you? Was it good for me?"

Tantric Sex is a set of techniques for cultivating a more fulfilling sexual or loving relationship, combining breathing techniques, bio-energy, yoga, massage, sexuality and spirituality.

Ejaculation is the discharge of semen (normally containing sperm) from the male reproductory tract, usually accompanied by orgasm. It is the final stage and natural objective of male sexual stimulation, and an essential component of natural conception.

Sperm is the male reproductive cell and is derived from the Greek word (σπέρμα) sperma (meaning "seed"). In the types of sexual reproduction known as anisogamy and its subtype oogamy, there is a marked difference in the size of the gametes with the smaller one being termed the "male" or sperm cell. A uniflagellar sperm cell that is motile is referred to as a spermatozoon, whereas a non-motile sperm cell is referred to as a spermatium. Sperm cells cannot divide and have a limited life span, but after fusion with egg cells during fertilization, a new organism begins developing, starting as a totipotent zygote. The human sperm cell is haploid, so that its 23 chromosomes can join the 23 chromosomes of the female egg to form a diploid cell. In mammals, sperm develops in the testicles and is released from the penis. It is also possible to extract sperm through TESE. Some sperm banks hold up to 170 litres (37 imp gal; 45 US gal) of sperm. Men make a thousand sperm every second. The body needs vitamin A to make sperm.

Semen components: Testes, 2–5% Approximately 200- to 500-million spermatozoa (also called sperm or spermatozoans), produced in the testes, are released per ejaculation. If a man has undergone a vasectomy, he will have no sperm in the ejaculation. Seminal vesicles (65–75%) amino acids, citrate, enzymes, flavins, fructose (2–5 mg per mL semen, the main energy source of sperm cells, which rely entirely on sugars from the seminal plasma for energy), phosphorylcholine, prostaglandins (involved in suppressing an immune response by the female against the foreign semen), proteins, vitamin C. Prostate (25–30%) acid phosphatase, citric acid, fibrinolysin, prostate specific antigen, proteolytic enzymes, zinc (the zinc level is about 135±40 micrograms/ml for healthy men. Zinc serves to help to stabilize the DNA-containing chromatin in the sperm cells. A zinc deficiency may result in lowered fertility because of increased sperm fragility. Zinc deficiency can also adversely affect spermatogenesis.) Bulbourethral glands < 1% galactose, mucus (serve to increase the mobility of sperm cells in the vagina and cervix by creating a less viscous channel for the sperm cells to swim through, and preventing their diffusion out of the semen. Contributes to the cohesive jelly-like texture of semen.), pre-ejaculate, sialic acid.

Sperm Count evaluates certain characteristics of a male's semen and the sperm contained therein. It is done to help evaluate male fertility, whether for those seeking pregnancy or verifying the success of vasectomy. Reported declines in sperm counts. Temporal trends in sperm count: a systematic review and meta-regression analysis. Low Sperm Count not just a problem for fertility. New research links sperm count to other health problems and increased risk of illness. Phthalates that leach out of plastics into water and food are linked to lower testosterone in Men and Women, especially pregnant women. Exposure to Endocrine Disrupting Chemicals and Male Reproductive Health - Body Burden. Between 1973 and 2013, sperm counts dropped by more than 50 percent around the world, with the most significant declines seen in North.
Temporal trends in sperm count: a systematic review and meta-regression analysis. Have sperm densities declined? A reanalysis of global trend data.

Semen Analysis evaluates certain characteristics of a male's semen and the sperm contained therein. It is done to help evaluate male fertility, whether for those seeking pregnancy or verifying the success of vasectomy. An automated smartphone-based diagnostic assay for point-of-care semen analysis .Sperm Check.

Hyperactivation is a type of sperm motility. Hyperactivated sperm motility is characterised by a high amplitude, asymmetrical beating pattern of the sperm tail (flagellum). This type of motility may aid in sperm penetration of the zona pellucida, which encloses the ovum. Hyperactivation could then be followed by the acrosome reaction where the cap-like structure on the head of the cell releases the enzymes it contains. This facilitates the penetration of the ovum and fertilisation.

Motility is the ability of an organism to move independently, using metabolic energy. This is in contrast to mobility, which describes the ability of an object to be moved.

Flagellum is a lash-like appendage that protrudes from the cell body of certain bacteria and eukaryotic cells termed as flagellates. A flagellate can have one or several flagella. The primary function of a flagellum is that of locomotion, but it also often functions as a sensory organelle, being sensitive to chemicals and temperatures outside the cell. The similar structure in the archaea functions in the same way but is structurally different and has been termed the archaellum.

Premature Ejaculation occurs when a man experiences orgasm and expels semen soon after sexual activity and with minimal penile stimulation. It has also been called early ejaculation, rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax, and (historically) ejaculatio praecox.

Retrograde Ejaculation occurs when semen, which would, in most cases, be ejaculated via the urethra, is redirected to the urinary bladder. Normally, the sphincter of the bladder contracts before ejaculation forcing the semen to exit via the urethra, the path of least resistance. When the bladder sphincter does not function properly, retrograde ejaculation may occur. It can also be induced deliberately by a male as a primitive form of male birth control (known as coitus saxonicus) or as part of certain alternative medicine practices.

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Blue Balls is a slang term for the condition of temporary fluid congestion (vasocongestion) in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain, caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male without ejaculation. Some urologists call the condition "epididymal hypertension". The condition is not experienced by all males

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Autoeroticism is the practice of becoming sexually stimulated through internal stimuli. The term was popularized toward the end of the 19th century by British sexologist Havelock Ellis, who defined autoeroticism as "the phenomena of spontaneous sexual emotion generated in the absence of an external stimulus proceeding, directly or indirectly, from another person". The most common autoerotic practice is masturbation. Though the terms autoeroticism and masturbation are often used interchangeably, they are not synonymous as not all autoerotic behaviors are masturbatory. Nocturnal emissions, erotic daydreams, and sexual arousal to 'sexually-neutral' stimuli (music, scenery, art, risk, spiritual reverie, etc.) are also examples of autoeroticism.

Thinking Off results in a spontaneous, persistent, and uncontrollable genital arousal, with or without orgasm or genital engorgement, unrelated to any feelings of sexual desire. Also known as persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD), originally called persistent sexual arousal syndrome (PSAS), Weiss Disease, and also known as restless genital syndrome (ReGS or RGS).

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Stimming is the repetition of physical movements, sounds, or repetitive movement of objects common in individuals with developmental disabilities, but most prevalent in people with autism spectrum disorders.

Balanitis is inflammation of the glans penis. When the foreskin is also affected, it is termed balanoposthitis.

Fordyce Spots  are visible sebaceous glands that are present in most individuals. They appear on the genitals and/or on the face and in the mouth. They appear as small, painless, raised, pale, red or white spots or bumps 1 to 3 mm in diameter that may appear on the scrotum, shaft of the penis or on the labia, as well as the inner surface (retromolar mucosa) and vermilion border of the lips of the face. They are not associated with any disease or illness, nor are they infectious but rather they represent a natural occurrence on the body. No treatment is therefore required, unless the individual has cosmetic concerns. Persons with this condition sometimes consult a dermatologist because they are worried they may have a sexually transmitted disease (especially genital warts) or some form of cancer.

Hirsuties Coronae Glandis are small protuberances that may form on the ridge of the glans of the human penis. They are a harmless anatomical variation. Though sometimes confused with HPV infection, the papules are not a sexually transmitted infection and are not contagious.

Candidiasis is a fungal infection due to any type of Candida (a type of yeast). When it affects the mouth, it is commonly called thrush. Signs and symptoms include white patches on the tongue or other areas of the mouth and throat. Other symptoms may include soreness and problems swallowing. When it affects the vagina, it is commonly called a yeast infection. Signs and symptoms include genital itching, burning, and sometimes a white "cottage cheese-like" discharge from the vagina. Less commonly the penis may be affected, resulting in itchiness. Very rarely, the infection may becoming invasive, spreading to other parts of the body. This may result in fevers along with other symptoms depending on the parts involved

Urinary Tract Infection is an infection that affects part of the urinary tract. When it affects the lower urinary tract it is known as a bladder infection (cystitis) and when it affects the upper urinary tract it is known as kidney infection (pyelonephritis). Symptoms from a lower urinary tract include pain with urination, frequent urination, and feeling the need to urinate despite having an empty bladder. Symptoms of a kidney infection include fever and flank pain usually in addition to the symptoms of a lower UTI. Rarely the urine may appear bloody. In the very old and the very young, symptoms may be vague or non-specific.

Hematospermia is the presence of blood in semen, is most often a benign symptom. Among men age 40 or older, hematospermia is a slight predictor of cancer, typically prostate cancer. No specific cause is found in up to 70% of cases.

Congestive Prostatitis is a condition which is characterized by inflammation of the prostate gland and affects males who suffer from prostate enlargement.

Postorgasmic illness syndrome is a syndrome in which men have severe cognitive and physical symptoms immediately following ejaculation in the absence of a local genital reaction. The symptoms last for up to a week. The cause and prevalence are unknown; it is considered a rare disease.

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Female is the sex of an organism, or a part of an organism, that produces non-mobile ova (Egg Cells).

Woman is a female Human; that is, of the species Homo sapiens. The term woman is usually reserved for an adult, with the term girl being the usual term for a female child or adolescent. Human Rights

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Estrogen is the primary female sex hormone. It is responsible for the development and regulation of the female reproductive system and secondary sex characteristics.

Progesterone is an endogenous steroid and progestogen sex hormone involved in the menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and embryogenesis of humans and other species. It belongs to a group of steroid hormones called the progestogens, and is the major progestogen in the body. Progesterone is also a crucial metabolic intermediate in the production of other endogenous steroids, including the sex hormones and the corticosteroids, and plays an important role in brain function as a neurosteroid. Progesterone modulates multiple brain functions implicated in the pathogenesis of drug addiction, and can also cause depression.

Hot Flash are a form of flushing due to reduced levels of estradiol. Hot flashes are a symptom which may have several other causes, but which is often caused by the changing hormone levels that are characteristic of menopause. They are typically experienced as a feeling of intense heat with sweating and rapid heartbeat, and may typically last from 2 to 30 minutes for each occurrence.

The largest Cell in the human body is the Female Egg and the smallest cell is the Male Sperm, 500 Million from Ejaculation.
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Vagina is a muscular and tubular part of the female genital tract, which in humans extends from the vulva to the cervix. The outer vaginal opening may be partly covered by a membrane called the hymen. At the deep end, the cervix (neck of the uterus) bulges into the vagina. The vagina allows for sexual intercourse and childbirth, and channels menstrual flow, which occurs periodically as part of the menstrual cycle.

Gynaecology is the medical practice dealing with the health of the female reproductive systems (vagina, uterus, and ovaries) and the breasts. Literally, outside medicine, the term means "the science of women". Its counterpart is andrology, which deals with medical issues specific to the male reproductive system. Almost all modern gynaecologists are also obstetricians (see obstetrics and gynaecology). In many areas, the specialities of gynaecology and obstetrics overlap.

Virginity Test is the practice and process of determining whether a person, usually a girl or woman is a virgin; i.e., whether she has never engaged in sexual intercourse. The test typically involves a check for the presence of an intact hymen, on the assumption that it can only be torn as a result of sexual intercourse.

The Virginity Fraud: Nina Dølvik Brochmann and Ellen Støkken Dahl (video and text) - Talks about how virginity tests or hymen examinations are mostly fraudulent and also abusive towards women. The hymen does not always bleed or get damaged the first time a woman has vaginal sex, and the hymen is not lost forever, hymens are elastic and the size and shape varies from women to women. This type of discrimination against women also makes women afraid of ruining themselves, either through sport, play, tampon use or a sexual activity. The Wonder Down Under: A User’s Guide to the Vagina (book on amazon).

Hymen is a membrane that surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening. It forms part of the vulva, or external genitalia, and is similar in structure to the vagina. The hymen does not seem to have a specific physiological function or purpose.

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Prolactin is a protein that in humans is best known for its role in enabling mammals, usually females, to produce milk.

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Vaginal Yeast Infection is excessive growth of yeast in the vagina that results in irritation. The most common symptom is vaginal itching, which may be severe. Other symptoms include burning with urination, white and thick vaginal discharge that typically does not smell bad, pain with sex, and redness around the vagina. Symptoms often worsen just before a woman's period. Vaginal yeast infections are due to excessive growth of Candida. These yeast are normally present in the vagina in small numbers. It is not classified as a sexually transmitted infection; however, it may occur more often in those who are frequently sexually active. Risk factors include taking antibiotics, pregnancy, diabetes, and HIV/AIDS. Eating a diet high in simple sugar may also play a role. Tight clothing, type of underwear, and personal hygiene do not appear to be factors. Diagnosis is by testing a sample of vaginal discharge. As symptoms are similar to that of the sexually transmitted infections, chlamydia and gonorrhea, testing may be recommended. Despite the lack of evidence, wearing cotton underwear and loose fitting clothing is often recommended as a preventative measure. Avoiding douching and scented hygiene products is also recommended. Treatment is with an antifungal medication. This may be either as a cream such as clotrimazole or with oral medications such as fluconazole. Probiotics have not been found to be useful for active infections. About 75% of women have at least one vaginal yeast infection at some point in their lives while nearly half have at least two. About 5% have more than three infections in a single year. It is the second most common cause of vaginal inflammation after bacterial vaginosis.

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PMS refers to physical and emotional symptoms that occur in the one to two weeks before a woman's period.

Menstrual Cycles is the regular natural change that occurs in the female reproductive system (specifically the uterus and ovaries) that makes pregnancy possible. The cycle is required for the production of ovocytes, and for the preparation of the uterus for pregnancy. Up to 80% of women report having some symptoms during the one to two weeks prior to menstruation. Common symptoms include acne, tender breasts, bloating, feeling tired, irritability and mood changes. These symptoms interfere with normal life and therefore qualify as premenstrual syndrome in 20 to 30% of women. In 3 to 8%, they are severe.

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Menopause is the time in most women's lives when menstrual periods stop permanently, and they are no longer able to bear children. Menopause typically occurs between 49 and 52 years of age.

Polycystic Ovary Syndrome is a hormonal disorder common among women of reproductive age. Women with PCOS may have infrequent or prolonged menstrual periods or excess male hormone (androgen) levels. The ovaries may develop numerous small collections of fluid (follicles) and fail to regularly release eggs. Signs and symptoms of PCOS include irregular or no menstrual periods, heavy periods, excess body and facial hair, acne, pelvic pain, difficulty getting pregnant, and patches of thick, darker, velvety skin. Associated conditions include type 2 diabetes, obesity, obstructive sleep apnea, heart disease, mood disorders, and endometrial cancer.

Menstrual Cup is made of medical grade silicone, shaped like a bell and is flexible. It is worn inside the vagina during menstruation to catch menstrual fluid (blood). About every 4–12 hours (depending on the amount of flow), the menstruating woman removes the menstrual cup from her vagina, empties the collected menstrual blood into a toilet or sink, washes the cup under running water and inserts it again. At the end of the monthly period, the cup can be sterilized, usually by boiling in water. Unlike tampons and pads, the cup collects menstrual fluid rather than absorbing it.

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Female Athletes and their Periods. Does the Menstrual Cycle affect Sporting Performance? An elite athlete or some women who exercise a lot may have their periods stop, which is called hypothalamic amenorrhea, which is a condition in which menstruation stops for several months due to a problem involving the hypothalamus. The hypothalamus is in the center of the brain and controls reproduction. It produces gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH). Signal hormones that are produced in the ovary are not produced. Gonadotropin-Releasing Hormone is a releasing hormone responsible for the release of follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and luteinizing hormone (LH) from the anterior pituitary. GnRH triggers the follicular stimulating hormone, and the luteinizing hormone that are produced in the ovary, that signal does not translate to production of estrogen and progesterone, so the woman loses her periods. They may become irregular initially and then they may stop completely. It is reversible once the women decreases the intensity of her workouts or when other changes occur. The typical menstrual cycle is 28 days long, with the first five days of bleeding on average. Then, the first 14 days are considered the follicular phase. That’s when the little egg is getting built up. And, then there is the second half, which, again, is about 14 days is when the lining gets really lush and ready to accept a fertilized egg. Generally the luteal phase is considered less favorable for athletic performance because of the extra estrogen that gets made in there. So to compensate for that, studies suggest that women need to carb-load more during the second half of their menstrual cycle if they’re going to have an endurance event. However, there are just as many women athletes who set personal records during their luteal phase, during their menstrual cycle, during their follicular phase, whatever. So it’s very different in every woman. Many studies that say that performance does not vary throughout the menstrual cycle and there are studies that say it does.

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Labiaplasty is a plastic surgery procedure for altering the labia minora (inner labia) and the labia majora (outer labia), the folds of skin surrounding the human vulva.

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Labia Minora are two flaps of skin on either side of the human vaginal opening in the vulva, situated between the labia majora (the Latin for big lips; also called outer labia, or outer lips). Inner lips vary widely in size, color, and shape from individual to individual.

Bikini Waxing is the removal of pubic hair using a special wax, which can be hot or cold, that adheres to hairs and pulls them out when the wax is removed quickly from the skin, usually with a cloth strip. While the practice is mainly associated with women, men remove pubic hair at times as well.

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Vagina Names, furburger, pleasure-pit, cherry pit, joy-hole, lady bits, beaver, fanny, man in canoe, rosebud, joy buzzer, lentils, chick pea, love button, bald man in a boat.

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Clitoris is designed to bring a woman pleasure. That is its sole purpose. Not reproduction.

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Clitoris contains 8,000 sensitive nerve endings, double the nerve endings in the glans of a penis. The word "Clitoris" is from the Greek work for "key"? Understanding and getting to know the clitoris may unlock your sex. Only one quarter of the clitoris is partially visible to the naked eye. The rest of it is inside the women's body. The clitoris is actually close to four inches in length (kind of like the average non-erect penis), but three-fourths of it is hidden from view within a female's body. Besides the clitoris being made up the clitoral head, the hood and the clitoral shaft, it is also composed of the urethral sponge, erectile tissue, glands, vestibular bulbs and the clitoral legs. Only the clitoral head and the hood are located outside the body. Some sex experts believe that the G Spot is actually a part of the clitoris.

The clitoris varies in size and shape on different women. Some are hidden under the hood, and some stick out. Some like to be touched softly and others like a lot of pressure. It takes time to get to know a woman's clitoris. Don't assume that you know what it likes. Take your time and get to know each unique clitoris, just like you would take the time to get to know the woman it is attached to. Fifty to 75 percent of women who have Climaxes (Orgasms) need to have their clitoris touched (clitoral stimulation). Most women are unable to have an orgasm through intercourse alone. There are all kinds of orgasms. Vaginal, Cervical and G Spot Orgasms do exist, but they are much harder for most women to achieve than a clitoral orgasm. Very few women are able to achieve an orgasm without any kind of clitoral involvement. There is nothing immature about women having orgasms through their clitoris. A clitoral orgasm can bring about anywhere between three and 16 contractions and can last from 10 to 30 seconds. But that doesn't exclude the fact that many women have multiple orgasms that can include pelvic contractions. Some sex educators have compared and contrasted male and female orgasm and have concluded that even the most average clitoral orgasm lasts longer than even the best ever most fantastic male orgasm.

The clitoris grows throughout a woman's life. After menopause, the clitoris can become 2.5 times larger than it was when the same woman was a teenager. I don't think that there has been an actually study about clitoris size in relation to pleasure. And I don't think that women have a size thing about their clitoris, the way men do around penis size. I have never ever met a woman who has measured her clitoris, but I have met men who have measured their penis. 

Heterosexual women report reaching orgasm during sex only 65 percent of the time, versus 95 percent for straight men. Orgasm starts with the genital sensory cortex and then spreads to areas in the limbic system, including the amygdala (emotional processing) and hippocampus (memory, fantasy) along with the insula and anterior cingulate cortex (visceral sensation and internal feelings). Woman climaxes more easily when she’s relaxed and able to fantasize freely without any worries. Pleasure was something to sink into, not race toward.

Body Image

Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social rights for women This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment.

Femininity or girlishness, womanliness or womanhood, is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with girls and women. Femininity is socially constructed, but made up of both socially-defined and biologically-created factors. This makes it distinct from the definition of the biological female sex, as both males and females can exhibit feminine traits. People who exhibit a combination of both masculine and feminine characteristics are considered androgynous, and feminist philosophers have argued that gender ambiguity may blur gender classification. Modern conceptualizations of femininity also rely not just upon social constructions, but upon the individualized choices made by women. Traits traditionally cited as feminine include gentleness, empathy, and sensitivity, though traits associated with femininity vary depending on location and context, and are influenced by a variety of social and cultural factors. In some non-English speaking cultures, certain concepts or inanimate objects are considered feminine or masculine (the counterpart to feminine).

Shyness - Introvert

Prude meaning honorable woman, is a person who is described as (or would describe themselves as) being concerned with decorum or propriety, significantly in excess of normal prevailing standards. They may be perceived as being more uncomfortable than most with sexuality or nudity.

SlutSlut is generally a term for a woman or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. It is usually used as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement (slut shaming). It originally meant "a dirty, slovenly woman", and is rarely used to refer to men, generally requiring clarification by use of the terms male slut or man whore.

Slut-Shaming is a form of social stigma applied to people, especially women and girls, who are perceived to violate traditional expectations for sexual behaviors. Some examples of circumstances wherein women are "slut-shamed" include violating dress code policies by dressing in perceived sexually provocative ways, requesting access to birth control, having premarital, casual, or promiscuous sex, engaging in prostitution, or when being victim blamed for being raped or otherwise sexually assaulted.

Being Horny
Oral Sex



Clitoris is a female sex organ visible button-like portion is near the front junction of the labia minora (inner lips), above the opening of the urethra. Unlike the penis, the male homologue (equivalent) to the clitoris, it usually does not contain the distal portion (or opening) of the urethra and is therefore not used for urination.

G-Spot is characterized as an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and potential female ejaculation. It is typically reported to be located 5–8 cm (2–3 in) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the female prostate.

Internal Clitoris

Masturbation Fun?
Masturbation Facts?
A Woman's Guide To Mind-Blowing Masturbation
Learning to Masturbate
Learning How To Masturbate (youtube)
Female Masturbation: 5 things to know (webMD)

It doesn’t have to be quick, or end with an Orgasm.

Vibrator is a sex toy that is used on the body to produce pleasurable erotic stimulation. Most 2010-era vibrators contain an electric-powered device which pulsates or throbs, which is used to stimulate erogenous zones such as the clitoris, rest of the vulva or vagina, penis, scrotum or anus. There are many different shapes and models of vibrators. Some vibrators designed for women stimulate both the clitoris and the vagina. Some vibrators designed for couples stimulate the genitals of both partners.

Divinyls - I Touch Myself (youtube)

Touching (human touch)

Male Masturbation

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder or restless genital syndrome, is spontaneous, persistent, unwanted and uncontrollable genital arousal in the absence of sexual stimulation or sexual desire, and is typically not relieved by orgasm. Instead, multiple orgasms over hours or days may be required for relief.

Dorsal Nerve Cord is one of the embryonic features unique to chordates. The dorsal nerve cord is a hollow cord dorsal to the notochord. It is formed from a part of the Ectoderm that rolls, forming the hollow tube, compared to other animal phyla, which have solid, ventral tubes. The dorsal nerve cord is later modified in vertebrates into the central nervous system which is composed of the brain and spinal cord. A dorsal nerve cord is mainly found in subphylum Vertebrata. Chordates also usually have a notochord, a post-anal tail, an endostyle, and pharyngeal slits. Dorsal means the "back" side, as opposed to Ventral which is the "belly" side of an organism. In bipedal organisms dorsal is the back and ventral is the front. In organisms which walk on four limbs the dorsal surface is the top (back) and the ventral surface is the bottom (belly).

Grow a Vigina
She's kidding of course. She's just making a point about how sensitive our private areas are, especially Testicles.

Public Displays

When are Public Displays of Affection proper and not proper?

Public Displays of Affection are acts of physical intimacy in the view of others. What is an acceptable display of affection varies with respect to culture and context. Displays of affection in a public place, such as the street, are more likely to be objected to, than similar practices in a private place with only people from a similar cultural background present. Some organizations have rules limiting or prohibiting public displays of affection. Body Language vs. Body Image.

Grinding is a type of close partner dance where two or more dancers rub or bump their bodies against each other, this is generally with a female dancer rubbing her buttocks against a male dancer's crotch area. Safe Sex.

Twerking is a type of dancing in which an individual, often female, moves to music in a sexually provocative manner involving thrusting hip movements and a low squatting stance.

Exhibitionism is the act of exposing in a public or semi-public context those parts of one's body that are not normally exposed – for example, the breasts, genitals or buttocks. The practice may arise from a desire or compulsion to expose themselves in such a manner to groups of friends or acquaintances, or to strangers for their amusement or sexual satisfaction or to shock the bystander. Exposing oneself only to an intimate partner is normally not regarded as exhibitionism. In law, the act of exhibitionism may be called indecent exposure, "exposing one's person", or other expressions.


Modesty is a mode of dress and deportment which intends to avoid encouraging of sexual attraction in others. Modest behavior.

Disinhibition is not the same as having Confidence.

Provocative is tending to provoke, excite, or stimulate. Exciting sexual desire. 

is marked by or tending to Arouse sexual desire or interest, Exciting Sexual Desire.

Provocative Clothing (amazon)

Why are Certain Clothes too Sexy for Wearing in Public?

Provocative Clothing or Just Clothes You need to be aware of your Body Language. Ignoring the fact that there are ignorant people in the world is not a good way to protect yourself. You have the right to wear what ever you want, but you should dress responsibly and be ready to defend yourself, physically and mentally. No person has the right to judge you by your appearance. And no person has the right to use your appearance as a reason or as an excuse to be an as*hole or a criminal towards you. But you need to understand the Risks. Be beautiful, but please be careful. Remember that power corrupts, even the power of beauty.

Clothes and Body Image

Harper Valley PTA is a country song written by Tom T. Hall which became, in 1968, a major international hit single for country singer Jeannie C. Riley. "you've been wearing your dresses way too high".

Teasing comes in three major forms, playful, hurtful, and educative. When teasing is playful and friendly, and especially when it is reciprocal, teasing can be regarded as flirting. When teasing is unwelcome, it may be regarded as harassment or mobbing, especially in the work place and school, or as a form of bullying or emotional abuse. If done in public, it may be regarded as humiliation. Teasing can also be regarded as educative when it is used as a way of Informal learning. Adults in some of the Indigenous American Communities often tease children to playfully illustrate and teach them how their behavior negatively affects the community. Children in many Indigenous American Communities also learn by observing what others do in addition to collaborating with them. Along with teasing, this form of informal learning is different from the ways that Western American children learn. Informal ways of child learning include mutual responsibility, as well as active collaboration with adults and peers. This differentiates from the more formal way of learning because it is not adult-oriented.

Tantalizing is to excite the senses or desires of someone. To torment or tease someone with the sight or promise of something that is unobtainable.

Jeggings (video)

I Know What Boys Like - The Waitresses (youtube)

Why is certain makeup too sexy for wearing in public?

Social Impact of Thong Underwear (wiki)

What's the difference between feeling sexy and looking sexy? Do you have to look sexy in order to feel sexy?

Indecent Exposure is the deliberate exposure in public or in view of the general public by a person of a portion or portions of his or her body, in circumstances where the exposure is contrary to local moral or other standards of appropriate behavior. The term "indecent exposure" is a legal expression. Social and community attitudes to the exposing of various body parts and laws covering what is referred to as indecent exposure vary significantly in different countries. It ranges from outright prohibition to prohibition of exposure of certain body parts, such as the genital area, buttocks or breasts. Kinky.

Boudoir Photography is a photographic style featuring intimate, romantic, and sometimes erotic images of its subjects, primarily intended for the private enjoyment of the subject and their romantic partners. It is distinct from glamour and art nude photography in that it is usually more suggestive rather than explicit in its approach to nudity and sexuality, features subjects who do not regularly model, and produces images which are not intended to be seen by a wide audience, but rather to remain under the control of the subject. 

Pinterest Sexy Photography Ideas

Sexy Boudoir Body Positions

Striptease is an erotic or exotic dance in which the performer gradually undresses, either partly or completely, in a seductive and sexually suggestive manner. The person who performs a striptease is commonly known as a "stripper" or exotic dancer.

Straight Pride a term used to describe as a response to gay pride adopted by various LGBT groups in the early 1970s or to the accommodations provided to gay pride initiatives.


We need Freedom of Expression without Discrimination or Bias, but we also need Respect for each other?

When Sex Becomes a Crime - Criminal Behavior - Misconduct


Pornography is not sex education. Some images can be very misleading and disturbing, which could mess with your mind and cause your reality be be extremely distorted. Learning the right things at the right time is just as important as seeing the right things things at the right time in your life. Confusion can cause damage, which is another good reason why education needs to improve.

Hollywood movies are entertainment and are not meant to be factual. Soap Opera TV shows are not made to help you understand relationships, because they are extremely exaggerated. Just because a movie depicts something that could happen in life, it doesn't mean that it should happen in your life.

What is the difference between sexual content on TV and Pornography? Why does explicit sexual images have the same effect as suggestive sexual undertones that show no nudity? Why is sexual content OK for advertisers while Pornography is frowned upon even though pornography is prevalent throughout the world?

Technology Addiction or just Addiction?

Pornography is the portrayal of sexual subject matter for the purpose of sexual arousal. Pornography may be presented in a variety of media, including books, magazines, postcards, photographs, sculpture, drawing, painting, animation, sound recording, film, video, and video games. The term applies to the depiction of the act rather than the act itself, and so does not include live exhibitions like sex shows and striptease. The primary subjects of pornographic depictions are pornographic models, who pose for still photographs, and pornographic actors or porn stars, who perform in pornographic films. If dramatic skills are not involved, a performer in a porn film may also be called a model.

Boudoir Photography

Pornographic Films are films that present sexually explicit subject matter for the purpose of sexual arousal and erotic satisfaction of the viewer. Pornographic films present sexual fantasies and usually include erotically stimulating material such as nudity and depictions of sexual intercourse. A distinction is sometimes made between "erotic" films and "pornographic" films on the basis that the latter contain more explicit sexuality, and focus more on arousal than storytelling, but the distinction is highly subjective.

Erotica is any artistic work that deals substantively with erotically stimulating or sexually arousing subject matter. All forms of art may depict erotic content, including painting, sculpture, photography, drama, film, music or literature. Erotica has high-art aspirations, differentiating it from commercial pornography.|

Nudity is the state of wearing no clothing.

Science of Pornography Addiction (SFW) (youtube)

"If it's in focus, it's pornography, if it's out of focus, it's art."  (Billy Kwan)

Type of Pornography that people watch the most by State (people sure love women, which is understandable)

Exploitation of Women in Mass Media is the use or portrayal of women in the mass media (such as television, film and advertising) to increase the appeal of media or a product to the detriment of, or without regard to, the interests of the women portrayed, or women in general.

Sexual  Objectification is the act of treating a person as an instrument of sexual pleasure. Objectification more broadly means treating a person as a commodity or an object without regard to their personality or dignity. Objectification is most commonly examined at the level of a society, but can also refer to the behavior of individuals.

Sex Object is a person regarded primarily as a source of sexual gratification. A person viewed primarily in terms of sexual appeal or as a source of sexual gratification.

Sex in Advertising is the use of sex appeal in advertising to help sell a particular product or service. Sexually appealing imagery may or may not pertain to the product or service in question. Examples of sexually appealing imagery include nudity, pin-up models, and muscular men.

Sexualization is to make something sexual in character or quality, or to become aware of sexuality, especially in relation to men and women.

Sexuality in Music Videos. A survey found that 72.2% of black, 68.0% of white, and 69.2% of Hispanic youths agree with the suggestion that rap music videos contain 'too many' references to sex.

Kids need to see naked bodies as natural and uneventful, but the Media wants kids to see Nudity as sexual and provocative.

Porn Info Graph (image)

Porn should be something like this video, DB-J#26, Eyes down finish your work. Have someone role playing out a sexual experience for you based on your education level and needs. And at the same time, the video should teach the person about communication, and also teach the person not to objectify the person they are with, which is one of the main problems with porn, is that it misleads you and fools you into believing a false reality. You don't personally know who those people are or what they are thinking. Like actors in a fantasy super hero movie, they are fictional characters and in a sense they are not real people, thus this is not reality, even though some aspects can be considered reality. But as a whole, it is not reality. And that is the danger of all films, which is the disconnection from reality, where nothing is learned, only fantasized. So when the person try's to combine fantasy with reality, they either hurt themselves or hurt others.

Naturism is a cultural and political movement practising, advocating and defending personal and social nudity, most but not all of which takes place on private property. The term may also refer to a lifestyle based on personal, family and/or social nudism.

Sexting is sending and receiving sexually explicit messages, primarily between mobile phones. The term was first popularized in the early 21st century, and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the wide sense of sending a text possibly with images. Exchange of images solely between two romantic partners. Exchanges between partners that are shared with others outside the relationship. Exchanges between people who are not yet in a relationship, but where at least one person hopes to be. Sexting has become more common with the rise in camera phones and smartphones with Internet access, that can be used to send explicit photographs as well as messages Victimization and Humiliation.

The Human Body is Beautiful and does not need Perversion or any hyped up perception from people using nudity to sell you something. Nudity and sex is not bad, what's bad is how the ignorant and perverted people use sex and nudity to exploit peoples ignorance and exploit peoples lack of self-control. Sexual images and pornography can have damaging effects on the minds of young adults and older adults. And the mainstream media feeds these perversions as a way to distract and manipulate young minds and adults. This is why Media Literacy and Sex Education is so extremely important. Information and knowledge is the only protection against misinformation and ignorant perverted people who want to hurt you....Keep Learning My Friends.

History of Erotica Sexuality
Cindy Gallop: Make Love, Not Porn (youtube)
So you think you know what porn is?

No Porn 
The Teenage Brain on Porn (CBS youtube)
Instant Gratification

Can watching Pornography make you stupid?

Why do we let emotions and pleasures control our actions?
Philip Zimbardo: The Demise of Guys and Arousal Addiction (video)

Why are kids so insecure about sex?
Why do kids become violent because of sex?

Why do people become Self-Centered and Conceited about sex?  What is Narcissism?

What is Vanity? - Body Image

Are we Brainwashed by the media or are we just some how vulnerable to these weaknesses?

The Communications Decency Act of 1996 (CDA) was the first notable attempt by the United States Congress to regulate pornographic material on the Internet. In 1997, in the landmark case of Reno v. ACLU, the United States Supreme Court struck the anti-indecency provisions of the Act. The Act was Title V of the Telecommunications Act of 1996. It was introduced to the Senate Committee of Commerce, Science, and Transportation by Senators James Exon (D-NE) and Slade Gorton (R-WA) in 1995. The amendment that became the CDA was added to the Telecommunications Act in the Senate by an 84–16 vote on June 14, 1995. As eventually passed by Congress, Title V affected the Internet (and online communications) in two significant ways. First, it attempted to regulate both indecency (when available to children) and obscenity in cyberspace. Second, Section 230 of the Act has been interpreted to say that operators of Internet services are not to be construed as publishers (and thus not legally liable for the words of third parties who use their services). Sex Crimes.


Prostitution is the business or practice of engaging in sexual relations or sex acts in exchange for payment, or some other benefit, like rent, housing, food, car, college and anything else that usually costs money.

Consent between two adults can't be illegal. But when someone takes advantage of someone who is desperate, or if someone exploits someone because they are vulnerable, or if someone prays on someone because of their lack of knowledge or rights, then that is illegal. Like coercion. People have rights. People should not be forced or be victimized just because they are in a bad situation. But there are scumbags who are either ignorant or just plain criminal who will do just that, even to children. And this is not just about sexual exploitation, this is the entire system of wealth and power that controls and corrupts society to the core. Inciting prostitution is the same thing that a lot of corporations do. It's just that most people are so ignorant they don't see the connection. Sugar-Daddy 

Inciting prostitution is the aiding, abetting, or assisting in an enterprise for profit in which customers are charged a fee for services which include prostitution, regardless of what portion of the fee is actually for the prostitution services.

Even sex for rent sounds like marriage. (for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, and for some sex too).

Sexual Predator is a person who stalks connives another person to obtain sexual contact in a abusive manner.

Connives is to secretly allow something considered immoral, illegal, wrong, or harmful to occur. conspire to do something considered immoral, illegal, or harmful.

Stalking is unwanted or repeated surveillance by an individual or group towards another person. Stalking behaviors are interrelated to harassment and intimidation and may include following the victim in person or monitoring them.

Predator a person or group that ruthlessly exploits others. Predation is an animal that kills and eats its prey.

Pimp (if male) or a Madam (if female) is the facilitation or provision of a prostitute or sex worker in the arrangement of a sex act with a customer. An agent for prostitutes who collects part of their earnings. The procurer may receive this money in return for advertising services, physical protection, or for providing, and possibly monopolizing, a location where the prostitute may engage clients. Like prostitution, the legality of certain actions of a madam or a pimp vary from one region to the next. Examples of procuring include: trafficking a person into a country for the purpose of soliciting sex. operating a prostitution business. transporting a prostitute to the location of their arrangement. deriving financial gain from the prostitution of another.

Parasitoid is an organism that lives in close association with its host and at the host's expense, and which sooner or later kills it.

The Trap: the deadly sex-trafficking cycle in American prisons (youtube)

Is Prostitution necessary? Can you experience sex with someone just for fun? Can you experience sex with someone just to learn about sex? Why is Prostitution illegal in some places while being legal in other places? 

Sexual Surrogate are practitioners trained in addressing issues of intimacy and sexuality. A surrogate partner works in collaboration with a therapist to meet the goals of their client. This triadic model is used to dually support the client: the client engages in experiential exercises and builds a relationship with their surrogate partner while processing and integrating their experiences with their therapist or clinician.

Sex Worker is a person who is employed in the sex industry. Consists of businesses which either directly or indirectly provide sex-related products and services or adult entertainment.

Guy proposes legal hand jobs by massage practitioners to Lawrence KS city commission (youtube)

Sex Industry includes activities involving direct provision of sex-related services, such as prostitution, strip clubs, Host and hostess clubs and sex-related pastimes, such as pornography, sex-oriented men's magazines, sex movies, sex toys and fetish and BDSM paraphernalia. Sex channels for television and pre-paid sex movies for on demand, are part of the sex industry, as are adult movie theaters, sex shops, and strip clubs.

Comfort Women were women and girls who were forced into Sex Slavery by the Imperial Japanese Army in occupied territories before and during World War II.

Sacred Prostitution is a sexual ritual consisting of sexual intercourse or other sexual activity performed in the context of religious worship, perhaps as a form of fertility rite and divine marriage (hieros gamos).

Why are there more female prostitutes then Male Prostitutes?

Brothel is a place where people may come to engage in sexual activity with a prostitute, sometimes referred to as a sex worker.

Toni Mac, The Laws that Sex Workers really want (video and interactive text)

Can Robots replace prostitutes? Yes, but if only they teach a person how to have sex affectionately and safely.

People are victimized by being undereducated, and victimized by being subjected to a corrupted system. So attacking the victims does not solve the problem of our inadequate and dysfunctional educational institutions, or does it solve the problem of a corrupted system. The only way out is to learn your way out. You can't demonize things just because something can be used improperly or just used differently. That violates a humans right to use something properly, differently or effectively without discrimination or retaliation. Anything can be used in the wrong way. That's why we have user instructions and warning labels. Perversion is an education problem that needs to be solved. You can not solve these problems just using beliefs or punishment, because that has always failed, thus it will never go away. You are not solving a problem by trying to cover it up and pretending that it doesn't exist. Treating a disease does not cure a disease, especially a disease such as ignorance. Suffering is not a teaching method. Only knowledge will set you free. And Peace of mind only comes to those who learn and progress. Remember that Idle minds are the devils playground. So Never Stop Learning.

Idle is not in action or at work. Without a basis in reason or fact. Not in active use. Lacking a sense of restraint or responsibility.


Human Body Organs Sexual Orientation is an enduring pattern of romantic or sexual attraction, or a combination of these, to persons of the opposite sex or gender, the same sex or gender, or to both sexes or more than one gender.

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community (wiki)

GLBT National Help Line: 1-888-843-4564 
GLBT National Help Center for Youth: 1-800-246-7743
GLBTQ Domestic Violence Project: 1-800-832-1901
Trans Hack is a collection of virtual classrooms designed specifically for collaboration, sharing and building for the trans* community.

Human Rights - Discrimination

Homosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior between members of the same sex or gender. As a sexual orientation, homosexuality is "an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions" to people of the same sex. It "also refers to a person's sense of identity based on those attractions, related behaviors, and membership in a community of others who share those attractions.

Lesbian is a homosexual woman. The word lesbian is also used for women in relation to their sexual identity or sexual behavior regardless of sexual orientation, or as an adjective to characterize or associate nouns with female homosexuality or same-sex attraction.

Gay is a term that primarily refers to a homosexual person or the trait of being homosexual. The term was originally used to mean "carefree", "cheerful", or "bright and showy".

Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to, and differentiating between, masculinity and femininity. Depending on the context, these characteristics may include biological sex (i.e., the state of being male, female, or an intersex variation), sex-based social structures (i.e., gender roles), or gender identity. Typically, societies use a gender binary, having two genders, men and women; those who exist outside these groups fall under the umbrella term non-binary or genderqueer. Some societies have specific genders besides "man" and "woman", such as the hijras of South Asia; these are often referred to as third genders (and fourth genders, etc).

Gender Identity is one's personal experience of one's own gender.

Gender Expression is a person's behavior, mannerisms, interests, and appearance that are associated with gender in a particular cultural context, specifically with the categories of femininity or masculinity. This also includes gender roles. These categories rely on stereotypes about gender.

Gender Identity Disorder is when a person experiences distress as a result of the sex and gender they were assigned at birth.

Gender Dysphoria is the distress a person feels due to their birth-assigned sex and gender not matching their gender identity. People who experience gender dysphoria are typically transgender. Evidence from studies of twins suggests that gender dysphoria not only has psychological causes, but may have biological causes as well.

Identity - Acting

Gender Equality is the view that everyone should receive equal treatment and not be discriminated against based on their gender.

Gender Bender is a person who disrupts, or "bends", expected gender roles.

Gender Role is a set of societal norms dictating the types of behaviors which are generally considered acceptable, appropriate, or desirable for people based on their actual or perceived sex or sexuality. Gender roles are usually centered on conceptions of femininity and masculinity, although there are exceptions and variations. The specifics regarding these gendered expectations may vary substantially among cultures, while other characteristics may be common throughout a range of cultures. There is ongoing debate as to what extent gender roles and their variations are biologically determined, and to what extent they are socially constructed.

David Reimer was a Canadian man born biologically male but reassigned as a girl and raised female following medical advice and intervention after his penis was accidentally destroyed during a botched circumcision in infancy.

Me My Sex And I - My Sex Life (youtube)

Transgender are people who have a gender identity, or gender expression, that differs from their assigned sex.

What it's like to be a Transgender Dad: LB Hannahs (video and text) "I identify as transgender and as a parent, that makes me a transparent."

Laura Jane Grace (born Thomas James Gabel, November 8, 1980) is an American musician best known as the founder, lead singer, songwriter and guitarist of the punk rock band Against Me! Tranny: Confessions of Punk Rock's Most Infamous Anarchist Sellout. (amazon)

Intersex is one possessing any of several variations in sex characteristics including chromosomes, gonads, sex hormones, or genitals.

Cross Dressing is the act of wearing items of clothing and other accoutrements commonly associated with the opposite sex within a particular society. Cross-dressing has been used for purposes of disguise, comfort, and self-discovery in modern times and throughout history.

Polari is a form of cant slang.

Sexual Script suggests the importance of meanings and symbols in human sexuality.

Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females, or romantic or sexual attraction to people of any sex or gender identity; this latter aspect is sometimes alternatively termed Pansexuality, which is the sexual attraction, romantic love, or emotional attraction toward people regardless of their sex or gender identity. Pansexual people may refer to themselves as gender-blind, asserting that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others. Pansexuality is the sexual, romantic or emotional attraction towards people regardless of their sex or gender identity.

Sexual Fluidity is one or more changes in sexuality or sexual identity (sometimes known as sexual orientation identity).

Muxe is a person whose birth sex is male but who identifies as female or as neither male nor female. Muxe is an assigned male at birth individual who dresses and behaves in ways otherwise associated with the female gender; they may be seen as a third gender. Some marry women and have children while others choose men as sexual or romantic partners.

Skoliosexual refers to sexual attraction to non-binary identified individuals or those who do not identify as cisgender. This does not generally describe an attraction to specific genitalia or birth assignments but rather is an inclusive term.

Is Gay Sex really different from Straight Sex?

Gay sex, Straight Sex or Heterosexuality all have to deal with all the issues that are related to sexual activity, so what’s the difference? 

People Smart - Female - Male

If sex is a personal preference, then why is gay, bisexual, straight and other forms of sexual preferences all judged differently?

Sexual Attraction and Orientation Study Among Adults Aged 18–44 (PDF)

Romantic relationships buffer gay and lesbian youth from emotional distress. Bullying doesn't 'hurt' as much when you are in Love. Confidence.

If a gay person is just dating someone for the sex, and if a straight person is just dating someone for the sex, then this is not about being Gay or Straight, it's all about the influences of Sex. And you wonder why sex education is so extremely important.

To say that you are Gay or Straight does not say anything about who you are, only your sexual preference. So who are you?

If I was attracted to women before I even knew what sex was does that mean that Homosexuality is not just about sexual attraction? 

Then what's the difference between Sexual Attraction and Love?

When Did You Choose to Be Straight? (youtube)

Sex change is something that needs a lot of research and learning. You should definitely wait until you are mentally and physically mature enough. You need more than a Psychological Evaluation, because regret can occur after sex reassignment surgery.

Sex Reassignment Surgery is the surgical procedure (or procedures) by which a transgender person's physical appearance and function of their existing sexual characteristics are altered to resemble that socially associated with their identified gender. It is part of a treatment for gender dysphoria in transgender people. Related genital surgeries may also be performed on intersex people, often in infancy. A 2013 statement by the United Nations Special Rapporteur on Torture condemns the nonconsensual use of normalization surgery on intersex people. (Sex Reassignment Surgery is also known as gender reassignment surgery, gender confirmation surgery, genital reconstruction surgery, gender-affirming surgery, or sex realignment surgery, feminizing genitoplasty or penectomy, orchiectomy, and vaginoplasty, are used medically for trans women, with masculinizing genitoplasty, metoidioplasty or phalloplasty often similarly used for trans men).

Sex Reassignment Surgery male-to-female involves reshaping the male genitals into a form with the appearance of, and, as far as possible, the function of female genitalia. Before any surgery, patients usually undergo hormone replacement therapy (HRT), and, depending on the age at which HRT begins, facial hair removal. There are associated surgeries patients may elect to, including facial feminization surgery, breast augmentation, and various other procedures.

Sex Reassignment Surgery female-to-male includes a variety of surgical procedures that alter female anatomical traits to provide physical traits more appropriate to the trans man's male identity and functioning. Many trans men considering the option do not opt for genital reassignment surgery; more frequent surgical options include bilateral mastectomy (removal of the breasts) and chest contouring (providing a more typically male chest shape), and hysterectomy (the removal of internal sex organs). Sex reassignment surgery is usually preceded by beginning hormone treatment with testosterone.

Plastic Surgery is a surgical specialty involving the restoration, reconstruction, or alteration of the human body. It can be divided into two categories. The first is reconstructive surgery which includes craniofacial surgery, hand surgery, microsurgery, and the treatment of burns. The other is cosmetic or aesthetic surgery. While reconstructive surgery aims to reconstruct a part of the body or improve its functioning, cosmetic surgery aims at improving the appearance of it. Both of these techniques are used throughout the world. Body Image.

Promiscuity is not just related to being gay, it is just another indication of the powerful influences of sex.

Monogamy is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time (serial monogamy), as compared to polygyny, polyandry, or polyamory. The term is also applied to the social behavior of some animals, referring to the state of having only one mate at any one time.

Polyamory is defined as the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships where individuals may have more than one partner, with the knowledge and consent of all partners. It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy".

There is a big difference between flaunting and being proud, so whether you're Straight or Gay, the dangers are still the same.

Flaunting is intended to attract notice and impress others. Showing off.  Parading.  Act ostentatiously or pretentiously. To exhibit ostentatiously or shamelessly.

Proud is feeling self-respect or pleasure in something by which you measure your self-worth; Pride Having or displaying great dignity or nobility.

Gender expression refers to the way that a person uses appearance, mannerisms and other personal traits to communicate their gender. Gender expression can be any combination of masculine, feminine and androgynous traits.

Why we need Gender-Neutral Bathrooms (video and text)

Planet Fitness is committed to creating a non-intimidating, welcoming environment for our members. Our gender identity non-discrimination policy states that members and guests may use all gym facilities based on their sincere self-reported gender identity.

Can the amount of Steroids that the neonatal brain was exposed to, profoundly influenced sex-specific behavior in later life?

Sexual Dimorphism is the condition where the two sexes of the same species exhibit different characteristics beyond the differences in their sexual organs. The condition occurs in many animals and some plants. Differences may include secondary sex characteristics, size, color, markings, and may also include behavioral differences. These differences may be subtle or exaggerated, and may be subjected to sexual selection. The opposite of dimorphism is monomorphism.

Secondary Sex Characteristic are features that appear during puberty in humans, and at sexual maturity in other animals. These are particularly evident in the sexually dimorphic phenotypic traits that distinguish the sexes of a species, but unlike the sex organs, are not directly part of the reproductive system. They are believed to be the product of sexual selection for traits which display fitness, giving an individual an advantage over its rivals in courtship and aggressive interactions. They are distinguished from the primary sex characteristics, the sex organs, which are directly necessary for sexual reproduction to occur.

Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome is a condition that results in the partial or complete inability of the cell to respond to androgens, which is any natural or synthetic compound, usually a steroid hormone, that stimulates or controls the development and maintenance of male characteristics in vertebrates by binding to androgen receptors.

Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia are any of several autosomal recessive diseases resulting from mutations of genes for enzymes mediating the biochemical steps of production of mineralocorticoids, glucocorticoids or sex steroids from cholesterol by the adrenal glands (steroidogenesis).

Stria Terminalis is a structure in the brain consisting of a band of fibers running along the lateral margin of the ventricular surface of the thalamus. Serving as a major output pathway of the amygdala, the stria terminalis runs from its centromedial division to the ventral medial nucleus of the hypothalamus.

Unexpected Link between Immune Cells and Male-Female Differences. Researchers find that these cells play a key role in determining sex differences in the brain.

Non-Coding DNA changes the Genitals you're Born With

In the Womb - Identical Twins (youtube) One identical twin is gay the other is not. DNA

Testosterone has effects on the Hypothalamus

Penis Development needs more than just Testes and Testosterone. 'Backdoor' pathway to masculinity involves androsterone from multiple tissues, including the placenta. They found that Androsterone, a steroid from the backdoor pathway, which can be converted to DHT, was the principal androgen in the male fetal circulation, and that levels of both androsterone and testosterone were lower in the female fetal circulation. They also found that enzymes needed for the backdoor pathway were present primarily in non-gonadal tissue, including the liver and the placenta. Since androsterone can be made from progesterone, the authors suggest that placental progesterone or related compounds are the likely source of androsterone in the backdoor pathway. While it remains unclear why a sex difference in fetal androsterone levels exists, the authors found high expression in the male genital tubercle of enzymes required to convert androsterone to DHT. The male genital tubercle appears, therefore to be able to convert both testosterone and androsterone into DHT.

Some women who are pregnant with boys develop antibodies that target a protein made by the Y chromosome. Our immune systems make antibodies to recognise foreign molecules, which have the potential to be from dangerous bacteria. But pregnant women sometimes also produce antibodies against fetal molecules – for example, if their fetus has a different blood group. Bogaert’s team wondered if maternal antibodies might play a role in shaping sexual orientation. They found that the mothers of gay sons with older brothers had the highest levels of antibodies against this protein, followed by the mothers of gay sons with no older brothers. Women who had straight sons had less of these antibodies, while women with no sons had the least. The team suggests these antibodies build up in some women’s bodies with every male baby they have. At higher concentrations, it is possible that the effect of these antibodies on the protein they target leads to changes in brain development that can have an influence on sexual orientation. The protein targeted by the antibodies, called NLGN4Y, is thought to play a role in how brain cells connect to each other.

Gene Hunters Sound Warning over Gay Link

Homosexual Behavior in Animals is sexual behavior among non-human species that is interpreted as homosexual or bisexual. This may include same-sex sexual activity, courtship, affection, pair bonding, and parenting among same-sex animal pairs. Research indicates that various forms of this are found in every major geographic region and every major animal group. As of 1999, about 500 species, ranging from primates to gut worms, have been documented engaging in same-sex behaviors. According to the organizers of the 2006 Against Nature? exhibit, it has been observed in 1,500 species. List of Animals Displaying Homosexual Behavior (wiki).

Sex-determination System - Chromosomal Determination is a biological system that determines the development of sexual characteristics in an organism. Most organisms that create their offspring using sexual reproduction have two sexes. Occasionally, there are hermaphrodites in place of one or both sexes. There are also some species that are only one sex due to parthenogenesis, the act of a female reproducing without fertilization.

The astonishing village where little girls turn into boys aged 12. The rare genetic disorder occurs because of a missing enzyme which prevents the production of a specific form of the male sex hormone - dihydro-testosterone - in the womb. All babies in the womb, whether male or female, have internal glands known as gonads and a small bump between their legs called a tubercle. At around eight weeks, male babies who carry the Y chromosome start to produce dihydro-testosterone in large amounts, which turns the tubercle into a penis. For females, the tubercle becomes a clitoris. But some male babies are missing the enzyme 5-α-reductase which triggers the hormone surge, so they appear to be born female with no testes and what appears to be a vagina. It is not until puberty, when another huge surge of testosterone is produced, that the male reproductive organs emerge. What should have happened in the womb happens around 12 years later. Their voices deepen and they finally grow a penis.

Hermaphrodite is an organism that has complete or partial reproductive organs and produces gametes normally associated with both male and female sexes. Many taxonomic groups of animals (mostly invertebrates) do not have separate sexes. In these groups, hermaphroditism is a normal condition, enabling a form of sexual reproduction in which either partner can act as the "female" or "male." For example, the great majority of tunicates, pulmonate snails, opisthobranch snails, earthworms and slugs are hermaphrodites. Hermaphroditism is also found in some fish species and to a lesser degree in other vertebrates. Most plants are also hermaphrodites.

Most of us don't know that all babies have the exact same genital tissue when they are conceived. At about 12 weeks, each baby's genitalia begin to differentiate into a penis or labia. We are more alike than we are different. The clitoris and penis are the same materials assembled in a different way. The clitoris has glans, a foreskin (also known as the hood), erectile tissue and a very small shaft -- all the parts that a penis has. It even swells when it's aroused.

Puberty Blocker are a group of medications used to inhibit puberty. They were originally used to treat children with precocious puberty or other such early onset of puberty. Puberty blockers slow the growth of sexual organs and production of hormones. Other effects include the suppression of facial hair, deep voices, and Adam's apples for boys and the halting of breast growth and menstruation in girls.

What does it mean to be Male?  What does it mean to be Female?  Why do we have gender specific behavior? Gender Role. You should have the right to be who you feel you are, as long as it does not include stereotypical behaviors that are demoralizing to a particular sex. Being a man should not include the stupid things that men do, things that supposedly make a man feel more like a man. Being a woman should not include the stupid things that women do, things that supposedly make a woman feel more like a woman. Acquiring social norms is a form of discrimination towards yourself. Being yourself should not be about finding ways to fit in, or conform. Being Yourself is about you exploring and discovering things about you and the world around you, and then sharing this knowledge with others. Women dress up like men and men dress up like women, so who cares. Your sexual identity only defines 10% of who you are as a person. Your intellect will always be the most important part of who you are, everything else is just details.

Androgyny is the combination of masculine and feminine characteristics. (none of which define a persons character).

Sissy, Pansy, Pantywaist or Effeminate is having feminine qualities. A timid man or boy considered childish Indicating a lack of maturity or unassertive. Inclined to timidity or lack of self-confidence.

Shy (introvert)

Informed Consent does not mean that you understand something fully or accurately. It's only a guideline.

Do Lesbians and Homosexuals have to practice Safe Sex?

Cooperative Marriage is when both parties are aware of the other’s status, and are marrying purely as a cover to hide existing same-sex relationships.

What ever your sexual preference is, you still have to deal with all the vulnerabilities, and you still have to explore.

Is Coming Out of the closet even necessary? Out - Is coming out necessary?

Perception of Sexual Orientation

To Each His Own is a right that every person is entitled to his or her personal preferences and tastes.

Yoga Pants Prank 2 (youtube) yes it is embarrassing, but why?

Sex Discrimination

Sexism is prejudice or discrimination based on a person's sex or gender. Sexism can affect any gender, but it is particularly documented as affecting women and girls. It has been linked to stereotypes and gender roles, and may include the belief that one sex or gender is intrinsically superior to another. Extreme sexism may foster sexual harassment, rape, and other forms of sexual violence. Sex Discrimination is discrimination in employment and opportunity against a person (typically a woman) on grounds of sex. Bias.

People have the right to dress and look in a way they feel comfortable with. If you are bothered by someone else's appearance, then you have a serious problem, a problem that needs to be fixed, maybe with therapy or education.

Social Stigma refers to extreme disapproval of (or discontent with) a person or group on socially characteristic grounds that are perceived, and serve to distinguish them, from other members of a society. Stigma may then be affixed to such a person, by the greater society, who differs from their cultural norms.

Gender Equality is the state of equal ease of access to resources and opportunities regardless of gender, including economic participation and decision-making; and the state of valuing different behaviors, aspirations and needs equally, regardless of gender. Gender equality, equality between men and women, entails the concept that all human beings, both men and women, are free to develop their personal abilities and make choices without the limitations set by stereotypes, rigid gender roles and prejudices. Gender equality means that the different behaviour, aspirations and needs of women and men are considered, valued and favoured equally. It does not mean that women and men have to become the same, but that their rights, responsibilities and opportunities will not depend on whether they are born male or female. Gender equity means fairness of treatment for women and men, according to their respective needs. This may include equal treatment or treatment that is different but which is considered equivalent in terms of rights, benefits, obligations and opportunities. (ABC Of Women Worker's Rights And Gender Equality, ILO, 2000. p. 48).

Gender Role is a social role encompassing a range of behaviors and attitudes that are generally considered acceptable, appropriate, or desirable for people based on their actual or perceived sex. Gender roles are usually centered on conceptions of femininity and masculinity, although there are exceptions and variations.

Don't Ask, Don't Tell act prohibited any homosexual or bisexual person from disclosing their sexual orientation or from speaking about any homosexual relationships, including marriages or other familial attributes, while serving in the United States armed forces. The act specified that service members who disclose that they are homosexual or engage in homosexual conduct should be separated (discharged) except when a service member's conduct was "for the purpose of avoiding or terminating military service" or when it "would not be in the best interest of the armed forces". The "don't ask" part of the DADT policy specified that superiors should not initiate investigation of a service member's orientation without witnessing disallowed behaviors, though credible evidence of homosexual behavior could be used to initiate an investigation. Unauthorized investigations and harassment of suspected servicemen and women led to an expansion of the policy to "don't ask, don't tell, don't pursue, don't harass". (Don't ask, don't learn, don't understand, don't care, don't progress).

Prejudice and Discrimination. There is no logical reasons why you would judge someone unfairly just by knowing their sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is just one detail of many details that make up a persons personality. You can not know a person just by knowing a couple of details about them, which is a fact of life and a reality. You can't Judge a book by it's cover, which is also a fact of life and a reality. Prejudice and Discrimination are products of ignorance. And ignorance is not peoples fault. We know now that education is extremely inadequate, and we also know that the media feeds on peoples ignorance and plays on their fears, which is another fact of life and a reality. Until we can improve education, and make the media more responsible, we will continue to suffer from peoples ignorance. Ignorance is where bad behaviors come from. Everyone perceives sex in their own personal way. Sometimes people's likes and dislikes are similar, and other times they are not, whether they are male or female. And if two people wanted to be close with each other consensually, then they are two consenting adults, and no one has the right to pry into their personal lives, no one. What people do in the privacy of their own home is not anyone's concern, especially when no one is being hurt, exploited or victimized. The problem is that some people are afraid of seeing gay couples openly, like that's some how promoting gay sex. If that was true then that's making the assumption that seeing a man and a women together is in a way promoting sex. That's a narrow minded view and incredibly presumptuous to say that everyone is a sex addict and that everyone can't control themselves, except for you, for some strange reason. That's also saying that gay sex is more of a threat then sex itself? Which is incredibly ignorant and illogical, especially when you look at rapes, pornography and all the other ways that people are victimized and exploited by so called straight sex or normal sex. So this is not about sexual freedom, this is clearly a behavior problem, and not the behavior of the accused, but the behavior of the accuser. To assume that other people are going to be influenced by other peoples behavior, is saying that you cannot control your own behavior, so you think that others must not be able to control their own behavior too, which is wrong and ridiculous. So the core of this issue is behavior. Behavior is something that you are supposed to control, and that the behavior of others should not control or influence your behavior in any way. But that doesn't always happen, so again, that's a behavior problem. We are not educating people enough to understand their own behaviors or understand the behaviors of others. And there are a lot of different behavior issues plaguing society, and the gay prejudice issue is not even an major issue if you compare it to all the other issues that are threatening society. And that's why the media and politicians want to make a big deal out of this issue. So they can distract people from the more dangerous issues, like corporate abuse, political corruption, the poisoning of water and land, spying, greed, creating jobs that make a difference, and so on and so on. Just give gay people their rights and stop wasting everyone's time, people, resources and money. We have more important problems to solve. So it seems that our government is the biggest threat to society. Our problems are getting worse and our government officials are doing less, you scumbags need to be fired. So the only people you need to worry about f**king you in the a** is your own government, and guess what, you're not a virgin anymore. Which doesn't make you Gay, it just means that you're gullible and that you need to be more informed. The government has no right to rape their citizens. So tell your government officials that they must register as sex offenders. After all, it's the "Law". 

Discrimination - Bias

Note: I'm not Gay or could I ever be, not to say that there's anything wrong with it, it's just not me. I Love Women. And the fact that Women also love Women just proves and confirms that Women are awesome, so I'm not alone. So I guess that it also says that if a Man loves another Man then that is proof that Men are also lovable too, so everyone is lovable, which is awesome. Everyone has the right to be loved, so who am I to judge who gets to love who. But I still think that men are little gross when compared to women, which is old fashion and stupid too, so I'm not going to argue with you about that.

Bad Behavior is another way of saying that you are lacking valuable information and knowledge that would provide you with a better understanding of yourself and the world around you, so that your reactions to situations and events are more accurate and less destructive and abusive.

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Sappho was an archaic Greek poet from the island of Lesbos. Sappho is known for her lyric poetry, written to be sung and accompanied by a lyre. Most of Sappho's poetry is now lost, and what is extant has survived only in fragmentary form, except for one complete poem – the "Ode to Aphrodite". As well as lyric poetry, ancient commentators claimed that Sappho wrote elegiac and iambic poetry. Three epigrams attributed to Sappho are extant, but these are actually Hellenistic imitations of Sappho's style. Little is known of Sappho's life. She was from a wealthy family from Lesbos, though the names of both of her parents are uncertain. Ancient sources say that she had three brothers; the names of two of them are mentioned in the Brothers Poem discovered in 2014. She was exiled to Sicily around 600 BC, and may have continued to work until around 570. Later legends surrounding Sappho's love for the ferryman Phaon and her death are unreliable. Sappho was a prolific poet, probably composing around 10,000 lines. Her poetry was well-known and greatly admired through much of antiquity, and she was among the canon of nine lyric poets most highly esteemed by scholars of Hellenistic Alexandria. Sappho's poetry is still considered extraordinary and her works continue to influence other writers. Beyond her poetry, she is well known as a symbol of love and desire between.

Slang (what do you mean?)

Queer is something that is beyond or deviating from the usual or expected. To hinder or prevent the efforts, plans, or desires of something or someone. To put in a dangerous, disadvantageous, or difficult position. Queer can also mean a homosexual or arousing homosexual desires or an openly homosexual man.

is an openly homosexual man. Fagot can also mean a bundle of sticks and branches bound together. An ornament or join (fabric) by faggot stitch. To fasten together rods of iron in order to heat or weld them. Bind or tie up in or as if in a faggot.

Pansy is a large-flowered garden plant derived chiefly from the wild pansy of Europe and having velvety petals of various colors. Pansy can also mean a timid man or boy considered childish or unassertive. Pansy can also mean a openly homosexual man.

Sissy is having unsuitable feminine qualities. A timid man or boy considered childish or unassertive. Cautious.

Fairy is a small being, human in form, playful and having magical powers. Fairy can also mean a openly homosexual man.

Queen is the only fertile female in a colony of social insects such as bees and ants and termites; its function is to lay eggs. Queen also means the wife or widow of a king or a female sovereign ruler. Something personified as a woman who is considered the best or most important of her kind. A competitor who holds a preeminent position. One of four face cards in a deck bearing a picture of a queen. In chess the queen is the most powerful piece. Queen can also mean an openly homosexual man.

Homo is someone who practices homosexuality or having a sexual attraction to persons of the same sex. Homo also means any living or extinct member of the family Hominidae characterized by superior intelligence, articulate speech, and erect carriage.

How do you know that someone is different? They're just like you, except they have a different perspective, which proves just how dangerous and illogical that racism is, or any kind of prejudice for that matter. To prejudge someone is like hating yourself for living, or worse, it's hating someone you don't even know, someone who could be a friend, someone who can benefit you and society.

Resources for Sex Education

National Sex Study
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Journal of Adolescent Health
Sexual Health
Teen Sexual Health
Sex Health
Sex Education Links
Institute for Sexual Wellness
Sexual Wellness
Your Sex Health
Institute for Sexuality
American Experience: The Kinsey Study (2005 Book)
Kinsey Institute
The Journal of Sexual Medicine (wiki)
Sexuality in Ancient Rome (wiki)
OK Cupid
Sexual Health (indiana edu)

Sex Education Books

The New Speaking of Sex: What Your Children Need to Know and When They Need to Know It. (amazon)
Teens, Sex and Health A Comprehensive Approach to Sexual Education. (amazon)
The Talk: What Your Kids Need to Hear from You About Sex (amazon)
Sex, Puberty and All That Stuff A Guide to Growing Up. (amazon)
S.E.X.: All-You-Need-To-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide to get you through High School and College (amazon)

Intrapersonal intelligence

The Catcher in the Rye is a controversial novel originally published for adults, it has since become popular with adolescent readers for its themes of teenage angst and alienation. It has been translated into almost all of the world's major languages. Around 1 million copies are sold each year with total sales of more than 65 million books. The novel's protagonist Holden Caulfield has become an icon for teenage rebellion. The novel also deals with complex issues of innocence, identity, belonging, loss, and connection.

Banned Books (censorship)

Videos about Sex

Brain Sex: Why We Fall in Love (youtube) 
The Surprising History of Sex and Love - Terry Jones (netflix)
Pure History Specials Ancient Inventions of Sex (hulu)
Season 1 Episode 115 | Aired on 03/02/2014 | TV-14 | 49:15
Esther Perel: The Secret to Desire in a Long Term Relationship (video)
Sex Talks on TED (videos) 
Christopher Ryan: Are we designed to be sexual omnivores? (video)
Boyfriend - Hunch n Munch (Rap Songs about Sex)  (youtube)
Real Couples Playing Sexy Charades and Sex Positions (youtube)
Sex Factors, Sexual Health, Sexy Secrets for Great Sex, Sex Ed Video Dr. Vincent Bellonzi (youtube)
This Film Is Not Yet Rated (2006 Film)
Indie-Sex (2007 Film)  

So this is education, and sex is just one of over a hundred other subjects that you will be studying in your lifetime..
And it's never been just about Sex, it's about Human Behavior, it's about the Human Body, it's about the Human Mind...
Learning about what it’s like to be a Human.

The Human Condition (human nature)

Aphrodite is the Greek goddess of love, beauty, pleasure, and procreation. She is identified with the planet Venus, and her Roman equivalent is the goddess Venus.

Venus is the Roman goddess whose functions encompassed love, beauty, desire, sex, fertility, prosperity and victory. In Roman mythology, she was the mother of the Roman people through her son, Aeneas, who survived the fall of Troy and fled to Italy. Julius Caesar claimed her as his ancestor. Venus was central to many religious festivals, and was revered in Roman religion under numerous cult titles.

Eros was the Greek god of sexual attraction. Some myths make him a primordial god, while in other myths, he is the son of Aphrodite. He was one of the winged love gods, Erotes. The Greek ἔρως, meaning "desire," comes from ἔραμαι "to desire, love", of uncertain etymology.

The Kiss - Rodin Sculpture Kokopelli Symbol

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